About a month ago I decided to give a new dating product a try to see what would happen.? And I’m here to give you a update of my progress.? I have several female friends that have used some dating sites that use a special type of personality matching software.? I’ve never been sold on that idea.? I personally like to have control of who I want to date or meet.? But after some of my previous dates, I figured why not try something different.? So I signed up for a membership on chemistry.com.? It’s been interesting just to see what happens.? I must say it’s somewhat easier to know that you really don’t spend much time surfing for profiles for hours on end.? So after a couple weeks of emailing and phone conversations with TW40.? We finally decided to meet.?
TW40?lives in?Ft.?Worth, which is about 50 miles?away.??She has dated black men a couple times over the last few years.? She’s a 40yr old divorced white woman.? TW40 is 5’8″ tall, shoulder length blond hair, blue eyes, medium build and a non-smoker.? I must say that when she arrived, she looked exactly like her picture.? She had those bright eyes and large smile.? TW40 was wearing a white blouse and a denim blue jean mini.? I welcomed her with a hug.? It was a bit different because?there didn’t seem to be any?uncomfortable moments.? Our conversation seem?to be very smooth and seamless.? TW40 and I have had some very open and lengthy conversations on?a variety of subjects.??It’s sorta odd to find out that we’re both very passionate and sexual people.? You wouldn’t expect to find that out from a?someone who you were matched up with by your?personality traits.? I know this sounds weird, but we decided to see if we’re sexually compatible before we waste a lot of time and energy.? The last thing either one of us want to do is spend weeks getting to know someone and then get disappointed with the build up.? The worst thing in the world to me is meeting someone who doesn’t have the same sexual drive as me.? That’s a relationship of misery.? So after watching one of our favorite TV shows, Deadliest Catch, we shared a drink.? We spent quite a bit of time just talking.? Our conversation seemed to flow easily.? TW40 spends most of her time working.? She recently joined a bike club, to meet other singles and stay in shape.? From what I can tell, they ride 10-15 miles a day.? It didn’t take long before we both could tell there was a sexual?attraction.? This lead us to one of the most intense 1st meetings that I’ve ever had.?
After it was all said and done it made me realize a couple things.? No matter where you’re looking to meet people the same type of relationships can develop.? I also realize that if you don’t have common interests and priorities, there’s no way to get out of the starting gate.? Over the couple months, the women that I’ve had the best connection with have those things in common.? They all are passionate.? They all are sexual.? They all enjoy living healthy.? And most importantly the don’t have drama in their life.? They also have some other things in common, but those are the obvious.? I think?I’m starting to narrow my dating down to?just a couple good?dates.? Why waste time on the unknown and the bad ones.
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