Pet Peeve #4
My next pet peeve is one that a lot of men deal with. Sometimes it’s well deserved and other times it’s not. Personally, for me I say I don’t deserve it. Why? Because I don’t lie. I won’t lie. Actually, I have no reason to lie and I have nothing to gain by telling a lie. So if you ask me a question, you’ll get the honest truth. But I’m just curious why women like to be nosey and snoop. Is it just in their nature to do this? Is temptation to hard to resist? Or is my home, computer, cell phone apart of the anti-terrorism act that allows anyone within 20 feet check out the contents. Yes, my PP#4 is nosey women.
As most of my readers know, I’ve been married before. And under that circumstance my ex-wife had full access to everything that I had/have. But as a single guy is it ok for a date to go beyond her tour of duty? Recently, I had a guest at my place for the evening. I enjoy her company each and every time. I’ll admit that I have liked her since the 1st time we met.
I know she is curious if I’m dating anyone else, but won’t be direct enough to ask me. So when she needed to use my computer, I left my outlook open. This shows all of my emails. Call me shady, call me dirty, but I left it open and didn’t think twice about it. I did this because I wanted to know if I can trust them. But maybe the temptation was too great to look but it appears that she did. I don’t have any top secret information in there, but it would be nice to know they weren’t a snooper. So now they’ve read a little on this site, I got the following message - “WELL…..since I’m GB41 maybe I should leave a comment (or 2) a couple of my pet peeves oh and write about someone without them knowing….oh wait last but not LEAST insincere serial daters!!! Peeing with the door open??? WHO CARES!!! WHO really cares about shit like that in the grand scheme of things??? answer: complete fucking morons…..I drive all the way to north
I guess that’s to be expected if she didn’t read any of my previous posts. My point is, if you’re in a committed relationship AND something is suspicious, begin to investigate. If two people are single, then relax and see where things go. The woman that embraces me, will also embrace my passion for this site.
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Completely agree with you on this one. If the situation were reversed, these women would not appreciate it one bit.
That said, I must admit to having done some snooping around of my own with a new guy - but the extent of it was checking out his shirt size, so that if I ever wanted to get him clothing as a gift, I would surprise him by knowing the right size. Pretty innocent, right?
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Yeah, IMO everyone is nosy. There’s no way I would leave my email open or my blog in an early stage of a relationship. I’m getting close to the point where I can tell potential partners about the site right off the bat, but I don’t feel super confident about that yet. Basically, I want to be able to sort of tell chicks I’m a “player” during an early interaction, and if she takes that info, it’s game on.
Guys are nosey too. C’mon, we poke around a chick’s house when we stay the night. Fess up.
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Wow I am completely on your side here. I have to admit I have snooped before - but we were dating and living together. He wasn’t working and out of no where started to have money… when I asked about unemployment he kept telling me he didnt get it and where he got his money was none of my concern - even though I was the only one paying bills…
There is no reason for a woman to snoop unless she feels she is being lied to. If you can’t come out and ask the man a question to start with why are you even with him? If you feel like he is not telling you the truth then honestly again why are you even with him? I know I snooped when I didnt feel like i was being told the truth and in the end, it ruined the relationship - which turned out to be a great thing.
P.S. for her to address what she “learned” from her snooping in the manner that she did was comical but way over the top/out of line.
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@ lance I’m not a snooper. If it’s in plain eye view.. it’s fair game. But past that…I don’t snoop. I dont always say up front about the site because people have misconceptions about what they read.
To be fair to her, i was notified that she thought it was a dating site until she found out it wasn’t. And she feels betrayed by all of this being made public. Actually, the only people who know who she is would be the 2 people that were there or anyone else that we’ve told our identity to.
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Ok I guess since no one is actually addressing her response to finding out about your blog, allow me…lol…DAYUM!!!! That mess had me rooooolling on the floor laughing. She got gangsta on you…a ha ha ha…*sighing*…that was good shit…but i digress.
Oh and snooping is for losers, she got exactly what she deserved. Although you should at least let someone know that they are the subject of a blog. I think the shock in finding out is what prompted that response. She felt betrayed and slightly humiliated. You even asked for my permission to write about our email correspondence on the interracial dating topic…do better Eathan…have a heart.
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@Teacia I agree with you. I’m sure the shock was overwelming. In my defense tho, cause you know I gotta defend my actions, the only person who actually knows who it’s about is the 2 of us. The post and this page is written under the premise of not revealing anyone’s personal info. So if she felt betrayed….that wasn’t my intention. And if you notice previous posts, there wasn’t anything negative about her at all. That’s a sign that she is cool woman. Could I have done things differently, surely. I write what i feel, and I wrote it.
Hate it or love it… I’m not always proud of my actions, but I do own up to them.
AND P.S. - What you know about Gansta!?? haha
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I have never snooped. With them around anyways…lol.
I did with my ex and I suspected he was cheating. But that’s about it.
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