Length Matters?

by Eathan

Yesterday I found an article that was very interesting.? I shared it with a couple friends.??Most of them are women, none agree with the article.? When it comes to sex, length of time matters.? I have several issues with the article.? According to this article, the optimal length of time for sex is 3 minutes to 13 minutes.? Are you kidding me?clock? They said the woman were armed with a stop watch. This only includes sex, not foreplay.? I’m still in shock!? I can’t imagine that was it,?unless that’s the only amount of time available.? Now I consider myself a normal guy, but I’m just getting started at the 15 minute mark.? I’ve never had any complaints from any of my sexual partners.? I’m sure they don’t want 3-13 minutes either.? So if?I figure the average time is 7.5 minutes, I don’t think?I would ever get a second date.? The other factor in this article that wasn’t clear,?are they referring?to couples as dating or married?? Either way,?I always seem to think sex should last as long as your partner is enjoying?it.? If my partner is achieving the big?’O', I don’t want to stop.? Are there any women who are just happy with one moment of satisfaction?? I appreciate her having a few more.? I want her to have more.? In-fact, I’m insulted if she only has one.? Does this explain why I’m the go to guy??

I think I might buy the May issue of the Journal of Sexual Medicine.??I need more details on this study.? I wonder if this study shows ages, ethnicity, dating couple, and married couples.? Honestly, I won’t take the time to get undressed for 13 minutes.? So if the next time you’re having sex and you realize it’s been?8 minutes, you’re man is above average.? If it’s been 15 minutes, your man should have a cape and a big S printed on?his chest.? I’m not a sex therapist, but maybe?I should be.?

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  • jodicoyotee
    Ok, I agree that quickies are quickies but come on why waste the condom on a quickie? Wjo really gets anything out of that? I've had a good quickie but honestly dont you feel like you've been teased when it's quick? I know I do.
    I recently was withith a guy (first time for me) that uses a male enhancement drug. OH MY GOD !!! He can go forever try 30 to 45 min. ladies . Now that may be stretching it a bit and you have to work harder for him to get his but you sure can take advantage of getting yours 4 ,5 six times before he gets even one and he's just as excited as the first time.. And then 30 min later you can hit it again.. So yeah, I'd say length matters.
    I've also been with guys who have no help from drugs and can cum and still continue and get hard again in a few minutes with a little oral stimuli, so I guess it just depends on the guy. It hardly seems fair though that they get all the control.....
  • ashantii
    Well, just as it's not the size of the boat, it's the motion of the ocean....it's not the always the quantity of time but the quality of it. Sometimes I can get quality in a short amount of time....depends on the driver. :) And, as you said, throw kids, baseball, PTA and other life distractions into the equation...and that's all the time you got, so let's make it work is what I say. Now, having said that, there's a time for fu$$%*g and there's a time for making sweet, sweet love. Sweet, sweet, love takes time...you don't want to start that on a Monday at 5:00 p.m. with a crowded house and PTA at 6:00. But you waaannnt it, you neeeed it, you feeeeeel it, and there's your 3-13 minutes, cause' that's all you can spare. Now, there's nothing and I mean nothing worse than not getting yours by being with a man who wants to rush you through the moment and doesn't take the time (and it takes time), so that we all leave happy. If I have to stay up and entertain myself after you've gone or fallen asleep because you didn't take the time, I'm not happy or turned on. But if you're with the right one and you have 0-13 minutes, it can be a turn on, and it's on wayyyyy before it's over.
  • Yes a quickie can occur if that is the only available time. but that is rare unless the kids are outside playing or something. But if I take all my experiences and put my quickies in there...it's still not gonna bring my average down to 7.5 minutes...or even 13 minutes..

    And yes i enjoy sex too. and thanks for the compliment Pixie :)
  • Pixie
    Whether or not I reach the big "O" I enjoy sex. And 3-13 minutes isn't even worth getting undressed for! That sounds more like a "quickie" and you certainly don't have to be undressed for that.

    ( And yes, I'd have to say you have not been 'average' in my experience )
  • If I'm already moist and reved up I can reach the big "O" within the 3-13 minute time span, or sooner. However, I'm the type of woman that wants more and more and more and if you stop while I'm on cloud 9 or before I get the chance to tease you...I'll be upset. I like to take time to please my partner but baby to fully please me, you need to give more than an average man. 3-13 minutes isn't even foreplay but it is a reason to not get a second chance.
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