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[16 Apr 2008 | 3 Comments | ]

This is a topic I’ve wanted to write about for a while.  Everyone has a opinion on what they think is the right or wrong way of doing it. One of the most important things in a relationship is communication.  No one will disagree with that statement.  It doesn’t matter if it’s a friendship or a romantic relationship, communication is key.  It’s 2008 and people still bitch about communication.  Why?  It’s because they don’t like the results they get.  There still are those old school women who are offended by …

 
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[14 Apr 2008 | 4 Comments | ]

Last night was the final home game of the year for the Frisco Thunder arena football team.  I decided to go to the game for some fun.  It was fan appreciation night.  They were giving out free T-shirts, footballs, frisbees, and other gifts.  There was a great music and a good game.  I ended up watching the game from the North end of the arena.  From that part of the arena, I could watch the game and still watch all the people walking around.  I ended up standing at the bar between a group of guys …

 
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[14 Apr 2008 | One Comment | ]

Lately my dating life has slowed down a bit.  Actually almost to a halt for the last week.  I decided to do something different on Sunday.  I met RG37 for drinks at On The Border.  RG37 is a Hispanic woman.  She’s a 37 year old woman.  She’s never been married and has no children.  I must say that’s not a common thing.  She’s 5′2″ tall, shoulder length black hear, brown eyes, and the whitest teeth I’ve ever seen.  She should do a toothpaste commercial.  She was a average sized Hispanic woman.  She …

Actual Dates, Got Questions »

[9 Apr 2008 | No Comment | ]

In the last couple weeks, I’ve received a couple emails from women who want to know where are some good places to meet black men.  It varies and depends on the type of man you’re trying to attract.  It also depends on where you live.  Every area is different.  I’ve come up with a list of the Top 5 Under Rated Places to Meet Black Men.  This could apply to any man, but this spin fits my site. 

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[8 Apr 2008 | 3 Comments | ]

Karma is a name of a girl I met in South Beach a few years ago, but today it’s also the dark cloud that lingers.  Not for me, but I’m watching the dark cloud over someone else.  A few weeks ago, I met BC40 who thought I didn’t look 5′11″.  I even had a follow up conversation that I added to the post.  Basically she let me know, “I have found a man that wants me for who I am, not who he wants me to be..I’ve only known him for a month, but we …

 
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[7 Apr 2008 | 5 Comments | ]

I think I need a vacation.  Yes, I do need a vacation!  The last couple weeks have been a bit boring for me.  I was sick for a few days and I haven’t been dating anyone on a consistent basis.  Why?  No one has been able to maintain my attention.  I’ve been on a few dates and I’ve even met couple nice women when I’m out with my friends.  For what ever reason, I don’t feel a strong enough connection to go further.  Or, I might just be lazy.  I know it’s …

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[6 Apr 2008 | 2 Comments | ]

Yesterday the weather was spectacular.  It was sunny, 85 degrees and great for people watching.  So I decided to meet Nigel at sidewalk cafe in Las Colinas.  I just wanted to have a couple beers and enjoy the sunshine.  Nigel and I normally hang out and discuss normal dating topics.  Since he and I are busy professionals, sometimes it’s easier to use online dating services to meet women.  Both of us notice similar things about women.  We noticed a nice looking woman in her 40’s on the patio with a date …

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[3 Apr 2008 | 6 Comments | ]

Yesterday I found an article that was very interesting.  I shared it with a couple friends.  Most of them are women, none agree with the article.  When it comes to sex, length of time matters.  I have several issues with the article.  According to this article, the optimal length of time for sex is 3 minutes to 13 minutes.  Are you kidding me?  They said the woman were armed with a stop watch. This only includes sex, not foreplay.  I’m still in shock!  I can’t imagine that was it, unless that’s the …

 
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[1 Apr 2008 | 4 Comments | ]

OK, I’ve been saying that I will share more with my readers.  So the best time for me to start is now.  Well I decided to go out for drinks last night.  I ended up at one of my favorite places, Chili’s.  I normally sit in the bar area and watch the Mavs game while I eat.  This was no different from any other visit.  The Mavs where playing the Clippers.  Yes the NBA’s historical losing team.  Well with out Dirk, the Mavs look sick.  That’s ok, i was getting …