Comments on: PT35 Shocker http://idatewhite.com/2008/04/30/pt35-shocker/ Interracial Dating, Relationships & Parenting Sat, 31 Jul 2010 21:17:11 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0 By: ashantiihttp://idatewhite.com/2008/04/30/pt35-shocker/comment-page-1/#comment-262 ashantii Fri, 02 May 2008 04:44:15 +0000 http://idatewhite.com/2008/04/30/pt35-shocker/#comment-262 What a drag. Don't sit around and come up with "what if's" about this situation. If it were over and they weren't together anymore, it seems she would have said so considering she was on DATE WITH YOU. I'm a pretty practical person and a realist and so my first thoughts are "looks like a duck, walks like a duck....must be an engaged duck"....period. Sure, it may be an open relationship, they may be swingers and she's warming you up or, and here's that realist in me, she may be a woman who cheats on her man, period. I would have been open for conversation about it, but that conversation should have happened that night and not another. I mean, why wait for the answer to a question that is a deal breaker? What was wrong with getting that very important question out of the way at that moment? What a drag. Don’t sit around and come up with “what if’s” about this situation. If it were over and they weren’t together anymore, it seems she would have said so considering she was on DATE WITH YOU. I’m a pretty practical person and a realist and so my first thoughts are “looks like a duck, walks like a duck….must be an engaged duck”….period. Sure, it may be an open relationship, they may be swingers and she’s warming you up or, and here’s that realist in me, she may be a woman who cheats on her man, period. I would have been open for conversation about it, but that conversation should have happened that night and not another. I mean, why wait for the answer to a question that is a deal breaker? What was wrong with getting that very important question out of the way at that moment?

]]> By: eathanhttp://idatewhite.com/2008/04/30/pt35-shocker/comment-page-1/#comment-260 eathan Thu, 01 May 2008 02:51:41 +0000 http://idatewhite.com/2008/04/30/pt35-shocker/#comment-260 I agree with you. I'm just going to relax and wait to see how it plays out. I agree with you. I’m just going to relax and wait to see how it plays out.

]]> By: John Simpsonhttp://idatewhite.com/2008/04/30/pt35-shocker/comment-page-1/#comment-259 John Simpson Thu, 01 May 2008 02:47:55 +0000 http://idatewhite.com/2008/04/30/pt35-shocker/#comment-259 White, black, green...they all play games. I think she wants her cake and wants to eat it too. She may be too much for J to handle. It really depends how you feel about her as to what I'd suggest. Regardless, don't act jealous. That will be playing right into her hand. That's my .02.<em>John Simpson's last blog post..<a href='http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/SpendingLess101/~3/280933670/' rel="nofollow">The Dollar Store: Good and Bad</a></em> White, black, green…they all play games. I think she wants her cake and wants to eat it too. She may be too much for J to handle. It really depends how you feel about her as to what I’d suggest. Regardless, don’t act jealous. That will be playing right into her hand. That’s my .02.

John Simpson’s last blog post..The Dollar Store: Good and Bad

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