Saturday night I decided to stay home and watch movies.  I ended up watching a teen movie out of my dvr, John Tucker Must Die.  This movie was entertaining, but it also reminded me of my high school years.  You could change all the character’s names and the story would be the same. 

Some how at a young age, men get used to being pursued by women.  At certain times, we say exactly what a woman wants to hear.  Women learn to compete for the same guy against 3 other women.  Women only seem to get mad when they find out about the other women.  The names have changed, but the game remains the same.  I live this movie daily.  It’s not as easy as it was when I was 17, but I realize all my dates provide something different for me.  So during the movie, LG32 called to come over.  I told her if she wanted to come and watch movies, I’d be happy to hang out with her.  It has been a while since the last time we saw each other.  Actually, she’s been  avoiding me because she was embarrassed from our last date.  She didn’t get here until 11pm.  She wanted me to watch a movie called Office Space.  I’ve never heard of the movie before, but it was funny.  We ended up have a few glasses of wine while watching the movie.  LG32 was a little shy at first, but then I asked her if she had any other problems with her ring.  She laughed and said no.  She swore that has never, ever happened before.  I joked with her to insert it further next time.  The intersting thing about her, she’s is heavily involved in her church.  Now, I’m happy for anyone who feels the need to go to church.  I just think she’s trying to deal with some of her unsettled issues.  She is a very insecure woman.  LG32 admits she struggles with the idea of not having sex with out a relationship.  I think that is why she drinks around me.  That way it will ease her conscience.  I know having moral beliefs is a good thing, but i’m not sure how that will give her the emotional relief she’s looking for.  What I find humorous is, she will have sex with me when she’s horny and then avoid me for weeks.  Why not just be consistant and have sex all the time.  Is it the guilt that bothers her?  After watching the movie, she invited me to church.  Don’t get me wrong, I go to church when I’m in the mood for it.  But I just feel there’s a happy medium between being over zealous or a hypocrite.  So the big question now is, how long will it be until she comes to see me again?  I still believe some of the most sexual women are church goers.  Maybe they have all that sexual energy built up and no way to release it.  LG32 left for home around 2:30am.  It’s taken a while, but I’m starting to understand her a little more.  

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