Comments on: How Soon Is Too Soon? http://idatewhite.com/2008/07/14/how-soon-is-too-soon/ Sat, 20 Mar 2010 09:50:01 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: Dating Preferences - Children or No Children « Single Sisters Speak Out http://idatewhite.com/2008/07/14/how-soon-is-too-soon/comment-page-1/#comment-2360 Dating Preferences - Children or No Children « Single Sisters Speak Out Fri, 24 Oct 2008 12:23:08 +0000 http://idatewhite.com/2008/07/14/how-soon-is-too-soon/#comment-2360 [...] while back, Eathan wrote a post “How Soon is?Too Soon” in regards to a single parent introducing their children to their new boyfriend/girlfriend. [...] [...] while back, Eathan wrote a post “How Soon is?Too Soon” in regards to a single parent introducing their children to their new boyfriend/girlfriend. [...]

]]> By: eathan http://idatewhite.com/2008/07/14/how-soon-is-too-soon/comment-page-1/#comment-874 eathan Wed, 16 Jul 2008 12:54:39 +0000 http://idatewhite.com/2008/07/14/how-soon-is-too-soon/#comment-874 @ Teacia HAHA... cages are good.. esp if they like it..lol @ Teacia HAHA… cages are good.. esp if they like it..lol

]]> By: Rena http://idatewhite.com/2008/07/14/how-soon-is-too-soon/comment-page-1/#comment-868 Rena Wed, 16 Jul 2008 05:22:40 +0000 http://idatewhite.com/2008/07/14/how-soon-is-too-soon/#comment-868 @ Eathan - Actually, no. There's nothing about previous relationships that "IF" my friends had told me, I would have listened. Let me take that back, I would have listened simply because I have ears, but I would have questioned my friend's intentions rather than what I was told....if that makes any sense. You know, I don't go into relationships, especially new romantic ones, with the idea of "hmmm, what kind of dirt can someone tell me about him". If you go into relationships looking for a problem....you'll surely find it. @ Eathan – Actually, no. There’s nothing about previous relationships that “IF” my friends had told me, I would have listened. Let me take that back, I would have listened simply because I have ears, but I would have questioned my friend’s intentions rather than what I was told….if that makes any sense.

You know, I don’t go into relationships, especially new romantic ones, with the idea of “hmmm, what kind of dirt can someone tell me about him”. If you go into relationships looking for a problem….you’ll surely find it.

]]> By: Teacia http://idatewhite.com/2008/07/14/how-soon-is-too-soon/comment-page-1/#comment-855 Teacia Tue, 15 Jul 2008 14:26:05 +0000 http://idatewhite.com/2008/07/14/how-soon-is-too-soon/#comment-855 I say keep em all locked up in a cage. I say keep em all locked up in a cage.

]]> By: eathan http://idatewhite.com/2008/07/14/how-soon-is-too-soon/comment-page-1/#comment-853 eathan Tue, 15 Jul 2008 09:39:58 +0000 http://idatewhite.com/2008/07/14/how-soon-is-too-soon/#comment-853 @ Rena I'm sure there is something about your past relationship that IF your friends had told you... You would've been open to hear. Many wish they have the ability to do it..Only a few truly do. I don't have to wait for it to shine thru ;) @ Rena I’m sure there is something about your past relationship that IF your friends had told you… You would’ve been open to hear. Many wish they have the ability to do it..Only a few truly do. I don’t have to wait for it to shine thru ;)

]]> By: Rena http://idatewhite.com/2008/07/14/how-soon-is-too-soon/comment-page-1/#comment-852 Rena Tue, 15 Jul 2008 04:54:59 +0000 http://idatewhite.com/2008/07/14/how-soon-is-too-soon/#comment-852 Sure, I introduce people who I'm trying to develop a relationship with to my friends. My friends are a very important part of my life. But, what I don't and wouldn't do, is ever ask my friends to be my "eyes and ears" about the man I'm interested in. Maybe when I were in my teens or early 20's, but I'm 43 years old. My friends love me and want me to be happy and so why then would they turn around and spew negative things about a man I'm fond of and think enough of to bring around them? If I questioned his character so much that I would need an extra set of eyes much less 10 of them to "spy" and report back on what he does.....he's not the one for me and I don't care what report came back. I wouldn't be involved with someone I couldn't trust and if I did trust him and behaved like that......I would be a CRAZY BITCH (see your previous blog). I care more that my man parks his shoes at the end of my bed at night rather than what he did in them out on the town with his buddies some night. True colors always shine through given time but my limits are those I set, not what my friends set for me. Sure, I introduce people who I’m trying to develop a relationship with to my friends. My friends are a very important part of my life. But, what I don’t and wouldn’t do, is ever ask my friends to be my “eyes and ears” about the man I’m interested in. Maybe when I were in my teens or early 20’s, but I’m 43 years old.

My friends love me and want me to be happy and so why then would they turn around and spew negative things about a man I’m fond of and think enough of to bring around them? If I questioned his character so much that I would need an extra set of eyes much less 10 of them to “spy” and report back on what he does…..he’s not the one for me and I don’t care what report came back.

I wouldn’t be involved with someone I couldn’t trust and if I did trust him and behaved like that……I would be a CRAZY BITCH (see your previous blog). I care more that my man parks his shoes at the end of my bed at night rather than what he did in them out on the town with his buddies some night. True colors always shine through given time but my limits are those I set, not what my friends set for me.

]]> By: eathan http://idatewhite.com/2008/07/14/how-soon-is-too-soon/comment-page-1/#comment-851 eathan Tue, 15 Jul 2008 03:46:20 +0000 http://idatewhite.com/2008/07/14/how-soon-is-too-soon/#comment-851 @ Rena .. you don't introduce them to your friends to get their opinion. You do that so you have a extra 10 pairs of eyes and ears around town. In your own words.. its stalking by friends..lol We call it lookin out for your friends. It's one of the dark sided things of dating in Dallas. @ Rena .. you don’t introduce them to your friends to get their opinion. You do that so you have a extra 10 pairs of eyes and ears around town. In your own words.. its stalking by friends..lol We call it lookin out for your friends. It’s one of the dark sided things of dating in Dallas.

]]> By: Rena http://idatewhite.com/2008/07/14/how-soon-is-too-soon/comment-page-1/#comment-850 Rena Tue, 15 Jul 2008 03:19:00 +0000 http://idatewhite.com/2008/07/14/how-soon-is-too-soon/#comment-850 Wasn't it just recently you decided you even felt comfortable going out on a date in public with her? Not to be critical. I think that it's great that you're mind is even thinking like this about her and that you feel a connection with someone like that. That kind of connection is always great. But, sharing breakfast and sleeping with someone no matter how good the connection, is months away from introducing someone to your kids. That's way to much way to fast, for me and my kid anyway. If you want to introduce her to your friends, then do so because you're proud and fond of someone that your seeing and trying to build something with. Don't introduce her so that your buddies or female friends can give you the 411 on her. Base your relationship with her on YOUR opinion of her not the opinion of your buddies.....that's kind of childish. You want to know if her intentions are true? Try asking her and not play games of "scouting" reports. Wasn’t it just recently you decided you even felt comfortable going out on a date in public with her? Not to be critical. I think that it’s great that you’re mind is even thinking like this about her and that you feel a connection with someone like that. That kind of connection is always great. But, sharing breakfast and sleeping with someone no matter how good the connection, is months away from introducing someone to your kids. That’s way to much way to fast, for me and my kid anyway. If you want to introduce her to your friends, then do so because you’re proud and fond of someone that your seeing and trying to build something with. Don’t introduce her so that your buddies or female friends can give you the 411 on her. Base your relationship with her on YOUR opinion of her not the opinion of your buddies…..that’s kind of childish. You want to know if her intentions are true? Try asking her and not play games of “scouting” reports.

]]> By: Missy http://idatewhite.com/2008/07/14/how-soon-is-too-soon/comment-page-1/#comment-849 Missy Tue, 15 Jul 2008 02:59:29 +0000 http://idatewhite.com/2008/07/14/how-soon-is-too-soon/#comment-849 Well....My advise would have been...Let her meet your friends FIRST...a couple of times. Kids need to be the LAST, LAST to get introduced. I mean like after you two have made a committment to go exclusive...then the kids. That's my 2 cents. Ciao! Well….My advise would have been…Let her meet your friends FIRST…a couple of times. Kids need to be the LAST, LAST to get introduced. I mean like after you two have made a committment to go exclusive…then the kids. That’s my 2 cents.

Ciao!

]]> By: eathan http://idatewhite.com/2008/07/14/how-soon-is-too-soon/comment-page-1/#comment-848 eathan Tue, 15 Jul 2008 00:15:33 +0000 http://idatewhite.com/2008/07/14/how-soon-is-too-soon/#comment-848 @ Missy.. well it happened since i posted silly... I think the heat has got your brain warped..lol @ Missy.. well it happened since i posted silly… I think the heat has got your brain warped..lol

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