EathanMormon girl is 1/2 way through her visit to Texas.? She will be here for one more week.? Her visit has been different from the previous visits.? In previous visits we’ve gone out for dinner, drinks, and ect.? On her last visit we went to Fox & Hound to watch the Cowboy games with her old roommate.? This visit has consisted of her coming over for a few hours and leaving.? She has come over several times and spent the night 1 time, but left shortly after waking up.? She constantly thanks me for sex and her orgasms.? The one thing that is starting to bother me is that she’s sexually conservative.? It’s left me sexually frustrated and unsatisfied.? It’s like watching a VHS of a movie when you’re used to watching HDTV.? It’s quality is fuzzy, out of focus and the audio sucks.
I don’t mind that this relationship has developed into one of the most long distance booty calls I’ve ever heard of.? The problem I have is that she isn’t on the same level sexually that I am on.? I realize that she comes from a conservative background, but does that mean that she doesn’t have a porn star alter ego waiting to make an appearance?? I started out making subtle hints.? Have you ever taken pics?? What’s your favorite position?? Do you have fantasies?? Then I became very direct.? Have you ever squirted?? Do you mind if I turn ESPN on?? Do you enjoy porn?? Do you wanna make some porn?? It’s like I’ve gone back in time and she’s a 18yr old that is just happy with getting laid.? How can you be this conservative in your 30’s?
I’m starting to realize that I accepted her conservative sexuality because I thought she was a bit nervous.? I thought she would explore her sexuality and possibly learn some new tricks.? Now it’s clear that it’s not that at all.? I can’t blame this on her being a Mormon, because I know other Mormons that are sexually wild.? Hell they have left me speechless at times.? (God bless you wild freaks!)? It’s a fact that I’m more adventurous.? It’s a fact that I’ve set the sexual bar higher than she can dream.? I’m starting to realize that this will probably be the last time I encourage her to visit me.? She has text/call me several times to find out if I was available.? I did 1 of 2 things.? I didn’t reply or I said I was too busy with work.
It’s not often that I avoid sex with an attractive woman, but this one has me totally turned off.? I thought it was my lack of emotional involvement with her.? I was wrong.? I can list others that I’m not emotionally involved with and I WANT to have sex with.? The one thing they have in common is sexual satisfaction.? They are great in bed.? They know what mutual satisfaction is.
When I begin to think about sexual satisfaction, I think of TR37.? TR37 and I have total sexual chemistry.? I have other issues with her, but sex isn’t one of them.? I’m starting to wonder if our sexual chemistry is enough for me to explore a relationship.? Is she really crazy or is she just living with her emotions on her sleeve?
How much weight do you put on sexual chemistry in a relationship?? How long can sexual chemistry last?
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Oh Eathan…wow Eathan…she needs to come on up with it a little more..I’m young and my crap just got awakened…seriously awakened. Like I’m an animal…I can give her lessons if you want lol
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Eathan Reply:
September 15th, 2008 at 12:22 pm
Yeah she does. Who woke you up? lol
If we could hear her side of the sex, I would bet she is frustrated and unsatisfied also(maybe with her self). good sex is okay, but great sex you tend not to get out of bed so fast.
Dawn
Eathan Reply:
September 15th, 2008 at 3:57 pm
Well Dawn ..I figured I’d text her and ask her your question, if she was frustrated.. unsatisfied..or satisfied. Her reply was as follows – “satisfied ALOT”
That’s a direct quote.
Dawn Reply:
September 15th, 2008 at 4:11 pm
well she does have much to learn
Dawn Reply:
September 15th, 2008 at 4:14 pm
may i add for her self and her partner
Eathan Reply:
September 15th, 2008 at 4:45 pm
lol..for anyone.. bad sex sucks!
Eathan Reply:
September 16th, 2008 at 9:21 am
I went there again… and it still sux. I need to send her the how to ‘blow’ him away book.
SthrnClss Reply:
September 17th, 2008 at 5:13 pm
If she’s so out of tune that she doesn’t realize she isn’t doing anything for you she probably doesn’t know what “satisfied ALOT” is REALLY like. She’s probably easily satisfied.
Who has the control here? She just lays there? No moans? Panting? Deeper? Faster?
I don’t want to go into too much detail without sounding like literary erotica but next time (with or without this person) try taking more control. The questions, eh – doesn’t sound too appealing.
Tell her what to do – get on your knees, open your mouth, kiss it, stick your tongue out, etc.
Eathan Reply:
September 16th, 2008 at 11:21 am
I’m not in the business of teaching her the basics.. but I will say that her basic sense of direction is pitiful. I have given directions, I’ve moved her and placed her in different positions. The truth is.. if she has no idea of what the hell to do.. you can’t create physical chemistry. For me that’s a mood killer.
There’s a some type of value for experience in my world.
Dawn Reply:
September 16th, 2008 at 12:03 pm
My question for you Eathan is,
Was the physical chemistry in the house on her other visits?
Eathan Reply:
September 16th, 2008 at 12:10 pm
“I?m starting to realize that I accepted her conservative sexuality because I thought she was a bit nervous. I thought she would explore her sexuality and possibly learn some new tricks. Now it?s clear that it?s not that at all.”
That was my previous thoughts. But that only works for a quick hit & run type move at the end of the night, when you have no other options available. Now i’m willing to take a full sexual ‘pardon’ and just say no thanks.
ROFLMFAO!!!
Eathan Reply:
September 16th, 2008 at 1:10 pm
Hey..I figured it’s made the other women excited…it might work for this one too..lol
In my opinion, someone who is actually paying attention to his or her partner’s reactions can figure out what to do. It’s part of wanting to please your partner, not just going through the motions. So, if she can’t figure out what to do… she’s either incredibly inhibited, or she isn’t a very thoughtful partner.
Eathan Reply:
September 16th, 2008 at 3:30 pm
I have to agree with that analogy.
Sexual chemistry is huge, and I think any reader of your blog will agree with that. It will make or break a relationship for sure.
I’ve had sex with a couple of women that were roughly as sexually conservative as you’re describing at it sucked, basically I got blue balled every time we did it was so lousy. Afterwards I would be like, is that it?
There’s really nothing you can do because her sexual values are deeply tied to her personality and her core values. My perspective is only heavy change agents can change someone’s core values. A change agent would be something along the lines of a bad breakup or a death or something like that. You’re doing the right thing by moving on.
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Let’s face it: having a healthy, hot sexual relationship often takes time and energy. If you two lived near each other, you could probably work on it.
But if you’re really interested in having a long-term woman in your life — with whom you can have good sex — I’m not sure why you’d stay?…
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Eathan Reply:
September 17th, 2008 at 5:21 pm
I agree with your point to some degree on a hot & healthy relationship… but I also think.. “if you got it..you got it…and if you don’t, you’ve missed out”
Some things just can’t be manufactured. I don’t think you can teach a nun how to booty shake. Ok..not a real nun..but you get my point/idea. haha
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