It’s the last day of February, and it’s leap year! So, we get a extra day to celebrate black history month. Black history month means different things for different people. To some it means a tribute to civil rights leaders that inspired change in the 1960’s and 1970’s.
Are you having one of those days when nothing is going right? When you seem anxious or just feel all alone? Well it seemed as if DM-49 was having a day like that. A few weeks ago they found a lump below her right breast. She’s has a surgical procedure scheduled for Friday morning. So she had planned to spend the evening with me watching movies. But I had a emergency with one of my kids, so she decided to come over after 10pm. She didn’t arrive until 1045pm and was very relieved to see me. Now some of you think it’s just about sex, but it’s not. More than often, it’s more than that. DM-49 and I laid across the bed and just talked. She told me about her granddaughter, 3 yr old. Of course, the funny things a grandchild can do is endless. She talks to me about all the idiot customers she encounters at work, and some of the fun projects that she gets to work on. Most of the night was spent with her just spooning with me. Now, I will admit there was sex during part of the night, but it was by her initiating it. Somehow, it turned her on that I was there to hold. I’m not surprised by this, because we all have those days when you want a hug, someone to talk to, or even someone to snuggle with.
Starbucks for a date? Are you kidding me? I’ve had this discussion several times with some of my friends and believe it or not all agree with me. We all know dating can be financially costly for one or both of the people. The one big disagreement I have is who is responsible for the costs of the date. Here’s the facts. The average cost of a dinner date can be anywhere from $50-$100 per couple. That doesn’t include the movie tickets, drinks if you go out, or the cover charge if you want to dance at a club. All of these are normal activities that woman will admit they want to do on a 1st or 2nd date. Would this make a fun date, of course. Am I a cheap date? Some would like to think so.
Tuesday night I invited Sk31 over for a visit. She didn’t arrive until 930pm. I decided I was in the mood to play some pool, so we decided to head to Dallas. One of my favorite hole-in-the wall bars is Salutes. So when we got there, hip-hop was playing on the juke box and people were having fun. I drank water and Sk31 drank Jack & coke. Salutes is neighborhood bar, the kind where the people are friendly and there’s plenty of characters to laugh at. Sk31 informed me, that her parents know she’s dating a black man. I’m not sure how they took the news, but I’m sure we will find out soon enough. We played pool for a couple hours. Long enough for Sk31 to get her buzz on. She had 4 drinks and of course I kept drinking my water. We left Salutes to come home and relax. Once we arrive back at the house, I had a glass of wine and Sk31 had a snack while watching the movie Roll Bounce. She’s never watched the movie before, so I played backgammon online while she was on the sofa. She didn’t realize that the 1970’s were full of weekends at the skating rink, skate contests, Afro’s, bell bottoms and over-sized radios. Eventually, we went to bed. Sk31 enjoys giving hand play. So I spent the next 30 minutes watching TV while she touched, rubbed and stroked me. Well, I finally decided to my focus to her. I rolled her over on top of me in the reverse cowgirl position. She’s was reluctant, because she said it’s never worked before. Immediately upon penetration she climaxed. My 4 post bed began to shake and bump the wall. It wasn’t until we heard my neighbor bang on the wall, did Sk31 quiet down. Actually, she just stuffed part of the comforter in her mouth. From this angle, she was positioned for ecstasy. I think the neighbors banged on the wall about 4-5 more times in the next hour. Sk31 was totally exhausted and quickly rolled over to go to sleep. I woke up in the morning to see her still sleeping. If I had my camera, I would have a new picture of this Sleeping Beauty.
Monday evening I had a couple choices for what I wanted to do. Both options were new introductions. But, I decided to meet LJ36. She and I have been chatting online for the last few days. It was around 8pm when we made plans to meet at Chili’s in Carrollton. I arrived a few minutes early, as usual. Since we’re both sports fans, I got a table in the bar area. I could tell she was a bit nervous, when she arrived. LJ36 has a great smile and large beautiful blue eyes. She’s 5′5″ tall, shoulder length, brown curly hair with a round face, and average build. LJ36 is much more attractive in person. She’s 36 years old and divorced with 3 children. Usually, I’m not interested in someone with more than 2 children, but her kids are teens, which means they are quite busy with their own schedules.
I was in the mood to go out Saturday night. I was thinking of listening to some live music. Maybe going to Memphis in Addison, Down Under Pub in Frisco, Cool Riverin Irving, or some other place to have a drink or two. I planned to take Tammy out with me. Surprisingly to me, she didn’t want to go out. She was in the mood to stay in for some wine. I purchased a bottle of Chardonnay for her, and a bottle of Merlot for me. Tammy didn’t get to my place until 930pm. She was happy to see me and gave me a big kiss. We enjoyed a glass of wine on the sofa while watching a comedy network. We watched a tribute to Richard Pryor. Even years, later Richard Pryor is still funny as hell. We kissed a few times between commercials and had a chance to talk a little. But to my surprise, Tammy was the aggressor in this situation. She slowly straddled me on the sofa and kissed me with all the passion she felt.
Saturday afternoon turned out to be fun. I made plans to meet Steph49 for drinks at Stonebriar Mallin Frisco. Steph is 49, but doesn’t look it or act it. She and I have been chatting for a few days, and finally made plans. So we decided to meet at Dave & Busters for a 4pm drink. I arrived about 10 minutes early and was waiting at the