Could This Be Revenge?
Sunday started out to be a boring day, but it ended far from that. Last night after the concert I ended up chatting with SK31 via yahoo messenger. Sk31 found this site and wasn’t happy about what I wrote about her. Maybe it was because I was a bit intoxicated that I tolerated the conversation. But it ended badly, of course. I didn’t realize the effects until this morning.
I got a phone call from TW38 and all the pieces came together. SK31 and TW38 know each other. OMG! What’s the chances of this happening.
They are no longer friends and don’t even want to be nice to each other. The interesting thing is they met because they were next door neighbors. TW38 worked for the apartment complex where they lived and had to talk to SK31 about a noise complaint from her apartment. It was because of the noise complaint that SK31 found out her boyfriend was cheating on her. He was sexing another woman while she was out of town and the neighbors complained about the moaning at 3am. Anyway, they became really good friends and did every thing together for over a year. July 2007 was the last time they spoke and they still don’t like each other to this day. So TW38 and I decided to meet for lunch at Humperdinks so that she could give me all the details on SK31. Long story short is, SK31 is fukked up more than I knew, full of drama and I was smart for cutting her loose. The funny part comes when I, as a guy, become skeptic. I’m not sure which one of these two women I should believe. Should I believe either one? Maybe they are planning to get some kind of revenge on me. I mean women do this sometimes. I don’t want be another Carrie Underwood song title. So when the bill comes Tw38 says it’s her treat. She insisted on paying. I was ok with that. TW38 can’t find her credit card. You’re kidding right? No…she can’t find her credit card. I know that my black ass isn’t going towards the door with out the bill being paid. They would tackle me and treat me like Rodney King. Between the both of us we have a total of $23 in cash. I didn’t even have my wallet with me, because she wanted to treat. Since I rode with her, she has to leave to go home to get it. Initially, I didn’t think anything about her leaving me there. But after a few minutes I began to think, could this be a plan for two angry bitches to get back at me? Oh shit..it’s been 15 minutes and she’s not back yet. It’s been 20 minutes and she’s not back yet. So I begin to text some of my friends that are usually at Duke’s on Sundays, which is only 1 block away. Then I realize my phone is almost dead. I begin to freak a little. I just needed a back up plan, in case I needed someone to spot me $20. So about this time I text her to say, how far are you. No reply. The waiter is circling the table like a great Latino shark and I’m getting nervous. At the exact moment I picked up my phone to call someone, she walks in the door. Damn that was close. I will never leave my wallet in my car, ever! She apologize and said she was very embarrassed.
But once again, this proves the interracial dating scene in Dallas is a very small world.
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Hard to tell. You just may be the common ground needed to fix whatever went wrong in their friendship. Nothing says bonding like plotting. Then again it could be just what it appeared to be. Either way sounds a little like TW38 may have a little drama thing going on too!
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I tried to buy beer last night only to discover that I left my ID in my other pants when the BF and I went to see a movie (so I wouldn’t have to bring my whole purse). Doh! The BF’s off on his bluetooth, so I yell him over to give me his ID. He walks off again. Then the chick is like, do you have a Safeway card? And starts to give me her whole spiel. I have to yell the BF over AGAIN to use his. Sigh. Always keep everything with you, I guess.
As far as plotting against you, I doubt it. They both probably have you pegged as some sort of opportunity to get back at the other, but no longer know enough about each other (or about you) to imagine how they could actually accomplish that.
Best of luck…
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You have been asking me for a while now to post… well here it is if you let it post.
First of all I didn’t meet you for lunch to give you “details”. I was wanting to try and spend time with you concidering our schedules don’t seem to match. You are the one that wanted to continue to talk about “SK31″ and have me answer your phone when she called. As I told you at the table, after that call, I DO NOT want to be in the middle of this. This is something between you and her. I WILL NOT be apart of any drama from anyone. I think you are an amazing guy and yes I was HORRFIED that I left my credit card in my pants from the previous day at home. I appreciate your patience in me having to go back and get it… the funny thing is is that you reassured me that you understood being that it had happened to you before too… You talk about “could this be revenge”.. well maybe you are plotting with sk31 to try and create more drama for me. Who knows… but I guess that is something neither one of us will know now…
Good luck in your quest and ventures…
ohhh and by the way Lisaq…. as myself having some kinda drama thing? I assure you that I am in no way, shape or form into drama. That is why I told “Eathen” to never ask me to answer his phone again and to not put me in the middle of all of it.
Final thought… I hope that no one has read this as being bitter… it does sound that way. I am just simply speaking the truth as that is the only way I know how to be.
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Actually TW38, this was a mere summary of the events that happened. If you noticed, I didn’t detail the events after Humperdinks, I didn’t detail you wanting to know why SK31 was my type, I didn’t detail your desire to date me, and I didn’t detail my comments about not sure if I wanted to take it to the next level. Don’t get offended, those were my thoughts and you may not find them humorous but they were actually funny considerting the circumstances. I’m not being hateful, but this was a summary of the funny part of Sunday.
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Ethan,
When I saw this posting and heard first hand the story of the “lunch date”, I was FLOORED…… What so called “man” ( I say that with much chagrin,), would ever do such a Rude and utterly incredible thing like you did to Tracy that day!! You, my friend, are NO MAN…. you are no Gentleman, I don’t care if she asked you to lunch or you her, you could have and should have been man enough to stand up and take care of the bill for the food!!! I have NEVER in my life payed for a date, nor would I ever… Yes I am an old fashion girl and proud of it. You Ethan give women a BAD example of what it means to be out in this “dating world”. I couldn’t believe she came all the way home to get her credit card, AND YOU LET HER!!
I told her that day (as she continued to make excuses for YOU), that I would have left him there and Never contacted you again. TR38 is a very generous girl and would never have done that on purpose, You should have been mortified as a person, no less a man, to have allowed this whole thing to take place. YOU ARE THE DRAMA “QUEEN” you love talking about everyone else, obviously you have a highly over rated opinion of yourself!! I say , Get over it and actually be A man that 90% of them are…… YOU are a sorry excuse for a man!!!!
P.S. Tw38 told me you probably won’t post this due to it not looking good in your favor, if you decide not to, no problem,
It was worth every ounce of my being just to let you know my feelings on this matter. Ethan you absolutely blow my mind!!!….. Now if you are really a man and have some resemblance of of the anatomy of a man you will post this.
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Well that is your opinion. You’re entitled to it. It is America. The fact is, you weren’t there. You don’t have any idea of the details of the conversation. If you noticed, I rode with her. So I’m sure the out come would’ve been different if I wasn’t riding with her. I did some checking around and I don’t know of anyone who would date someone who went out with someone who went out with their friend. For some reason, if you cross that line that says something about you. And I’ve relayed that info to TW39 privately. And it’s too bad you weren’t there to be able to write a unbias viewpoint. I would have enjoyed reading that.
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Ethan,
Once again, the whole point of my frustration with what I know to be fact is that, for whatever reason….. that has nothing to do with paying the bill….. It was $26.00, big deal, and as you stated about TRW38, why did you Accept a lunch date with her if you knew that you had dated one of ya”lls Mutual friends, and the strings had been cut for awhile between the two girls…. I did not feel that you addressed the point that I was clearly making…. The point is stepping up and being a gentleman and accepting what may come up if you Agreed to this date.
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I am currently going to write the follow up of the whole story.. I tried to only give part of the details and keep some privacy.. but you and your friend seem to be soo offended by what happened and someone else’s view point. So check back in a few hours..and i’ll will post the rest of the story on the site
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Okay, can I say it????? Pleeeaaazzeeeee? I saw this coming like a mack truck coming at me head-on goin’ 90 mph on a two-lane highway. I never thought I would say this…..let it go and move on to the next post.
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I really don’t see what the big deal is, maybe I’m confused. Was this a DATE DATE or just a get together to get the “DETAILS” on Sk31? She offered to pay,forgot her credit card just like he forgot his wallet at home or the car….whatever. Shit happens!!
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