KT35 Update
A couple weeks ago, I had a great date with KT35. Actually I’ve had 3 great dates with her so far. We decided to have spend the evening together and watch movies. Last time she was over we watched 1/2 of Walk the Line. We didn’t watch the whole thing because we got side tracked with each other. This time we decided to watch the whole thing. KT35 brought over the Barcardi Rum and I supplied the magical Mojito Mixer. Our time together is always great. There is so much chemistry with her it’s almost a strange to mention it.
We normally sit on the sofa, hold hands or she just snuggles next to me. We kiss, make great eye contact, and enjoy some brief intimate touching. This time we finished the whole movie. And to be honest, this was one of the most difficult challenges of the day. By the time we finished the movie we were past the point of return. There was enough passion and lust built up to film our own love scene. This evening wasn’t one to be rushed. Last time she had to rush home to relieve the sitter. Since this was a planned Friday night date, we had as much time as we wanted. Eventually, we both just laid next to each other and fell asleep. The next morning was Saturday morning. KT35 had to go home to let her dogs out. I ended up falling back asleep after she left. When I woke up it was around 10am. So I called her to make sure she got home. I know I should’ve done it soon after she left, but she only lives a couple blocks away. We ended up talking for a while, and that’s when I got the wild urge for breakfast. So we decided to have breakfast at the Original Pancake House. I know it’s strange for me to spend so much time with someone, but it just felt right. We didn’t get seated until 1230pm and we didn’t leave until 3pm.
I normally don’t sit around a restaurant and talk for hours, but time went by quick. Usually Saturdays are busy at the restaurant, but it slows way down around lunch time. It was the perfect place to have a very quiet and intimate breakfast date. We talked about everything that our heart desired. We talked about our childhood. We talked about our childhood friends. We talked about our kids. We even talked about past people we’ve dated. It was very surreal. I guess it was one of those dates where we just laid everything on the table. At the end of the date I felt like I really understood her much better. Sad to say we had other things to do and couldn’t spend the rest of the day together. I told her I was ready to take her out. I know some of my female readers don’t agree with this approach, but I know her well enough to hang out with my close circle of friends. I know her well enough to want to go out to dinner, movies, wine tasting, or just being seen in public with her.
Why am I writing about this date 2 weeks afterwards? Well, I have been narrowing down my dating potentials to just a few prospects. I like to keep my dating options open until I find someone that I feel close to. I can usually tell when this happens because, I begin to think less about the other women in my life. Slowly but surely the other women disappear or fade to the background. I believe this is a healthy process to have. I just don’t dive head over heals. Building up that emotional and social trust takes time.
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“I told her I was ready to take her out. I know some of my female readers don’t agree with this approach, but I know her well enough to hang out with my close circle of friends. I know her well enough to want to go out to dinner, movies, wine tasting, or just being seen in public with her.”
What approach? The “fuck em first before I decide if they’re good enough to be seen with me in public” approach?
SMH
And do you need booze to get through every so called date? Seems like most of your “date” postings mention getting buzzed or alcohol of some sort in copious quantities.
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Well, Well…Good for you! ROLL WITH IT!! ENJOY HER! Take a time out! It’s really nice when you make a connection with someone.
It’s funny…It seems that at the beginning of one given week I will put the “men in my life” in a mental order of who I am really interested in the most. By the end of the week that damn order is all screwed up.
I really think that this dating thing is a continual process of elimination. If by 3 dates, I don’t see the relationship headed in the right direction, I usually move on. 3 or 4 men in rotation and little by little one goes away, one enters the rotation.
The only exception is …well …Great Sex and that confuses it all. I’d put the boytoys on HOLD to see how the guy I REALLY like pans out. If it fizzles…the whole process of elimination or “Practice Dating” starts over.
I would love to find a man to settle down with. In the mean time, I am having a great time. I am doing what I want, when I want, with who I want. Life is Good!
Have a great weekend, E!
Missys last blog post..I LOVE MARGARET CHO
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Sooooo, you really are into this girl? Does she know about your website? and that you are still seeing other females? You know I have to ask these questions!
You sound really content with her, and the fact that you still sound semi-giddy about her - two weeks after the fact - is pretty cool.
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@ Monique I’m into her.. She doesn’t know about the site.. but she will soon. I’m still seeing other females. Even though I’m down to just a couple. I didn’t post this previously because there was other content that trumped this post. If you connect the dots…you might be able to figure out when this happened
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So, when you tell your dates about the site, how do they normally take it?
As much as we talk back and forth, I need to give you my damn cell number so I can text my questions! I’m like the “I married white” sister you never asked for.
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@Monique Well the last one got pissed about what i wrote and said i was disconnected on Sunday…opps.. lol
But they normally find out after we stop dating.
Don’t make me get you to start guest posts…lol
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Hmmmm…2 weeks ago, wasn’t that when Lisa Q came down for the weekend…ewwww, u slept with 2 chics within 14 hours…damn Eathan.
I surely hope you are strapping it up b/c despite popular belief the hiv spans across ALL races.
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@ Teacia… dayummm you got good math skills. I can neither confirm or deny that report.
And until Magnum gives me a sponsorship..I can’t promote their products yet. haha
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I would so kick your ass once I found out about your blog. And then depending on how charming you were… or maybe how good you were in bed…. I might forgive you.
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@Monique I’ll take that as being forgiven…haha
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Right after I wrote it, I just knew that would be your comeback. I just KNEW it.
Moniques last blog post..Tour De Monique?
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Ummm, let’s not ignore that SthnClss tore your ass a new hole..lol.
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What Eva! Don’t hate my successful style. If you have a formula that works..why change it.
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O…M…F…G!! My friend, Monique told me about your site and I had to check this out for myself. You are rather INTO yourself, wouldn’t you say?? Seems like you are another typical man, full of useless hit until there is something out there you want. Don’t get me wrong-I am not one of those cynical “man hatin” bitches…I am married to a decent guy, but this takes the cake. I can’t believe that “MOST OF YOUR READERS” would prefer you fuck the woman as to taking her out somewhere?? Get your head out of your ass long enough and you MIGHT find someone decent enough to accep YOUR silly ass!
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@ S & M I want to Thank Monique for sending you to my site. Since you’re new hear…i’ll give you my motto - It is what it is. If both parties are happy why fuss/hate?
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LOL…Eathan you are priceless…your blatant honesty is the reason that I love you…lol.
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Some pretty damn funny chit.I don’t see you defending yourself about Sthrn Clss post…
Hey….E…be sure to warn KT35 not to pee with the door open…she might get the boot. I mean…isn’t that grounds for termination??
Missys last blog post..I LOVE MARGARET CHO
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@ Teacia.. Thanks..lol
@ Missy.. No need to defend myself against Sthrn.. she thinks this whole website is fabricated.. She doubts my skillz
And KT35 has been warned.. She has my list of Pet Peeves haha
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@Sthrn Clss… I read your comments and then I clicked on your name..and then i realized the reason why you like to come here and be critical.
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I think I question the judgment of the type of women you date more than I wonder about your lack of tact and basic respect for people. C’mon Ethan….really? You actually go into relationships completely backwards and then wonder why they don’t work. They won’t work if you’re sleeping with people too soon. It’s like trying to say the alphabet backwards…..it will always be wrong. It’s not natural. Again, I have to wonder about what’s wrong with a woman’s self-respect that she would be okay with bumpin’ uglies first and then get a meal later. That speaks volumes about ones’ self-respect….and appetite.
I’m not knockin’ you, though it may seem that way, But, I hear you talking about “well, if we both agree, then it’s okay” or “if we’re both consenting adults…..no harm”. I disagree with that. I don’t think that “reasonable” people go into having sex with no intentions…..not in this day and age and not women of my age (43). And I think to some extent, you’re assuming that you’re on the same page but in fact, from other dates you’ve posted about, in fact you are on completely different chapters. I don’t know if this is because you’re not being completely honest with them or because you’re so good at this that they truly believe that “they’re the one”. Whatever it is…….your luck is so good that you’ve managed to poke many, many women yet in the end….it’s you who was misunderstood? Honestly, if I dated a guy and found out his dick had been as busy as yours…..I would be RUNNING and not walking to a clinic. Again, I’m not hatin’…..just posting.
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Everyone has their needs.. or else the ‘go to guy’ would die off from being lonely..haha
Don’t worry Rena I’ll still welcome a visit from you… if you ever get the Nerve up to visit.
And just because we can go thru the alphabet backwards doesn’t mean we’re speaking a different language. We still know what a ‘x’ is compared to a ‘b’.
And again…i’m glad to see you’re not hating. When ever Magnum aka Gold Wrappers gives me a sponsorship.. i’ll start promoting the product I’ve been using for years.
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I say if it works for both of you okay. If you are hitting this K chick, just to hit it and leave…and she thinks otherwise I say that is wrong.
I am not saying sleeping together so soon is great but if both people wanted to do it, then who am I to judge. Some good couples started off that way, some didn’t…
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