Saturday’s weather was beautiful.? I spent most of the day relaxing, writing, and enjoying the warm sun.? I was in Addison most of the afternoon.? There’s a lot of single people in that area, so it’s a good place to meet people.? Originally I didn’t have any plans for Saturday night.? I came home to shower and get dressed to go out.? I was pleasantly surprised to get a email from?HF48, who wanted to go out.? HF48 is a 48 year old divorced woman.? She’s 5’3″ tall, long blond hair, brown eyes, petite, great hips and ass. Physically, she’s attractive.? She’s a English teacher and plays tennis regularly.??Our plan was to play pool and have a couple?drinks.? We agreed to?meet at Cafe Geko in West Plano.? It’s a nice trendy bar with a great location.? I’ve driven by this place before, but this was my 1st time there.? It’s definitely a 30′s crowd.??HF48 arrived?15 minutes after I did.? I met her last week at the tennis center.? She seemed?nice and you never know what could happen.? Well, this was the most normal part of the evening.? Within 5 minutes, I realized she was a emotional?mess.? S
he’s normally dates younger men.? Somehow the younger man?offers her more energy,?physically in better shape, and?more sexual presence.? Her fears is they will lose interest in her and move on to a younger woman.? She is dealing with a internal conflict.? Younger men also bring younger children.? All of her children are adults, and she doesn’t want to?start over with young children again.? She thinks in a couple years, she will be no longer desirable to date for younger or older men.? Basically, she has a long list of issues.? It was overwhelming.? Honestly, I needed another beer!? I’m not sure how someone could unload all of this on the 1st date, within the 1st hour.? Most of the time I was listening to her.? I barely spoke about myself or anything else.? I must admit, this saved me a lot of time.? I would rather know right away that someone has issues, than to find out weeks later.? I knew that she wasn’t a compatible love connection for me.? So I suggested we leave Geko and go somewhere different.? She was opposed to this idea, but it was the only way for me to make it known that I didn’t have any romantic interest.? It also made it?known to everyone at Geko, we’re not a couple.? You never know if I decide to go back there on a different night to hang out.? The only thing I had on my mind was to make the best of a bad situation?and possibly have some company for the next couple hours.? So we left and went to another bar in Dallas to play pool.???Going to the next bar changed the whole mood of the evening.? Maybe it was obvious that I would be a better friend than a mate.? HF48 is a rare case.? Emotionally, she?is juvenile and fragile.? After a couple hours of playing pool, I ended the night with a big hug and a Hollywood cheek kiss.? I’d say I dodged a bullet tonight.? It could?have been?much worse.?
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