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How young is too young?

5 September 2008 21 Comments

Last night was going to be a stay home and chill night. I got invited to go out to Nick’s with close friend, MB. MB was going to meet a date, but wanted to hang out before he arrived. I figured that would be a good break, especially with the football game on TV. We arrived around 630pm. MB was drinking beer and I was drinking water. (i got a little drunk after the blogtalkradio show on weds.) MB and I was just goofing off and talking about dating, when she pointed out that I was flirting with the waitress. I didn’t realize it, because I was being social at the time. I wasn’t trying to flirt with her.

The next time the waitress came to the table I began to check her out. She is attractive, 5′4″ tall, long brown hair, brown eyes, and athletic build. She had the shorts and the usual referee shirt on. I noticed that she had a tattoo on her ankle, long hair, and looked fairly young. Over the next few minutes I included the waitress in our conversation. She told me what her tattoo meant and explained her college courses. She wants to be a nurse. I even asked her if she dated guys outside her race. She said yes. I expected her to say she dated black men, but her last boyfriend was a Hispanic guy. That is when I told her I date white women and write a IR blog. She seemed a bit intrigued. This is when I found out she was 19. I thought she might be 22, but I told her I was 19 too. MB laughed uncontrollably. So I then said, “I’m joking.. I’m 28.” MB laughed so hard, I think she snorted! The fact that MB, another woman, was laughing made her nervous. I couldn’t get MB to quiet down quick enough.

The one thing I know is, when a guy is trying to flirt with a woman and another women laughs at him, it’s not a good thing. It’s another form of cock blocking. (shame on MB for cock blocking)

MB and I asked her if she noticed any differences with different guys of different races. She immediately said there are attitude differences. It was interesting listening to her talk. So immediately I asked her out to the movies and for her phone number. She pointed out that lots of guys ask for her number, but the movies was cool. So my next line was, “You’re right...I’ll do you a favor and save you the embarrassment of asking for my number.. that way you can call me when you want to go out.” She gave me a high-five and said, “i have to admit that was good.” But she never said no to the movies.

A few minutes later MB’s date showed up. I stayed for a few minutes before leaving the two love birds alone. I didn’t get 3 steps from the table when the waitress stopped me. She wanted to know when I was going to see her again and if I was coming back. I laughed and said, “I’ll come back on another day or you can just call me.” She told me when her next day at work and wanted to hang out with me before she went on a date. I agreed to do that. She wanted to check me out a little more.

Now the delima is, she’s a few years younger than my normal dating requirements. I’ve watched other people date much younger people. Usually they bring drama and other b/s issues. But I heard something on the radio the other day, “They all have issues, why not get one that looks good nakkid.” Damn. Is that why Cougars date younger men? Is that why older guys date younger women?

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