Comments on: Dinner with MC31 http://idatewhite.com/2008/05/05/dinner-with-mc31/ Interracial Dating, Relationships & Parenting Sat, 31 Jul 2010 21:17:11 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0 By: eathanhttp://idatewhite.com/2008/05/05/dinner-with-mc31/comment-page-1/#comment-389 eathan Sat, 31 May 2008 23:01:42 +0000 http://idatewhite.com/2008/05/05/dinner-with-mc31/#comment-389 Makes no difference to you huh...lolOh Ok.. Makes no difference to you huh…lol

Oh Ok..

]]> By: TW38http://idatewhite.com/2008/05/05/dinner-with-mc31/comment-page-1/#comment-388 TW38 Sat, 31 May 2008 22:59:37 +0000 http://idatewhite.com/2008/05/05/dinner-with-mc31/#comment-388 LMAO... ok... whatever "eathan". Keep telling yourself anything and everything you want to hear. Makes me no difference... I was just posting and commenting as you continously ask people to do. LMAO… ok… whatever “eathan”. Keep telling yourself anything and everything you want to hear. Makes me no difference… I was just posting and commenting as you continously ask people to do.

]]> By: eathanhttp://idatewhite.com/2008/05/05/dinner-with-mc31/comment-page-1/#comment-385 eathan Sat, 31 May 2008 20:05:04 +0000 http://idatewhite.com/2008/05/05/dinner-with-mc31/#comment-385 Me pushing people's buttons didn't refer to anything that has happened with you or in this post. You're taking it out of context. I wouldn't classify it as a date, because IF we had the conversation over the telephone, there would have been no need to go to Humperdink's..I will appologize for you being confused. Now that things are clearer to you...I hope you are ok with it..and able to see past it. Me pushing people’s buttons didn’t refer to anything that has happened with you or in this post. You’re taking it out of context. I wouldn’t classify it as a date, because IF we had the conversation over the telephone, there would have been no need to go to Humperdink’s..

I will appologize for you being confused. Now that things are clearer to you…I hope you are ok with it..and able to see past it.

]]> By: TW38http://idatewhite.com/2008/05/05/dinner-with-mc31/comment-page-1/#comment-384 TW38 Sat, 31 May 2008 19:48:24 +0000 http://idatewhite.com/2008/05/05/dinner-with-mc31/#comment-384 I could not have said it better myself Ashantii. I will leave it at that. But....unfortunately he will never see or come to understand the meaning of everything you said. He is not going to come to that "OMG" level and realize his words are very hurtful to people, because he doesn't care. He informed me that day of our last date, of what I thought was a date and he says was not (sound familuar), that is he knows how to push peoples buttons and has no problem doing it when he does not like you. This is the reason that so many of us are tired of the whole dating thing. It seems like a project to most when all it does is let us down even more. It gets very tiring... I could not have said it better myself Ashantii. I will leave it at that. But….unfortunately he will never see or come to understand the meaning of everything you said. He is not going to come to that “OMG” level and realize his words are very hurtful to people, because he doesn’t care. He informed me that day of our last date, of what I thought was a date and he says was not (sound familuar), that is he knows how to push peoples buttons and has no problem doing it when he does not like you. This is the reason that so many of us are tired of the whole dating thing. It seems like a project to most when all it does is let us down even more. It gets very tiring…

]]> By: Sushi with MC31 | I Date Whitehttp://idatewhite.com/2008/05/05/dinner-with-mc31/comment-page-1/#comment-382 Sushi with MC31 | I Date White Sat, 31 May 2008 05:28:06 +0000 http://idatewhite.com/2008/05/05/dinner-with-mc31/#comment-382 [...] I had dinner with MC31.? She text me and wanted me to join her for sushi at Fujiyama.? After our last experience there, she wanted to go back.? We agreed to meet after work, 530pm.? That worked out well, I was [...] [...] I had dinner with MC31.? She text me and wanted me to join her for sushi at Fujiyama.? After our last experience there, she wanted to go back.? We agreed to meet after work, 530pm.? That worked out well, I was [...]

]]> By: Change Is Coming | I Date Whitehttp://idatewhite.com/2008/05/05/dinner-with-mc31/comment-page-1/#comment-307 Change Is Coming | I Date White Wed, 14 May 2008 05:06:20 +0000 http://idatewhite.com/2008/05/05/dinner-with-mc31/#comment-307 [...] slut, player, or what ever you want to call me.? Recently I had a heart to heart conversation with MC31.? As a faithful reader, you know we have agreed to always tell each other the truth.? She asked [...] [...] slut, player, or what ever you want to call me.? Recently I had a heart to heart conversation with MC31.? As a faithful reader, you know we have agreed to always tell each other the truth.? She asked [...]

]]> By: ashantiihttp://idatewhite.com/2008/05/05/dinner-with-mc31/comment-page-1/#comment-289 ashantii Thu, 08 May 2008 05:20:12 +0000 http://idatewhite.com/2008/05/05/dinner-with-mc31/#comment-289 You see, this is exactly why you shouldn't "kiss and tell". The idea of this site was a great one, at first. You were blogging about your dating, views on dating inter racially. You used "code names" for your dates and escapades for confidentiality and it seemed harmless. Let's face it, no woman that I know would be okay about some guy blogging about our dates and personal sex life. It would be the ultimate betrayal in any relationship whether it included sex or not. It was fine and innocent when it was kept to code names and confidential.But, you took it to a whole other level when you decided to post about someone you met from this "project" of yours. And that's really where the fun stops and it just turns into something mean and childish. It's as if it's all a project to you and you've forgotten that these are people that you affect and influence and there's a certain level of responsibility that comes with that and frankly, you failed JP in that regard. Date or no date, whatever, read her post above and tell me that she hasn't been hurt or influenced over this and you have yourself to blame for that.You strike me as a man who's full of himself; full of "bluster and bluff and empty show". A man who thinks getting laid more than once a week means, what....you're the man? Okay, you're the man. And so now you're the man who couldn't just be flattered that a woman would want to meet you from this project you've come up with. That you couldn't have just had a personal, private relationship with JP and kept "this one" to yourself knowing that she knows of this site.I think what you've done in this situation is not only tacky, rude and unbecoming....it's mean at it's very core and speaks volumes of who you are, what kind of a man you are and more importantly, what kind of a mate you would be. Shallow and self-serving. Next. You see, this is exactly why you shouldn’t “kiss and tell”. The idea of this site was a great one, at first. You were blogging about your dating, views on dating inter racially. You used “code names” for your dates and escapades for confidentiality and it seemed harmless. Let’s face it, no woman that I know would be okay about some guy blogging about our dates and personal sex life. It would be the ultimate betrayal in any relationship whether it included sex or not. It was fine and innocent when it was kept to code names and confidential.

But, you took it to a whole other level when you decided to post about someone you met from this “project” of yours. And that’s really where the fun stops and it just turns into something mean and childish. It’s as if it’s all a project to you and you’ve forgotten that these are people that you affect and influence and there’s a certain level of responsibility that comes with that and frankly, you failed JP in that regard. Date or no date, whatever, read her post above and tell me that she hasn’t been hurt or influenced over this and you have yourself to blame for that.

You strike me as a man who’s full of himself; full of “bluster and bluff and empty show”. A man who thinks getting laid more than once a week means, what….you’re the man? Okay, you’re the man. And so now you’re the man who couldn’t just be flattered that a woman would want to meet you from this project you’ve come up with. That you couldn’t have just had a personal, private relationship with JP and kept “this one” to yourself knowing that she knows of this site.

I think what you’ve done in this situation is not only tacky, rude and unbecoming….it’s mean at it’s very core and speaks volumes of who you are, what kind of a man you are and more importantly, what kind of a mate you would be. Shallow and self-serving. Next.

]]> By: jp39http://idatewhite.com/2008/05/05/dinner-with-mc31/comment-page-1/#comment-287 jp39 Wed, 07 May 2008 22:34:09 +0000 http://idatewhite.com/2008/05/05/dinner-with-mc31/#comment-287 Ok some how I feel like the joke is on me. And you know what some how I just dont care!!!!! I am a bit embarrassed though because i cant find the blog about me to either defend myself or go cry in a corner. ANd if you did say something insensitive about me your still "sleeping " with me so I must not be that much too heavy or that bad in bed. Or maybe I am just a "time out" who knows..... Ok some how I feel like the joke is on me. And you know what some how I just dont care!!!!! I am a bit embarrassed though because i cant find the blog about me to either defend myself or go cry in a corner. ANd if you did say something insensitive about me your still “sleeping ” with me so I must not be that much too heavy or that bad in bed. Or maybe I am just a “time out” who knows…..

]]> By: eathanhttp://idatewhite.com/2008/05/05/dinner-with-mc31/comment-page-1/#comment-285 eathan Wed, 07 May 2008 21:34:55 +0000 http://idatewhite.com/2008/05/05/dinner-with-mc31/#comment-285 Yes traffic... And since most of the readers get updates via email.. which doesn't show on any of the sites counters ( feed counts & site counter) you would never see it. And my full quote was.. "I'm a Asshole and a dick at times" I'm sure you'll reply again because you hate for someone else to have the last word. haha Yes traffic… And since most of the readers get updates via email.. which doesn’t show on any of the sites counters ( feed counts & site counter) you would never see it.
And my full quote was.. “I’m a Asshole and a dick at times” I’m sure you’ll reply again because you hate for someone else to have the last word. haha

]]> By: ashantiihttp://idatewhite.com/2008/05/05/dinner-with-mc31/comment-page-1/#comment-284 ashantii Wed, 07 May 2008 21:32:21 +0000 http://idatewhite.com/2008/05/05/dinner-with-mc31/#comment-284 "And yes, I?m a asshole and a dick..." Those are your words.....I"ll just agree. “And yes, I?m a asshole and a dick…” Those are your words…..I”ll just agree.

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