Tuesday evening was a relaxing date at Starbucks.  I met RJ43 there.  RJ43 is a divorced 43 year old, 5′4″ tall with medium brown hair, dark brown eyed, Italian woman.  She has 2 wonderful children.  I met her 2 years ago.  We dated for a few months and then abruptly stopped.  There were several reasons why it happened, but mainly because of a miscommunication.  I was truly attracted to her and was trying to get to know her better when we stopped dating.  The last time I saw her was Mother’s Day last year.  I took her out for brunch, shopping and just spent the whole day with her.  Since then, she contacts me every few months to say hi.  She’s always friendly.  She even text me to tell me how much fun she had with me sexually.  I was surprised because I thought she had lost interest in me.  I found out from her, she thought I had lost interest in her also.  When she arrived, she gave me a big hug.  She looked a bit tired and worn out, but it was great to see her.  Starbucks is a great place to be relaxed and talk.  It’s a neutral place for both us.  There weren’t many people there, so we had plenty of privacy.  She and I caught up on  general stuff from the last year.  Some of the problems with her children, her non-existing dating life, and her work.  She wishes I lived in my old neighborhood.  It was only a couple blocks from her home.  It made it easy for us to date.  We called it being geographically desireable.  I know we have history, but for a brief moment I was focused on how much she’s aged and how much weight she’s gained in the last couple years.  I believe it’s because of stress.  I also began to wonder if we were spending time together just because of our unfinished past.  Was it because of our sexual energy?  I put that behind me, just relaxed and enjoyed her company.  I could tell she was a bit nervous, because when it was time to say good night, she wasn’t sure what I wanted to do.  I leaned over and gave her a hug, and gave her a gentle kiss.  Yes, the kiss was a good one.  The passion was still there.  I knew I shouldn’t seduce her.  I want to really give this relationship a fair chance of survival.  We made plans to go out for wine in 2 weeks.  I’m really looking forward to seeing her again. 

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