Sunday night was the only time I went out during the weekend.  I decided to meet someone new, AC40.  I have talked to her several times over the last month or so.  I really haven’t been in much of a hurry to meet her because I was waiting to see what develops with another woman.  Since, nothing has happened, I figured why not.  I wanted to see who else is out there on the dating horizon.  So AC40 and I decided to meet for drinks at Cantina Laredo. Cantina Laredo is close to both of us.   I arrived a few minutes after she did and we decided to sit at the bar.  AC40 is a divorced, white women.  She’s 5′8 tall, blond hair, and blue eyes.  AC40 has a average physique and is average looking.  She has 3 children and has been dating interracial since her divorce.  Her oldest is in college and her youngest is 4 yrs old.  She ordered a Margarita and I had a glass of wine.

I must say the conversation started out a bit awkward, but it picked up.  AC40 began to tell me how she decided to move to the Dallas area.  She says that after breaking up with her ex, she was looking for a change.  I’m just a bit shocked that a mother can move away from her young children.  I’m a father and I wanted to live close to them as much as possible.  But who am I to judge what works for her.  The one thing that I began to notice about AC40 is, she asks the same questions over and over again.  At first I began to ignore it.  I thought she might have forgot we discussed some of these things on the phone.  But I began to realize that wasn’t the case.  So after the 3rd time of her asking a question, I replied, ” for the 3rd time….” and she got the hint.  She seemed to be very persistent on getting some type of commitment out of me.  She wanted to know if i was interested in dating her.  Of course, that wasn’t going to happen.  There is no way in hell I’m going to do that!  After a few minutes, I think she realized how ridiculous she sounded, because she changed the subject.

The interesting thing about the evening was another woman at the bar.  This woman at the bar was listening to our conversation, which I didn’t mind.  It became a point of laughter for us.  This bar regular began to include herself into our conversation.  She was making jokes about AC40 talking too loud.  It didn’t seem as if AC40 was bothered at all.  Actually AC40 invited her over to our side of the bar.

AC40 and I had a couple drinks while we were at the bar.  I decided that I was tired and ready to go home.  I ended up walking AC40 out to her car.  We stood there and talked for a few minutes.  I gave her a hug and a kiss.  She immediately said that it felt good to be in my arms.  I didn’t respond to that comment.  It could’ve been the Margaritas talking, but who knows.  She invited me to come over Monday evening for a couple glasses of Sangria.  I told her if I didn’t have a conflict on my schedule, I would stop by for a while.

The truth is, I’m not sure if I want to spend more time with her.  She might be the type that irritates me with all the questions.  And the simple fact that she wants some type of commitment from me is alarming.  I don’t approach dating the same way.  Or she might be some mental disturbed woman.

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