Saturday night was nothing like I ever planned or imagined.? I wasn?t in the mood to go out, so I decided to stay home to watch movies.? I wanted to hang out at the pool with a moody bitch that I know, but she wasn?t leaving her house.? So I ended up on the phone talking to one of my friends around 11pm.? I noticed that my profile on match had received a couple email responses.? What the hell, I decided to reply.? I ended up emailing KT35 for about 15 minutes before I decided to exchange our yahoo.? Amazingly, she lives with in minutes of me.? She was trying to figure out why she?s never noticed me before.? Timing I guess.? We have a lot of things in common.? We both enjoy wine; we both watch some of the same TV shows.? And we both were home alone on a Saturday night.? We chatted for about 90 minutes before we decided to get together to share a bottle of wine on the patio.
?Yes, it?s 2am.? Even she admits, that she?s never met someone the 1st time at 2am to have wine.? Normally you would think that this would be nothing more than an easy way to disguise a booty call.? And normally I would agree with that, but this time I was pleasantly surprised.? When KT35 arrived, she looked exactly like her pictures.? She?s a divorced mother of two, 5?5? tall, light brown shoulder length hair, and blue eyes.?? KT35 has manicured fingers and toes.? She has a wonderful tan.? It?s not too dark so her skin didn?t have that leather texture.? I must say she was about 15lbs heavier than I would prefer, but I didn?t mind.? She and I sat on the patio and began to share a bottle of Merlot.? We began to share 
stories about our kids, sports, and of course our dating experiences.? She admits that she’s only dated 2 black men in her life, one being her ex-husband.? KT35 is very social and easy to talk to.? I love that.? We began to talk about being divorced and dating.? And she brought up some very interesting ideas.? She said after watching the movie, Sex and the City, she would think twice about getting a divorce if her man cheated on her.? I had to ask why.? KT35 replied, ?If you truly have a connection with him, don?t take it for granted.? Finding another person that you connect with is much harder the second time around.?? I was amazed that a woman would feel that way, but I understood her view.? It?s true.? The older we get, the harder it is to find someone that you are attached to. ?She also told me about her recent dates.? Excluding me, none of them were her type.? KT35 says ? ?if I can?t imagine myself sucking his dick, he?s not for me.?? I almost fell out my chair!? I had to think about it for a second, but it?s true.? Oral sex is one of the most intimate parts of sex.? And if you don?t want to do experience that with him/her it?s just a sign that you?re really not into them.? So I couldn?t pass up the opportunity to ask, ?How does my chin look from there??? HAHA, she laughed.? She said it looked great and that how she knew that she wanted to see me again.? We both realized that either one of us likes body hair.? We shared a lot of intimate details to each other, just to make sure we?re compatible.? It didn?t seem like a long night, but we finished the last glass of wine about 5am.? And we still were on the patio, fully dressed.? Amazingly we didn?t end up naked or having sex.? We ended the night with a kiss at her car.? We?ve made plans to see each other soon.? Even she admits, that she?s never met someone the 1st time at 2am to have wine.
So I want to know, how many of my readers feel the same way as KT35?? Can you date someone who you can’t imagine giving them head?? I know I can’t.? I can have sex with them..but we can’t seriously date.?
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