Comments on: Intimate Moments

By: eathan

eathan — Sun, 11 May 2008 08:01:15 +0000

Sthrnclss why are we still commenting on this post.. why not move forward to the next one? I’m not sure how much more of your opinion is left to be said.. but I’m sure it was clear the first 2 times you commented. Anyway.. The story has moved on… and everyone is happy. Keep up with the action! lol

By: SthrnClss

SthrnClss — Sun, 11 May 2008 01:09:00 +0000

LOL @ no strings approached. Sorry but if you don’t expect enough respect from someone you are out with (even someone who you are “just friends” with, and being intimate with someone takes them out of the “just friends” category IMHO) then for them to not leave you for 45 minutes to chat with other women, all I can say is wow! You can have no strings with respect from the person you are with.

Nowhere (in my post at least) was the word desperate used, hmmmmm wonder whose sub conscious that came from.

But again I say, he knows the type women who will put up with what he does and how he does it and he uses it to his advantage, good for him.

And believe me, being made to “feel special” in your alone time isn’t that special, if you are choosing the right type of man to spend alone time with. Secure? LOL what does secure have to do with being one of many? ROFL now that was funny.

Do be so touchy, you know you’re one of many, if you are ok with that, what’s the deal. If all you want is good for you type comments ….oh well sorry. Good with the bad….

By: JP39

JP39 — Wed, 07 May 2008 21:36:32 +0000

Well, in my opinion if you, (personally you), go out to meet a friend and they know what you’re about in advance who cares who you stop and talk to or for how long. You weren’t “intimate” with the woman you stopped to talk to. you were being social just like you write about. If your date is comfortable with it who cares what the rest of the world thinks. The point is jp39 knew what to expect. No expectations!!!! And obviously she wasnt insecure about the situation between you two or she probably would have just walked out.. During the time you spend with her alone you must make her feel special and secure enough to know that it doesnt matter who you talk to during the night just who you end up with at the end of the night.
And to your previous writer just because someone puts up with your life style it doesnt make them desperate. It makes them free. Some woman like the no strings approach.

By: SthrnClss

SthrnClss — Tue, 06 May 2008 01:25:41 +0000

I will say I’m constantly amazed at what women will put up with and say and do to be with a man.

Good for you, you know the type and you use that to your advantage. ….do what ya do……

By: eathan

eathan — Mon, 05 May 2008 17:59:50 +0000

Cindy, I am the same person all the time. I’m true to myself and with myself. Anyone who knows me or spends time with me understands that. I’m sure you are realizing that when ya read this site.

By: Cindy

Cindy — Mon, 05 May 2008 17:50:45 +0000

Ha ha ha! In regard to SthrnClss’s opinion about the way your spent your time while you were at OTB w/ JP39. Well, in my opinion, you were being you. You have your life posted as an open book. Have always been honest and straight forward about whom you are & what you desire. I am sure that your “date” already knows that. I find it hard to believe she had no clue that you would be by her for ever second you were at OTB. You don’t deny who you are, how your feelings are, what type of personality your have, what desires you have, what questions you seek. So what is the problem? And yes, intimate moments vary……I am sure you meant no disrespect to JP39. You have never portrayed yourself as a disrespectful person. You are an extravert & very flirtacious. What is wrong with that? It is fine in my book. People love to judge extravert’s-more so than an intravert, in my opionion. One thing you need to remember is to Remember to be ialways be intimate with yourself, your passions, your desires, your dreams, your heart & soul & your fantasies! Don’t ever let someone have to power to rob that from you.

By: SthrnClss

SthrnClss — Sun, 04 May 2008 11:23:13 +0000

It seems to me you were disrespectful of your “date”. You had gone to OTB specifically to meet this person for drinks. You then walked away from her to use the facilities and on your way back stopped and spent 45 minutes flirting with other women. While I am aware you aren’t in an exclusive relationship with the woman you were meeting for drinks, you did go there to meet her. To stop and essentially leave her alone (yep the other woman was there, but her date could have shown up before you came out of the mens room) for 45 minutes while you flirted with other women was disrespectful to her. It does however fit your “I’m the center of the universe and the life of the party” persona and if the women who meet you will put up with it and don’t mind, well then, ……do what you do. Just my opinion.

By: eathan

eathan — Sun, 04 May 2008 07:26:46 +0000

Usually people who know me verify that. haha
Thanks for the comment Beth aka Elizabeth.

By: Elizabeth aka Beth

Elizabeth aka Beth — Sun, 04 May 2008 07:18:29 +0000

Yep, you’re an asshole!

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Elizabeth aka Beth