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		<title>By: Eathan</title>
		<link>http://idatewhite.com/2008/09/30/why-white-women-2/comment-page-1/#comment-2113</link>
		<dc:creator>Eathan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 10 Oct 2008 07:51:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I don&#039;t understand judging either..  It amazes me.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I don&#8217;t understand judging either..  It amazes me.</p>
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		<title>By: Eathan</title>
		<link>http://idatewhite.com/2008/09/30/why-white-women-2/comment-page-1/#comment-2112</link>
		<dc:creator>Eathan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 10 Oct 2008 07:49:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I don&#039;t have a &quot;black&quot; child.  I&#039;m not having any more children at all..so it&#039;s not a issue.  My children can/will date whom ever they choose.  My family is diverse.  I have many different races in my family.

I date who I&#039;m attracted to.. and that&#039;s all that really matters to me.

FYI.. why would i care what my family feels about my choice?  I&#039;m a grown man... I make my own decisions based on my own likes or dislikes.  Why would someone date based off of what their family thinks?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I don&#8217;t have a &#8220;black&#8221; child.  I&#8217;m not having any more children at all..so it&#8217;s not a issue.  My children can/will date whom ever they choose.  My family is diverse.  I have many different races in my family.</p>
<p>I date who I&#8217;m attracted to.. and that&#8217;s all that really matters to me.</p>
<p>FYI.. why would i care what my family feels about my choice?  I&#8217;m a grown man&#8230; I make my own decisions based on my own likes or dislikes.  Why would someone date based off of what their family thinks?</p>
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		<title>By: Wendy</title>
		<link>http://idatewhite.com/2008/09/30/why-white-women-2/comment-page-1/#comment-2110</link>
		<dc:creator>Wendy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 10 Oct 2008 05:09:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Why do black women always say they struggle more than a white women? 
Women as a whole, have the same struggle.. we are (all to often) expected to straddle corporate ladder no-matter what our race.. we are single parents, (altho i personally do not have babies), and go thru the same heart break, same bs period... and as stated above you don&#039;t hear white women complain that we do not get as much help from government programs as a black women have the privilege of utilizing.. i.e. grants, student loans, housing, etc.. 

I do not date white men and am tired of being judged for what I love.. God does not make mistakes and in his eyes we are all equal and cannot help what we like.. it is what it is.  That&#039;s like saying a gay person choose to be that way.. Isn&#039;t being loved and loving someone all that counts? Why is it always reduced to race? Why do people care so much about what others do? It is the greatest feeling in the world to really connect with someone. Why judge so much? If you don&#039;t want to be judged why would you do it to someone else? It only perpetuates racism. Why can&#039;t Americans move forward to a new, brighter day? And embrace our differences, after all our differences are what makes us ALL so beautiful...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Why do black women always say they struggle more than a white women?<br />
Women as a whole, have the same struggle.. we are (all to often) expected to straddle corporate ladder no-matter what our race.. we are single parents, (altho i personally do not have babies), and go thru the same heart break, same bs period&#8230; and as stated above you don&#8217;t hear white women complain that we do not get as much help from government programs as a black women have the privilege of utilizing.. i.e. grants, student loans, housing, etc.. </p>
<p>I do not date white men and am tired of being judged for what I love.. God does not make mistakes and in his eyes we are all equal and cannot help what we like.. it is what it is.  That&#8217;s like saying a gay person choose to be that way.. Isn&#8217;t being loved and loving someone all that counts? Why is it always reduced to race? Why do people care so much about what others do? It is the greatest feeling in the world to really connect with someone. Why judge so much? If you don&#8217;t want to be judged why would you do it to someone else? It only perpetuates racism. Why can&#8217;t Americans move forward to a new, brighter day? And embrace our differences, after all our differences are what makes us ALL so beautiful&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Saucy Dame Dizzle</title>
		<link>http://idatewhite.com/2008/09/30/why-white-women-2/comment-page-1/#comment-2106</link>
		<dc:creator>Saucy Dame Dizzle</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 10 Oct 2008 02:28:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;&lt;i&gt;The more I woke up next to a white woman, I found my self attracted to the smell of their hair, their smoothly shaved legs, their french manicured toes, their porcelain like skin and their free spirit.  The contrast of our skin is one of the most erotic things I can imagine.&lt;/i&gt;&quot;

Wow, seems like slavery, racism and &#039;colorism&#039; have really done a number on &#039;us&#039;.

With the exception of &quot;porcelain skin&quot;, I don&#039;t see how the above attributes are exclusive to white women. 

Just curious.

Do the women in your family not share a similar description?
Will/Do you refuse to have a &quot;black&quot; child as well?
Will you teach your children to exclusively outside of their race?
How do you parents feel about your choice?  

Date who you want. The world is yours. I&#039;m open to dating men from all walks of life, color and creed. But I think there are psychological reasons, outside of environment and commonality for your choosing to date white women, exclusively.

Or, am I misunderstanding your post?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;<i>The more I woke up next to a white woman, I found my self attracted to the smell of their hair, their smoothly shaved legs, their french manicured toes, their porcelain like skin and their free spirit.  The contrast of our skin is one of the most erotic things I can imagine.</i>&#8221;</p>
<p>Wow, seems like slavery, racism and &#8216;colorism&#8217; have really done a number on &#8216;us&#8217;.</p>
<p>With the exception of &#8220;porcelain skin&#8221;, I don&#8217;t see how the above attributes are exclusive to white women. </p>
<p>Just curious.</p>
<p>Do the women in your family not share a similar description?<br />
Will/Do you refuse to have a &#8220;black&#8221; child as well?<br />
Will you teach your children to exclusively outside of their race?<br />
How do you parents feel about your choice?  </p>
<p>Date who you want. The world is yours. I&#8217;m open to dating men from all walks of life, color and creed. But I think there are psychological reasons, outside of environment and commonality for your choosing to date white women, exclusively.</p>
<p>Or, am I misunderstanding your post?</p>
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		<title>By: Eathan</title>
		<link>http://idatewhite.com/2008/09/30/why-white-women-2/comment-page-1/#comment-1964</link>
		<dc:creator>Eathan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 04 Oct 2008 04:36:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yeah..I try to stay updated on new stuff.  This one is getting lots of comments.. it&#039;s been crazy</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yeah..I try to stay updated on new stuff.  This one is getting lots of comments.. it&#8217;s been crazy</p>
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		<title>By: Lance</title>
		<link>http://idatewhite.com/2008/09/30/why-white-women-2/comment-page-1/#comment-1963</link>
		<dc:creator>Lance</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 04 Oct 2008 04:10:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hey, just wanted to leave a comment and test your new commentluv 2.0. Ha, pretty cool. Good post btw, lots of comments on this one.

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Lances last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://honeyandlance.com/natalie-dylan-on-cnn-she-doesnt-look-like-a-virgin&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Natalie Dylan on CNN; She Doesn?t Look Like A Virgin&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey, just wanted to leave a comment and test your new commentluv 2.0. Ha, pretty cool. Good post btw, lots of comments on this one.</p>
<p><abbr><em>Lances last blog post..<a href="http://honeyandlance.com/natalie-dylan-on-cnn-she-doesnt-look-like-a-virgin" rel="nofollow">Natalie Dylan on CNN; She Doesn?t Look Like A Virgin</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Eathan</title>
		<link>http://idatewhite.com/2008/09/30/why-white-women-2/comment-page-1/#comment-1955</link>
		<dc:creator>Eathan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Oct 2008 21:03:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks for the compliment.  Trust me when I tell you everything on IDW is true.  But as we all know there is always 3 sides to every story.

Yours, Mine, and the truth.  IDW is just my side of the story.  Doesn&#039;t make it 1/2 truth, just makes it my prospective.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for the compliment.  Trust me when I tell you everything on IDW is true.  But as we all know there is always 3 sides to every story.</p>
<p>Yours, Mine, and the truth.  IDW is just my side of the story.  Doesn&#8217;t make it 1/2 truth, just makes it my prospective.</p>
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		<title>By: Dope Fiend</title>
		<link>http://idatewhite.com/2008/09/30/why-white-women-2/comment-page-1/#comment-1953</link>
		<dc:creator>Dope Fiend</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Oct 2008 19:50:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You&#039;re a business man, with a well thought out marketing strategy. As a woman of advertising I know what that entails...half truths and small print.

Either way, I think that was a great post, clearly or i wouldn&#039;t have written anything. I try to spend as little time as possible on intelligent conversations outside of my free time.

Write another one very soon, I&#039;m intrigued.

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Dope Fiends last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://adopefiend.blogspot.com/2008/10/movie-star.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Movie Star&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You&#8217;re a business man, with a well thought out marketing strategy. As a woman of advertising I know what that entails&#8230;half truths and small print.</p>
<p>Either way, I think that was a great post, clearly or i wouldn&#8217;t have written anything. I try to spend as little time as possible on intelligent conversations outside of my free time.</p>
<p>Write another one very soon, I&#8217;m intrigued.</p>
<p><abbr><em>Dope Fiends last blog post..<a href="http://adopefiend.blogspot.com/2008/10/movie-star.html" rel="nofollow">Movie Star</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Eathan</title>
		<link>http://idatewhite.com/2008/09/30/why-white-women-2/comment-page-1/#comment-1951</link>
		<dc:creator>Eathan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Oct 2008 19:41:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>lol you made me laugh.

Once again I have to direct you to my statement about teens.  I moved to Dallas when I was 17.  At the time of moving to Dallas that was my thoughts and feelings.  

I&#039;m glad you&#039;ve read and commented as much as you have.  

In regards to me deceiving you, I don&#039;t think that is accurate.  All of the facts are written for everyone to see.  All the pieces of the puzzle are here.  I leave it up to everyone to find the pieces.  I can&#039;t give you all the answers, but I will give you all the information you need to put it all together.  It takes a little extra effort, but I&#039;m happy to explain or clearify if asked to do so.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>lol you made me laugh.</p>
<p>Once again I have to direct you to my statement about teens.  I moved to Dallas when I was 17.  At the time of moving to Dallas that was my thoughts and feelings.  </p>
<p>I&#8217;m glad you&#8217;ve read and commented as much as you have.  </p>
<p>In regards to me deceiving you, I don&#8217;t think that is accurate.  All of the facts are written for everyone to see.  All the pieces of the puzzle are here.  I leave it up to everyone to find the pieces.  I can&#8217;t give you all the answers, but I will give you all the information you need to put it all together.  It takes a little extra effort, but I&#8217;m happy to explain or clearify if asked to do so.</p>
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		<title>By: Dope Fiend</title>
		<link>http://idatewhite.com/2008/09/30/why-white-women-2/comment-page-1/#comment-1950</link>
		<dc:creator>Dope Fiend</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Oct 2008 19:27:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;My style of writing is to allow the reader to your own interpretation.&quot;

Well clearly your marketing strategies are working because from the blog name
 I DATE WHITE

to your choice of wording

?I?m sure she was as surprised as most of you will be, there are quite a few black women reading my site.?

&quot;I remember my first day of school at a all black school. It should have been the most comfortable day, but it was the scariest day of my life...I survived?

&quot;Dallas reintroduced me to the white community.  Automatically, I felt like I was home.&quot;

&quot;The contrast of our skin is one of the most erotic things I can imagine.&quot;

From your very well marketed post, on your catchy and shocking site, you deliberately led me to the image of a confused black male. Now I&#039;ll admit this is probably the most I&#039;ve written on someone else&#039;s blog, so yes you  achieved your purpose, to get more dialog, but if it&#039;s true what you say, then, I have been deceived, and this whole site is based on half truths?

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Dope Fiends last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://adopefiend.blogspot.com/2008/10/movie-star.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Movie Star&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;My style of writing is to allow the reader to your own interpretation.&#8221;</p>
<p>Well clearly your marketing strategies are working because from the blog name<br />
 I DATE WHITE</p>
<p>to your choice of wording</p>
<p>?I?m sure she was as surprised as most of you will be, there are quite a few black women reading my site.?</p>
<p>&#8220;I remember my first day of school at a all black school. It should have been the most comfortable day, but it was the scariest day of my life&#8230;I survived?</p>
<p>&#8220;Dallas reintroduced me to the white community.  Automatically, I felt like I was home.&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;The contrast of our skin is one of the most erotic things I can imagine.&#8221;</p>
<p>From your very well marketed post, on your catchy and shocking site, you deliberately led me to the image of a confused black male. Now I&#8217;ll admit this is probably the most I&#8217;ve written on someone else&#8217;s blog, so yes you  achieved your purpose, to get more dialog, but if it&#8217;s true what you say, then, I have been deceived, and this whole site is based on half truths?</p>
<p><abbr><em>Dope Fiends last blog post..<a href="http://adopefiend.blogspot.com/2008/10/movie-star.html" rel="nofollow">Movie Star</a></em></abbr></p>
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