I totally agree with this statement.

The one thing that I can say about Eathan in this short time I’ve been reading this blog is that he is consistent in his thoughts and behaviours.

And of course I expect to be disagreed with – I’m bitchy and opinionated, but I’m not arrogant. Sorry if you can’t tell the difference….

@Teacia LOL I’m definitely a skeptic, and yes, I’ve absolutely done stupid things in the name of love, just like every other woman out there – which is exactly how I finally came to figure out that in many cases, we’re doing this shit to ourselves! I observe myself, I observe other women, I read all these blogs, and I start shaking my head asking WTF?!

(P.S. Loved the way you straight up told Eathan ‘you’re an idiot’ – I totally laughed out loud when I read that.)

@NML was just reading your site last night, lots of interesting stuff there – some of which is probably applicable to this very situation. Haven’t had a chance to read your entire commentary here yet, but I will after I get some work done today.

Will my man, you head the nail on the head…what this entire situation has lacked was respect.

…I still love you Eathan…just hoping you’re taking all of this in for the next encounter.

How in world can anyone,
not understand, (and, at the same say they understand) the differences between the sexes.
Wanting to know the “details,” was innocent teasing on my part. I never expected any intimate details. However,
there is one thing which is now apparent.

For all your honesty E-man, there’s something a “player” never seems to get, no matter how old they get:

Respect. Respect, is what pulls upon a man who (even, when they set themselves squarely into the “no strings/one-night-stand” arena)~~all honesty.

You haven’t respected her feelings.
And, the truth is, to bash either of you,
with judgements, after-the-fact, is a moot point, which only highlights a continued dis-respect.

Such trampling of motivation, and expections, doesn’t serve either of you well.

Respect, and fellow-feeling, along with honesty, goes a long way in this world. We only have one life to live; and, how we treat others, and ourselves, can make or break,
any relationship.

Go, lightly, into your next date.

Respectfully,

~~Will~~

Wills last blog post..Red Bottoms~Scene#3(Childhood Memories):

Eathan, maybe you should choose a different topic all together to blog about?!

You know the slogan “got milk”?
Maybe you should do a 360 and fill that big hole in your heart…….. “got JESUS”

He is the ONLY one that truly knows your every want and need. Because most people are clueless as to what it is they think they need let alone what they want!

He created you…………only one EATHAN out there!
If you get a minute read Psalm 139
I’m dead serious……………..

So who’s to say that Lisa didn’t get the guy behind the mask, who’s to say that she didn’t perceive their real world interactions in a different light because he expressed them in one. Granted I’ve privately expressed my disappointment in Eathan’s public conquests and I do feel like he uses this site as a “pat on the back” for getting hella white women who have a sweet tooth for chocolate.

I’m not sure how this all went to hell in a handbasket but here’s the thing, I’ve found it quite refreshing when a guy says to me, “I wanna f@ck”…no fluff, just straight to the point, no deep conversation about my past or my goals and dreams for the future, just straight talk and then allows me the decision on whether or not to get involved. Now knowing Eathan a little, I know he enjoys making friendships, he’s a genuinely nice guy…a bit of a man-whore but nice no less. I’m sure he enjoyed the friendship of LisaQ and didn’t want things to be limited to just sex, which is WHY he should have been more careful when dealing with her.

Then again, it’s NO big deal. So Lisa you drove to Dallas and had great sex, you’re 40-something, there’s no law against having a good time, it’s just sex..we all do it, we all have it…consider yourself lucky it was good…b/c let me tell you, I have a few I wish I could take back. I don’t see you in a lesser light, nor do I see Eathan in a lesser light..this shit happens ERRDAY…just not necessarily online for the world to read about, but anyone who looks down on you for this needs to take a look at themselves…we’ve all gone the distance for someone we thought were special, only to find out that they were no different. Brush it off your shoulders and keep it moving.

And Eathan in the future please DO BETTER!! lol…seriously.