A couple weeks ago, I had a great date with KT35.? Actually I’ve had?3 great dates with her so far.? We decided to have spend the evening together and watch movies.? Last time she was over we watched? 1/2 of Walk the Line.? We didn’t watch the whole thing because we got side tracked with each other.? This time we decided to watch the whole thing.? KT35 brought over the Barcardi Rum and I supplied the magical Mojito Mixer.? Our time together is always great.? There is so much chemistry with her it’s almost a strange to mention it.?
We normally sit on the sofa, hold hands or she just snuggles next to me.??We?kiss, make great eye contact, and enjoy some brief?intimate touching.? This time we finished the whole movie.? And to be honest, this was one of the most difficult challenges of the day.? By the time we finished the movie we were past the point of return.? There was enough passion and lust built up?to film our own love scene.? This evening wasn’t one to be rushed.? Last time she had to rush home to relieve the sitter.? Since this was a planned Friday night date, we had as much time as we wanted.? Eventually, we both just laid next to each other and fell asleep.? The next morning was Saturday morning.? KT35 had to go home to let her dogs out.? I ended up falling back asleep after she left.? When I woke up it was around 10am.? So I called her to make sure she got home.? I know I should’ve done it soon after she left, but she only lives a couple blocks away.? We ended up talking for a while, and that’s when I got the wild urge for breakfast.? So we decided to have breakfast at the Original Pancake House.? I know it’s strange for me to spend so much time with someone, but it just felt right.? We didn’t get seated until 1230pm and we didn’t leave until 3pm.
? I normally don’t sit around a restaurant and talk for hours, but time went by quick.? Usually Saturdays are busy at the restaurant, but it slows way down around lunch time.? It was the perfect place to have a very quiet and intimate breakfast date.? We talked about everything that our heart desired.? We talked about our childhood.? We talked about our childhood friends.? We talked about our kids.? We even talked about past people we’ve dated.? It was very surreal.? I guess it was one of those dates where we just laid everything on the table.? At the end of the date I felt like I really understood her much better.? Sad to say we had other things to do and couldn’t spend the rest of the day together.? I told her I was ready to?take her out.? I know some of my female readers don’t agree with this approach, but I know her well enough to hang out with my close circle of friends.? I?know her well enough to?want to go out to dinner, movies, wine tasting, or just?being seen in public with her.
Why am I?writing about this date 2 weeks afterwards???Well, I have been narrowing down my dating potentials to just a few prospects.? I like to?keep my dating options open until I find someone that I?feel close to.? I can usually tell when this happens because, I begin to think less about the other women in my life.??Slowly but surely the other women?disappear or fade to the background.? I?believe this is a healthy process to have.? I just don’t dive head over heals.? Building up?that emotional and social trust takes time.????
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