Taking A Step Back

by Eathan

There have been a few readers asking about KT35.? I want to say, stick around to find out.? But I can’t do that.? There have been some behind the IDW events that I haven’t written about.? So here’s the update on KT35.? I am attracted to KT35 in so many ways, I can’t explain.??It’s been almost 2 weeks since?the last time I saw her.??Why?? We both have been busy with kids, work, and?IDW stuff also.??I talk to KT35 daily.? I?email her almost hourly.? And for all you comedians… she also replies to my emails.? haha!? A couple weeks ago something happened that gave me the impression that she was ready for more.? I’m sure this has happened to other people besides myself.?

KT35 took her dating profile down.? It was no longer visible.? Poof, it was gone!? I didn’t really know what to think.? She and I had conversations about the quality of time we spend together.? We’ve talked about things we want to do together.?  Taking A Step BackSo it seemed that things were going in the right direction.? Then there was a road block!? I was prepared to take our relationship to the next level.? I told her several times that I was interested in dating her.? I even told her I’d lay all my cards on the table.? I don’t think she was ready for me to say that.? She never reciprocated the same thoughts.? The only response I got was, “I’m just enjoying getting to know you.”? Hmmmmm… kinda let me down.? So I accepted that as she wasn’t ready.? Within a few days her dating profile was visible again.? Yes I noticed.? So I decided that I needed to take a step back.? For the next couple days, I didn’t initiate contact.? I waited for her to message or call me 1st.

***take note – this is a example of the I’m no longer interested in you technique. ***

She text me on Friday night to see what I was doing.? I just replied and said I have plans to go out.? I got a friendly reply and then eventually she said, “have fun and be safe.”? Saturday I didn’t hear from her until 845pm.? That was about the time when I was on the way to meet?RT37 for a date.? I just told her I was going out dancing.? She seemed shocked.? She wanted to know what was the name of the club.? I was very vague and just told her the area it was located.? ( couldn’t remember the club name)? Once again, she was quiet for a bit and then said, “don’t have too much fun.”? The last few days she’s been out of character.? She has pursued me.? She calls me 2 times a every evening.? She texts me to tell me where she’s going.? So last night I was talking to a moody.bitch and side kick.? She called me.? During the conversation I told her she “didn’t have to call me just to tell me where she was….it’s not like I’m your man.”? Her response was, ‘I know.. I’m just thinking about our relationship and weighing my options with you.”? I just told her I was waiting for the day when she was ready to talk about what she wanted.? She admitted that she’s been avoiding the topic because she was unsure of what she wanted.?

I’ve now been informed that her biggest issue is, she wants all the fun stuff that dating provides.? She wants the conversations, the dinners, the wine in the hot tub and ect.? She doesn’t want all the negatives.? The guy who questions her spending, her where-abouts,?wondering why he’s not answering HIS?phone/calling her back,?criticize her life decisions, and ect.?

KT35 and I have made plans for Thursday night.? This is our date night.? So far, we have a movie planned.??It should be fun for the both of us.? Stay tuned for more details.

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  • Teacia
    I really hope it works out, you seem to like her a lot. And lawd knows you need to settle your old ass down sooner rather than later.

    ...and guess what, it doesn't even bother me that's she's white. i guess we've all progressed this summer now haven't we.
  • Thanks Teacia ... I'm in a state of shock! But ya still my peeps. :)
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