Over the last few days I’ve been giving a lot of thought to sexual chemistry.? Honestly, it means the world to me.? It’s almost as important as air and water to a relationship, not necessarily in that order.? I’ve always been the type of guy who didn’t enjoy getting head.? It’s a well know fact among my friends and ex’s that I can take a rain check on receiving head.? I’d rather give than receive.? Maybe it’s because of my girth.? Maybe it’s because I rarely orgasm from receiving.? Maybe it’s because I’m a lover that enjoys pleasing the woman.? My dilemma comes when I read other bloggers discuss how important getting head is.
I recently read Singleblackmale & MrSwagger on this topic.? Both of them offer great dialog to encourage the art of giving.? My concern is that all of a sudden I want it more often than before.? I know that some of my dates have never experienced my tongue pleasure and vice versa.? They don’t complain and neither do I.? We have such sexual chemistry that oral sex never enters the equation.? Recently I had a rendezvous with Mormon girl.? I’ve been very vocal about how dissatisfied I was.? Usually I make the best of a situation, but that didn’t happen here.
Here’s the scenario.? Mormon girl and I already finished round 1.? She and I are lying in bed after a brief nap.? I moved over so I could spoon her.? It was during this time where the foreplay began.? I began to kiss her neck and back.? I nibbled on her ears.? That’s when I began to notice the goose bumps on her shoulder and arms.? About 10 minutes later, I touched her breast and rested my hand on her hip.? Almost immediately she moved her hips to allow me to touch her more intimately.? I continued to touch her gently for the next 20-30 minutes.? Every thing seemed to be going great.? I suggested that she reposition herself.? I attempted to prepare her for the scissor move.? That would be where one of my legs is over her legs, while she is on her side.? She seemed lost.? I had to? move her like I was her chiropractor.? WTF??!!? We maintained this position for over 10 minutes.? In a bold and daring move, I moved her around so that her head was in a face to face meeting with my Home Run King.? Yes, I just gave it a name.? And to my surprise, she acted like she’s never done it before.? She didn’t resist.? She forged forward.? OUCH!!!!!? SHYT!!!? I got the dreaded teeth scrape.? There were too much teeth and not enough tongue and lip action.
As gentle and calm as possible, I gave her instructions.? But I don’t think that worked because I keep twitching like my Home Run King got caught in my zipper.? This lasted for as long as I could take it, 2 minutes.? That’s when I gave her the Lil Wayne instructions, Like a Lollipop, Like a lollipop Dammit. This was pathetic and I had to stop her.? It was a real mood killer.? The only thing I could do is try to salvage the conservative style sex.? Which I did and once again it left me wanting a more satisfying experience.? I’ve given up the idea of teaching a 30 yr old woman the art of sex.? I’ve also given up the idea of repeating sex with Mormon girl.
Once again, sex isn’t the most important thing in a relationship, but it’s right up there with air and water.
So now I’m the guy who never wanted a Blow Job from a date, who now wants a good one to erase the memory of a bad one.? Is this a normal reaction?? Am I the only guy that dismisses a bad memory by creating a new one?
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