I got a new phone this weekend.  WOO HOOO!  The previous one was only a year old.  It did what I needed it to do, call and text.  The big problem was, it gave me ear problems.  Some how the frequency of the speaker made my ear hurt.  So I traded it for a new Centro.  I must say I’m in love!.  I text my friend SS, “I’m addicted and in love with my phone”.  It does everything I need it to do and things I couldn’t dream of.  On my old phone I could go days with out talking on it and would never miss it.  So now I’m thinking it’s been 10 days and counting.  Yes, I’ve gone 10 days with out sex.  I’m sure some of my loyal readers can’t believe it.  Is something wrong with me? NO!  Actually, I’m doing great.  Am I changing my approach?  Not totally.  I’m sure I have several options in my new cell phone.  I could text, email, or even call to arrange several dates.  That’s not my issue.  My issue is the type of woman I’m looking for.  As I’ve become older, my list of requirements have been come more stringent.  Years ago I would accept a woman who smokes.  Not any longer.  Thursday Nigel asked me about my date with PM40 on Wednesday.  I told him it was a good date, but I found out she smokes occasionally.  Well, I’ve thought about it and I’ve brushed off better looking women because they smoked.  I don’t want kiss a ash tray every morning.  I don’t want to have my cloths smelling like smoke.  I surely don’t want to deal with other health issues later in life with the woman who didn’t take care of themselves.  I’ve taken some time lately to refine my expectations.  Ultimately, I would like to meet someone who takes their health seriously, who enjoys life, has a true sense of identity, and social awareness.  I’ve read my previous posts and really thought about the different things that made my dates attractive and what made them end.  It’s amazing that as much as you want to look past faults, we can’t.  It’s more than just taking care of our physical needs of sex.  It’s the conversation we have.  It’s the vacation we go on.  It’s our trust in our partner that makes our futures bond.  Some how I’m waiting for my new phone date.  I’m sure it will be great and it won’t hurt my ears.  But it’s the stuff that you don’t expect.  I don’t need someone to cook, clean, or help raise my kids.  I want all the other things that aren’t expected.  I’m sure when I find it, I’ll text my friend SS - “I’m hooked, I’m in love!” 

I’m trying to give you, my readers, more of me emotionally.  Trying to connect more with my readers.  So, I have a new goal.  I’m going to give more to my dates, emotionally.  Connect more!  Feel more!  Experience more!

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