It’s been a few weeks since DM-49 and I went out.  She’s attempts to get me to come over, but that’s not my normal pattern of behavior.  I like to wake up in my own bed.  Well, DM-49 finally gave in and decided to come over.  We had a chance to watch the new Knight Rider TV show.  We always have a great conversation and plenty of laughs.  It could be because she truly appreciates the true value of companionship.  She is has a busy schedule with her friends and work.  So I only get a chance to spend time with her about 3 times a month.  The one thing I learned tonight was, she doesn’t enjoy spending the night away from home. 

Since this is only the second time she’s been here, she told me I was a comfortable person to spend time with.  We both spent some time replying to texts from friends on our phones.  We managed to sit on the sofa and talk about the TV shows from the 80’s.  It’s easy to flash back on good memories.  The interesting thing about dating a older woman, 11 years older, she enjoys staying for a extended period of time.  So DM-49 spent the night.  She is a snuggler, and likes to rub my ass in my sleep.  I don’t mind because, it’s not a constant rub.  It’s more of a every couple hours type of touch.  Anyway, I woke up around 3am with her coughing.  But she went back to sleep quickly.  It was around 6 am when she decided to get up, go home, and the off to work. 

I was reminded by some regular readers, I’ve never spoke of DM-49.  So here’s some background on her.  DM-49 met me during the Christmas holidays.  Yes, she’s 49 years old, 5′8″ tall, with piercing blue eyes.  She has shoulder length brown hair.  She’s divorced with 2 children, and has never dated a black man before.  She’s socially active and isn’t the normal 49 yr old woman.  What’s normal?  She likes to go out for drinks, dancing, movies, and play pool.  And for those that wonder, she doesn’t even look her age at all.  She could pass for around 7-8 years younger.  In my opinion, a older woman is beautiful.  Especially if she’s taken care of her body and mind.  I know this is my thoughts as a guy, but I also found it interesting when I was reading the thoughts of a older woman at http://simple-mindz.net/2008/02/17/older-woman-younger-guy/ .  Maybe DM-49 decided to conquer two barriers at the same time, age and race.  It goes to show that it’s common ground that makes relationships work, in any capacity.

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