EathanOver the last few years there has been a major grown of the Seduction/Pick Up Artistry.? It’s all because there are guys who want to hook up with the hot women.? The type of women who wear the hot outfits, high heels, wonder bras and hair extensions.? They brush off the normal and regular guys by the dozen.? They want to know how to achieve social success.? There are tons of websites.? There’s books and dvd’s that you can buy.? They even have a TV show on VH1.? I have to admit that I have watched The Pick Up Artist on VH1.? I can describe it as entertaining.? I enjoy watching socially dysfunctional guys getting shot down by average looking women.? The interesting thing is the confidence that the ’students’ gain from learning.? It’s almost like watching a kid with a new toy.? They want to try it out every chance they get.
I’ve been reading several other sites regarding the show.? I’ve noticed that some readers are shocked that guys would pay someone to learn how to become a Pick Up Artist.? I’m not surprised or offended by guy wanting to learn how to get the girl.? I might do the same thing if I was a 40 year old virgin.? I might even resort to hypnosis if I was horny enough.? Hypnosis on a woman, not myself.
I was reading another site, TSB, that is reviewing the show and the content.? Just like most guys, they are giving odds on who is going to win this season.? I have to admit, I need a bookie to give my winning bet to.? I’ve been waiting for Lance to give me his pick.? I guess it’s just my way of pulling for the underdog.
That is me with the blonds
As I watch The Pick Up Artist, I began to think there are better ways to prove their skills.? I mean seriously, I’ve thought of a way to make the show a mainstream hit.? Are you ready?? It’s the Interracial Pick Up Artist!? I know that some of you expect this type of thinking from me, but I will explain my genius.? After looking at all the students on the show, I don’t see any black guys.? Not even a light skinned brotha.? There is a Asian guy on the show and that’s close.? But it’s not the King of Spades.? I would pay to see Mystery or Matador walk into Club X (fictional name).? Club X is an all black club in Atlanta.? I want to see them have the same success they preach on the show.? Can that happen?? That’s would be the real challenge.
I would pay to see them teach a black man how to pick up white women.? Why?? I think that is more challenging and I’m always up for a challenge.? The challenge isn’t to pick up the beautiful woman at the club.? The challenge is to convince the B.V. to change her dating options and date outside of her race.? Could one of the guys walk up to a group of women, a set, and work his magic.? The magic is not only to win over the girl of your desire, but also keep her friends from cock blocking.? As funny as this sounds, I’d be interested in watching it.? I’d probably DVR it and host watching parties.
Me playing guitar
In the meantime, I’ll offer my services to any one interested.? Why pay $2900 to learn to pick up women of your own ethnicity, when you can learn to pick up women out side your race.? I am offering to teach guys for much less.? Not only do I have a well documented resume of accomplishments, I am also an self proclaimed expert in interracial dating.? If anyone is interested in my services, you can contact me by sending me a message on the Got Questions page.? I’ll be happy to give you a 30 minute free consultation.
What do you think about Pick Up Artists?? Do you think The Interracial Pick Up Artist would be more exciting than VH1’s version?? Is there a full proof method to pick up a date?
| 3.2 |
Loading ...
{ 7 comments… read them below or add one }
Ok, so now I need to look into this dating interracially thing and I will be back to read the post as soon as I get settled at work.
…I only stopped by to say, DAYUM your elbows are ASHY…DO BETTER!! LOL!
[Reply]
Eathan Reply:
October 24th, 2008 at 7:55 am
haha.. I knew you would say something like that. Are you sure it’s not a glare on the pic.. I don’t keep ashy elbows..lol
[Reply]
Teacia Reply:
October 24th, 2008 at 8:12 am
nope homie…you just ashy, lol.
[Reply]
Nephie Reply:
October 24th, 2008 at 10:07 am
You shoulda let me photoshop that out fo ya! LOL still luv ya tho, Bro! Actually I like the pic…
[Reply]
Eathan Reply:
October 24th, 2008 at 10:22 am
lol.. That just shows how real i am.
That is the lamest show I ever saw. Speaking as a hot blonde, none of that garbage would ever work on me. You have the advantage of being attractive, which is what most women look for to start. I wear heels and hot outfits. No extensions and no need for the wonderbra, but still. If these dues are looking to pick up total skanks, maybe that stuff on that show will work, I don’t know. In my personal experience, the guy has to be attractive. Not perfect, just have confidence (not cocky), class (not some obnoxious outfit) and needs to be genuine. I don’t want to hear an “oh baby baby”, I want a normal conversation. Buy me a beer (and a shot). They need to have a woman teach those tards on that show, not some tool.
Julie@Cool Mom Guides last blog post..He Says?
[Reply]
Eathan Reply:
October 24th, 2008 at 9:17 am
I agree.. You ARE the hot blonde. I laugh at plenty of the things that are said on the show. I think part of the problem with some of the guys, they don’t know how to have normal conversation with a woman. They don’t have that confidence to approach women and say hi with out looking like a fool.
I’d buy you a beer (Pint) and a shot quick.
[Reply]
But you need to introduce me to your friend over there…
[Reply]
Eathan Reply:
October 24th, 2008 at 10:11 am
haha… he was just hanging for dear life that night.
[Reply]
Dawn Reply:
October 24th, 2008 at 2:03 pm
I can perform CPR if he needs…but it’s a long drive
[Reply]
Eathan Reply:
October 24th, 2008 at 2:19 pm
I’ll let him know you will give him mouth 2 mouth..lol
I bet you could host the show….Great Idea!
[Reply]
Eathan Reply:
October 24th, 2008 at 11:20 am
It’s possible that I could. I think my approach would be a lot different than what you would expect.
[Reply]
Nick Reply:
October 24th, 2008 at 11:26 am
I would tune in for that… Hey Missy, Aren’t you the one that my girlfriend donated for the Komen Foundation?
[Reply]
Eathan Reply:
October 24th, 2008 at 11:31 am
It’s possible Nick.. The Koman Foundation gave us a different link since then. I Date White readers can donate money through the links.
They appreciate all of our donations.
[Reply]
You know Eathan, I never thought about the interracial thing. My buddy at work brought it up because he told me he never tries to pick up white women because he doesn’t know if they like black men. And asks me how I do it?
Well my answer was that when I go up to talk to women, I don’t even think about it. I think of it as a guy talking to a girl. I just assume that they’re ok with it so that it never even comes up in my mind.
I’ve been in relationships with all types of women. I’ve been with black women, Asian women, Jewish women, Italian women, Irish women and various others. I guess the cool thing is that I have been brought up in a home where being open is the key to success.
So I’m right there with you, E. Let’s start a campaign of the interracial pickup artist. There aren’t that many of us out there.
Believe me, I feel like I’m the only one in Boston. Which is a great thing because that means I get the most access to women
Infinitys last blog post..Complete Analysis of Men Trying to "Pick Up" Women
[Reply]
Eathan Reply:
October 24th, 2008 at 12:05 pm
You’ve done a good job in being open minded. The main idea is just being able to hold a conversation. There’s too many guys who are trying something witty..and that doesn’t always work. Being open minded is the key to success.
[Reply]
Eathan, I can’t stand the show, so I couldn’t even begin to handicap the dudes. Although, if they got an Asian guy, I’ll lay my money on him depending on the odds I get!
Seriously, though, the show distorts pickup heavily and what it should be. Closer to reality is the show “Keys to the VIP,” which you can find clips of on youtube. What I don’t understand is, why don’t they just follow around a couple of pickup artists in real life and make a show out of that? Filming that progression would be uber-interesting.
An inter-racial PUA show would be great! I think it’s pretty irresponsible that they didn’t put any brothas on the show, but hey maybe the brothas already have good game.
Lances last blog post..He Ripped My Clothes Off!
[Reply]
Eathan Reply:
October 24th, 2008 at 12:12 pm
The Asian guy seems to have the most personality. He rocks an Afro..and he’s cool. That’s who my money is on too.
The big problem that I have with the show is, they act like there is a special line or story that will make women fall all over you. It’s not that way. Life isn’t that way. I think coolmomguide said it the best… be confident.. have a good conversation..and share a drink/buy a drink. That’s where the fun starts.
[Reply]
I’m with Teacia on the ashy elbows. Because of the angle of the shot, it’s one of the first things I noticed.
As a white woman who dates almost exclusively black men, I had no idea there was a different strategy being employed to pick me up. I have been doing more Internet dating lately, though–are you talking dating IRL only or all comers?
Now that you mention it, I have had a lot of commentary about the fabulousness of my booty. I’m a nice hourglass size 8, but this seems to be less than desirable to most white men. Never heard anything remotely like that from a man of color…You’ve got me thinking: do I subconsciously gravitate towards black men because they make me feel good about my body, or did I always prefer darker men aesthetically?
And my little study has an n=1. Am I generalizing or stereotyping? I think not, when the black men on a variety of dating sites seem to be more accepting of all body types. White men seem to largely want “petite,” “slim,” or “athletic.” Unscientific (and well discussed on other blogs, I know), but that’s been my overall impression. I check off “curvy” and get hits mostly from black and Latino men. Thoughts?
[Reply]
Eathan Reply:
October 26th, 2008 at 2:39 pm
There is a different style of strategy. Not totally different..but there are are a different things.
Men of color have a history of accepting different body types than the main stream white males.
Size 8 is a good size… of course that’s pending that you’re not 4′0″ tall..lol
[Reply]