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27 August 2008 13 Comments

Last night was a guys night out.  I went to the Frisco Rough Rider game with a couple friends.  The best thing about going to a Rough Rider game is it’s close to home, cheap, and a good place to meet new people.  The Rough Riders lost the game, but it was still a fun night.  Since it was a me and a couple friends, we spent most of the time drinking beer.    Of course we did our share of watching the game, the crowd and women.  This brings me to my next observation.  I’ve always talked about this among friends, but never wrote about it.  When did white women start having so much booty ASS?  Seriously.  I remember the days of the Jordache and Calvin Klein commercials in the 80’s.  The women were slim/petite and they didn’t have any ass at all.  Ok they had a little.  You know the women who had the little bit of curve at the very last minute.  But in the last 5-7 years every other white women has a real bonified butt.

Here’s a example, I was in the Founders Club talking to one of my friends.  There was a group sitting at the table behind me.  I noticed that my friend had a look of disbelief on his face.  I turned around to see what he was looking at.  It was a blond hair, blue eyed woman that was standing behind me.  She was in her 20’s, medium build (size 6), heels, jeans, and a bonified butt.  Normally this would not be our of the ordinary, but my friend doesn’t normally date interracial.  He usually dates black women.  So when I heard him say, “DAMN.”  I had to look.  If he noticed it, I’m sure everyone else noticed it too.  The only thing I could say was, “did you see dat?

Another example, when I am at the mall the newly divorced white women walk around with a sweater over their hips.  Why?  Because they think they have a big butt or someone has told them their butt is big.  This isn’t a new or hip fashion style.  Once they realize that men like a women with a nice butt, they begin to show it off.  For some reason, the old school white community avoid showing off their butt.

As usual, I notice the difference in cultures.  I’ve been reading how obsessed the Brazilian’s are with butts.  They basically invented the thong.  And in case I’ve never said it before, ” thank you for the thong.”  Their culture embraces the round butt.  The women show off their butt on the beach, in parades and in their style of dress.  They are obsessed with butts like Americans are obsessed with breast implants.  Maybe that’s the reason I’m so attracted to the Brazilians when I’m in South Beach.

I can honestly say that black men do notice a woman’s butt.  Of course, we notice hips and thighs.  The one thing that white women say all the time is, “the brothas like my ass.”  Is it because white men don’t like appreciate women with a shapely ass, they begin to date black men?  Or is it because we, black men, notice their butt and purse them more?  I can say that if you have a great ass AND you can dance, you can hypnotize black men by the dozen.  Especially this one.

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  • no imageHoney (Check me out!) said:

    My butt’s only okay, but I can dance and used to go dancing at the BET Soundstage and Pleasure Island/Downtown Disney and totally wowed ‘em.

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  • no imagejaclynn (Check me out!) said:

    Well, I’m a black chick and honestly I didn’t think I had much back there…but the men in my life have told me I’m wrong. Now I see it.

    jaclynns last blog post..Exactly Why You Should Wait….

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    no imageEathan (Check me out!) Reply:

    Some times you have to get someone else opinion to know what ya working with. haha

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  • no imageMissy (Check me out!) said:

    “when I am at the mall the newly divorced white women walk around with a sweater over their hips”. …Do you have newly divorced white women radar??? Too funny!

    It is my perception that black men like the boo-tays a little on the larger side. But that is just a sterotype I think I have somehow got brainwashed to believe.

    I like to shake my groove-thang that’s for sure!

    Missys last blog post..The Rotation

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  • no imageLance (Check me out!) said:

    This is the second time in 48 hours I heard/read someone say that white women are sporting bigger butts. Must be a trend! Personally, I’m all for it. I’m an ass man myself.

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    no imageEathan (Check me out!) Reply:

    I luv the trend Lance.. I’m always up for a nice ass on a woman.

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  • no imageCeleste (Check me out!) said:

    Ethan, you confused me… I think you mean “Bona fide”… I read that the first time and thought you meant “boney”…

    And yeah, I’m wearing my tight jeans…

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    no imageEathan (Check me out!) Reply:

    haha.. yep i meant that too. Glad you got those tight jeans on.. too bad i can’t see what ya working with ;)

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  • no imageMissy (Check me out!) said:

    Are you saying you like “Junk in the Trunk”…as in AMPLE sized? As in “Baby’s got Back”?

    I must say…a brother lover was the first one who told me the term Badonkadonk….or maybe that was Dave Chappelle. Hummm

    Missys last blog post..The House Bunny

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  • no imageNephie (Check me out!) said:

    I too am a whyte gurl wit an Apple Bottom! (Can’t dance, though, I have a hell of a walk)…when I was younger I was a stick…but after the third kid…I was blessed wit curves! It’s the second thing that generates the most attention…the first being, “how tall are U?”…
    Oh funny thing that happened the other night…I was in Williams on 2nd and Scyene in South Dallas…and it was late of course and there was the couple all hugged up, he’s standing behind her…and he said, “Excuse me miss…I don’t mean to offend, but is you man black?”…(I get this one all the time, too)…and I had a smart ass reply and said, “Which one?”…He said, “No, the man you’re dating MUST be a black man to handle all of that!”…I laughed and went back to ordering my chicken…So, his girl is tryin now, “Are you from here?” and I say “this is my hood, if that’s what you mean?” She then got more forward and was like, “Well, we wanted to know if you wanted to join us…” and then it dawned on me…SWINGERS…I said, “no, thank you, but it was lovely meeting you!”
    It tripped me out for a brief minute, but I guess men AND women like donk….Who knew!?!?!?!

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  • no imageTeacia (Check me out!) said:

    Well I gotta admit I’m mad that “becky” is trying to steal our thunder. If it’s one thing that black women are known to have it’s ass for days…teacia got a big ol butt oh yeah.

    Anyhow, this mess is a conspiracy I tell ya….CONSPIRACY!!!

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    no imageEathan (Check me out!) Reply:

    Becky can’t steal ya thunder… Sista’s always got the sonic boom! (ass for days) A little crackle from the lightning never hurts..haha

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    no imageTeacia (Check me out!) Reply:

    LOL…ur a damn fool, but you already know that.

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