The Return Of TW40
Last night was the emergence of TW40. I haven’t seen her in a few weeks. The last time I drove to 42 miles one way to see her. I had a good time, but it was her behavior afterwards that made me step back. She became very demanding on my time. She even admits to her smothering actions. I don’t think she could even stop herself before it got out of hand. Just to refresh your memory, you should go back to read about our last date. I was a bit reluctant, but I agreed for her to come over to watch the 2008 Beijing Olympics. TW40 arrived around 730pm. She was happy see me and gave me a quick kiss. I could tell she was a bit nervous. I offered her a glass of water and a Ice Pick. She’s never heard of a Ice Pick before, so I told her it was Vodka and ice tea. One taste and she loved it. We ended up on the sofa talking. At first it was a bit awkward, but things began to warm up quickly. There was very little touching or eye contact at first. It took about 30 minutes before she holding my hand. We decided to order pizza from Mr. Jim’s and watch the Olympic track and field relay races. We were shocked to see the men’s and women’s relay team be disqualified by dropping the baton.
After eating pizza, we began to touch each other more. This lead to a lot more of intimate moments. Once again we pick up were we left of at. I ended up having great sex and watching sports on TV. Yes, this is normal for us. So for the next 2 hours, she was in sexual extacy. This ended up with her having a crying/squirting orgasm. Actually, she had several of them. And then something odd happened. She told me during one of them, “I am too emotional right now.. I need to take a break.” I whispered into her ear, “it’s OK, I’m here for you.. it’s OK to let go.” And let me just say, she let go. I didn’t know what I was asking for. I never expected what came next. She orgasm non-stop for the next 5 minutes. (I could feel it) She cried and screamed loudly. That was a very intense climax.
We decided to take a rest and get some water. We ended up snuggling on the sofa. A few minutes later, she began to cry uncontrollably. I wasn’t sure what was wrong. She said, ‘I have to go home.” WTF?? Are you kidding me? She confessed that her head was really fukked up at that moment. So I had to get her to talk. She revealed, “you take me to a emotional place that I only have experienced when I’m in a serious relationship.” Some how during the the orgasms, she felt that she was miles away from me. It left her confused and emotionally drained. She wanted to know how sex with me made her loose total control. She wanted to know how I knew how to keep her at a sexual climax for so long. I wasn’t able to give her a exact answer. The only thing I can tell her is, “I enjoy sex and I enjoy pleasing my sexual partner.”
It took 30 minutes before she calmed down and was back to normal. TW40 admitted that she’s never felt anything like this. She doesn’t want me to view her as some crazy, stalker bitch. She says, “I’m very happy with our relationship.. even if it’s only develops to be a sexual one.” So after all of this, I have a couple questions.
Is her reaction normal for women after great sex? Do women attach those emotional feelings to relationships? I also wonder how many women feel like their loosing control after a intense sexual experience. Is the normal reaction to run and hide?
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Yes…it’s hard not to…yes and sometimes. Running and hiding is safe!
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I’ve only had that type of experience with my current BF, so I can’t really speak for anyone else.
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August 23rd, 2008 at 3:37 pm
Ahh Well at least you’ve experienced it. From what I’ve noticed, the women have to be really comfortable and very emotionally connected to have this type of experience.
Kudos to you and the BF!
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Hmmm, well, is it normal to have a 5-minute orgasm or is to normal to have a 1/2 hour crying spell after your 5-minute orgasm? The answer to both is no. Neither is “normal”.
Some women beg, and I tell you BEG, for 5 minutes of sex much less 5 minutes of an orgasm. Please. If a woman begs a man who can make her have an orgasm for 5 minutes….she should trademark, copyright or endorse his ass…….cause he’s a million-dollar man. Five-minute orgasms don’t happen…..I don’t care how well hung your are or what kind of game you got. If she says’ it’s so…she’s got more game than you.
Crying: Now, I cry when I stub my tow even as an adult I cry when I vomit…sorry, but at 43 I still do. I cry when some one dies that I love and above and beyond that, unless I see some horrific thing…..I’m not a crier. Maybe it’s just me, but I would scream and cry tears of joy in a good orgasm rather than cry and say they were tears of sadness. Who in God’s green earth wants to see the person they just had sex with crying? THAT’S FUCKING WEIRD! Some women do cry at that moment, but I would think it would be with someone you knew, loved and had a relationship with and not someone you ‘hooked up with”. That’s a strange reaction to good sex with a one-nighter.
I, personally, think that these are behaviors that have nothing, and I mean “nothing” to do with you or the kind of sex that you had. But rather her and the kind of mental state that she’s in. These are the ones you stray from…..not run to or try and justify or rationalize their behavior. It’s NOT a normal response you get from a woman who just had GREAT sex with you. It’s a woman you has issues, justified or not, who has something much deeper going on other than the fact that you just gave her a good fuck. Sorry for the graphics.
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I think everybody has different reactions…I also believe it’s based on prior experiences…perhaps she’s not accustomed to having exceptional sex?…or maybe there’s something in her past that she’s not telling you about?…sex is often an emotional experience for women…it can make you feel alot of things…but I choose to relate my sexual emotions to joy…
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August 23rd, 2008 at 3:36 pm
I think everyone reacts different. It really varies from women to woman. Some women are emotional and some aren’t.
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Well sorry to say Rena but a 5 minute long orgasm is normal! Its happened to the kid before and it usually has to do with the state of mind your in and letting yourself go along with how sensitive someones body is and the person that they are smashing at the moment. Anyway this chick sounds like she is not playing with a full deck of cards at all. (Looking under the table for the Ace of spade and the little joker). You should be scared E!
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August 23rd, 2008 at 3:28 pm
It wasn’t fake.. I was there… So I felt it all.
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Ok, so I agree with part of Rena’s comment. If I had someone give me a 5 min orgasm, oh yeah, ole boy is going to catch hell! I’m making sure I get that over & over again. As far as the rest, nah… TW could actually have feeling for you. She could want more than just the occasional crying squirt. But, I didn’t read the history, so I could be totally off base. Isn’t everyone looking for the person that they could grow old with? I know I want to meet them him someday. Maybe that’s all it is. Maybe she knows you’ll never be with her like that, & her hearts already involved. In every relationship there is a point where if he left, who cares (next please), and then there is the point where your heart got involved, and it hurts. When you start thinking, how would my life be with this person in it everyday. Maybe that’s where she is. If she had issues in the past with getting attached to a one night deal, then that’s probably what it is. She wants you all the time instead of part time.
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Your own humble description: “I was reluctant . . . she was happy to see me.” “I’m detached . . .she is demanding and smothering.” You asked “Do women attach those emotional feelings to relationships?” You and TW40 are not in a relationship – you just had sex . . . you had it reluctantly . . .lol! Your question should be “do women attach those emotional feelings to sex?” I think you’ve had enough experience to answer that question . . . it depends on the woman and many women do. TW40’s not crying and running because of the amazing sex, she wants a relationship . . .but then you already knew that
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August 24th, 2008 at 3:56 pm
I was reluctant.. and I found out later that she was reluctant about come over. Our reluctance stems from our conversations over the last couple weeks. It seems as if she wanted to maintain constant contact with me… And I’m not a 24/7 type of guy. I never have…I never will be… Just wanted to put that out there, since it wasn’t known previous to now.
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August 24th, 2008 at 4:07 pm
So knowing that what you want and what she wants are incompatible, why get together? She needs to be really clear if it’s just FWB . . . you are, but she doesn’t appear to be. This is how they get crazy . . . !
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Is her reaction normal for women after great sex? How was she even able to function after 5 minutes of…? Maybe it fried her brain…
Do women attach those emotional feelings to relationships? Emotional feelings-Yes. “those” emotional feelings- ?? depends on what “those” means…
Is the normal reaction to run and hide? Not so much. Bit of a paradox too because her normal response is to smother…
um. if i were you. i’d back up off her. and run.
unless she truly means it when she says she’s cool with just being fcuk buddies. time to pull the Fcuk Buddy Chart out & check the “deep relationship talks” section on it.
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August 24th, 2008 at 5:55 pm
haha.. the chart huh? That’s funny. I think some need to check their emotions a couple times as they go.
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SO..here’s what I get from all this…she had a multiple orgasm which well put her in a place she’d never been in before and well I’m going to have to say I understand exactly where she’s coming from because I had an experience much like it earlier this year…after hours of foreplay then sex and many orgasms I had a series of them which resulted in crying, screaming, and some don’t touch mes…simply because I was so overstimulated….now I did it within the confines of a relationship so I can’t say what it’s like when you’re just fuck buddies. But I would say that women have these reactions.
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@ jaclynn~ didn’t think about it like that. wow.
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I’ve gotten a chick into this emotional state a couple of times (although no squirting) and I actually think it is “normal.” It’s perhaps a bit unusual for a woman to get there with an FB, but Eathan has got some skillz. I’ve done some reading and I’ve noted several experts who describe lengthy orgasmic states (multiple o’s over several minutes) and crying…basically, the fantasy and intensity of the sex is so great it triggers these reactions.
I know when I have super intense sex I start laughing spontaneously!! WTF?! Basically it’s so intense that it’s absurd and also joyous at the same time. The reaction from my partner is priceless when it happens.
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Ha ha ha,, where do you find all these crazy white women?!?!? Yeah it must be a physical attraction b/c some of these chics are crazier than sistahs…lol.
I say she’s an emotional wreck. I know b/c i’ve been there before, cried during sex b/c it was amazing and after sex b/c I knew I wasn’t the only one he was taking to the throngs of ectasy like that. I say this to you again, PLEASE STOP MESSING WITH THIS CRAZY CHIC!!!
Eathan please stop letting your d-i-c-k do all the thinking and responding for you. You’re smarter than this. You’re just bragging about the 5 minute orgasm thing so I’m not even going to entertain it, but you should have let her leave when she said she needed to go home, maybe your indifference would have sobered her crazy ass up real quick like. Leave her be already.
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I thought I was having good sex until I read this!
A FIVE minute orgasm! That must be totally mind blowing stuff! Would totally mess with my head if that had to happen!!
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