I decided to publish this again. I get a lot of emails asking me why white women. Originally this appeared on this site in March 2008. But I want to make it easier for some of my new readers to keep up. Recently a faithful reader contacted me regarding my dating preferences. JF26 is a black woman who reads my page daily. She was curious about the diverse readers of the site. I’m sure she was as surprised as most of you will be, there are quite a few black women reading my site. 
Even though my writing is about my interactions with white women, it’s still about relationships between a man and woman. Eventually JF26 wanted to know why I prefer dating white women and is there a specific reason why I don’t date black women. So I will attempt to explain it the best I can.
I would first mention there are several reasons why I’ve been attracted to white women. Personally, I grew up in a upper middle class, white community. Of course, alot of my childhood experiences were with white counter parts. Everything from my first kiss, holding hands, and even puberty. Adapting to my environment became more than just a temporary thing. My hobbies, my entertainment, music choices are all based off what my friends and peers enjoyed. I am a direct product of my childhood. Now I’m very diverse in my taste of music. I enjoy classic rock, pop, techno, dance, hip-hop, rap, rock and even alternative. I enjoy hobbies like, deep sea f
ishing, camping, swimming, snorkeling, and boating.
There were a few years of high school when I was exposed to other ethnicity’s. I remember my first day of school at a all black school. It should have been the most comfortable day, but it was the scariest day of my life. I didn’t know what to expect. Of course, I survived and had a great time. But it was during the next couple years, when I began to date girls of the same race. For some reason, I never took our relationship to the next level. It was just a superficial relationship. A couple of my girlfriends thought I wasn’t interested in them. At the time, I wasn’t sure what it was. I was dating the popular girls at school, most of them cheerleaders.
As a young adult, I moved to Dallas, Texas. Dallas reintroduced me to the white community. Automatically, I felt like I was home. I began to socialize and date with white women. We share a lot in common. I would spend my weekends at pubs drinking beer, playing darts, pool, swimming and listening to rock music. Everyone that was in my life enjoyed similar interests. During the summer we spent the days at the lake on the boat and the nights hanging out. The next few years it became apparent that I was attracted to white women more than black women. The more I woke up next to a white woman, I found my self attracted to the smell of their hair, their smoothly shaved legs, their french manicured toes, their porcelain like skin and their free spirit. The contrast of our skin is one of the most erotic things I can imagine.
I know plenty of beautiful black women, but I don’t find myself attracted to them in a romantic way. I can appreciate their beauty, but it’s not for me. Over the years, some have taken this as a insult. I take it as the ability to make a choice and to have a preference.
Thanks for the question JF26. Talk to you soon.
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