As many of you know, I have always been open to questions from readers.  Sometimes I have already replied to this topic previously so I don’t reply right away.  The last few weeks I have received emails from a couple new readers.  I didn’t reply right away because I was occupied with other topics at the time.  

Bree wrote:
I just have a question for you…Is it that you normally date white women or you refuse to date black women?
I’m just curious, it always strikes me as odd when someone excludes their own
race (regardless of what that race is).  I dated a black guy some years back
who before me, only dated white women (i was really sure why he was dating me,
lol) but I’m just curious as to whether or not it’s because there are just more
white women accessble to you or if you honestly don’t find black women to be
attractive? thanks in advance for the insight…happy dating!

Great question Bree!  I know I’ve written about this in the past.  It’s probably the #1 question that I get.  There are several part to your question.  I normally date white women.  There is a 98% chance that I date white women.  Sometimes it has been because of the dating options that were available to me.  Other times it has been by my own choosing.  Don’t get me wrong, there are plenty of black women that are attractive.  And usually they have the similar qualities of their white counterparts.  Over the years I have become connected and in love with the contrast of our skin color.  It’s practically an addiction for me.  There are alot of things I enjoy that others dont.  I like to eat sushi (raw fish). I like to swim and snorkel.  I like going deep sea fishing.  I like to listen to all kinds of music, including rock. 

Recently, I had a faithful reader send me a link to another blog site.  I had to admit that his explaination and perspective was right on point.  I read it at least 4 times because I was blown away.  The Champ’s wrote a great post.  I suggest reading it.  Even for me, he mentioned a couple things that I’ve known for years, just never mentioned it.   It was exactly what I’ve tried to explain to others before.  It’s almost the exact way I was introduced to dating out side my ethnic group.  If I was you, Bree, I would’t worry about his previous dates.  At the end of the day we’re men.  If we are interested in dating a woman, it’s has very little to do with our past.  It’s what we find attractive in you.     Post your comments, I’d like to hear your thoughts.If you like this post, then consider subscribing to my full feed RSS.

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