Comments on: Should You Shave Or Trim?

By: Eathan

Eathan — Wed, 17 Dec 2008 22:53:29 +0000

Well I’m starting to think this could be a regional practice. I got some hate mail from people who think this behavior is associated with a child molester. I don’t agree with them at all.

I agree with you on the clean issue..and not wanting to gag. ughhh.

By: Robin

Robin — Wed, 17 Dec 2008 20:23:12 +0000

I have been with men that do and dont shave. I prefer shaving or at least trimmed, especially if you want my mouth down there!!! Nothing worse than sucking on things and having hair in your mouth!!!! YUCK! I recently asked a man if he shaves and he quickly replied “heck no! that is gay!!”. I had to laugh at him and tell him no it is not and could he at least trim. He was not up for that either. Needless to say nother ever happened between us.

Now as far as myself, I shave!! TOTALLY. I do it because I think it is sexy. Not to mention, if I was a man I wouldnt want my face down there with all that hair!!! Now I will go about 2 weeks in between shaving unless I have a special date I did have a guy tell me he didnt like for a woman to shave and he wanted me to grow mine out. That was a major turn off to me. Just makes me gag thinking about it. I have no idea why this is, it is not like it is going to be my mouth down there, but I cannot do it!

By: Kelly

Kelly — Sat, 06 Dec 2008 01:30:54 +0000

I absolutely keep it bare!! I mean, its pretty why let it be covered up?

That being said, I do expect a man to be courteous and if they don’t shave completely, then it needs to be very close trim. I have only had a couple of experiences where the man was not properly groomed.

Guess I have been lucky as well.

By: Jeff

Jeff — Fri, 05 Dec 2008 15:15:24 +0000

I’ve kept mine shaved (small patch above the shaft)now for years and I shave my stomach. I also trim the rest of my body hair real short to make everything look uniform. It feels much cleaner and much more comfortable. I have been working out in the gym for years and have a good looking body, the body shaving exposes the muscular look. It also makes things much cooler in ther summer as I live in the south.

By: Eathan

Eathan — Sun, 16 Nov 2008 06:42:33 +0000

the visual of what else they don’t shave…lol

By: Amanda

Amanda — Sun, 16 Nov 2008 04:56:02 +0000

What visual?

By: Nad

Nad — Sat, 15 Nov 2008 19:58:56 +0000

I agree,

I think that it is better shaved or trimmed than “au naturel”. A sexual relationship is a skin to skin thing. The more it is revealed, the more appealing the sexual mate becomes. Sleek and smooth skin feels good and looks good.

Maybe people who like it hairy have different expectations of what is a sexy partner. Is a question of ethnicity? Maybe not. I would say that it is a cultural thing though. The fact that white people liked it the more natural possible in the 70s and the more hairless possible today probably reflects a change in body hair’s perception.

That said, I’m white and most men I’ve been with (who were from few different parts of the world) were shaving or trimming without me asking. I certainly prefer it that way!

I know that I feel better and sexier without body hair. Living in Florida, bikini is worn every weekend. Legs are basically, at least half revealed, each day. So, it’s a no-brainer for me.

Ciao! Nad

By: CJ

CJ — Sat, 15 Nov 2008 07:16:51 +0000

I’m a black man and I’ve been manscaping regularly for over 10 years. Actually, my first shot at it was when I developed a cyst on my butt/tailbone (right at the top of the crevise) which the doctor attributed to ingrown body hairs. They shaved the area (plain old Bic razor) then did the sugery to remove it. The doc suggested to “keep that area clear” and I did for a while. When I stopped I developed similar symptoms so I’ve been scaping before the name became popular.

I use one of 3 methods…once every 1-2 months I get to skin level using a cream (usually Veet or Magic Shave paste) on my entire rear, lower back and entire scrotum area. For in between trim ups and maintenance, I use a Gillette Fusion Phenom or a Philips BodyGroom electric bodyshaver. Using the Phenom down there is actually very easy and there is not much of a chance of cutting ones self.

Never had a complaint about the smooth terrain, actually, have had several ladies complain about their other guys’ old growth forest

By: Eathan

Eathan — Sat, 15 Nov 2008 00:42:05 +0000

Ok.. I could have gone all day with out that visual. dayummmmm.

I’m glad you shave it all off.. I like it skin to skin smooth.

By: Amanda

Amanda — Sat, 15 Nov 2008 00:37:23 +0000

I shave it all off. Whether I’m in a sexual relationship or not, I always shave. I am white. It is a personal preference of mine to do it. I, also, hate body hair. A man that trims or takes special care of his personal hygiene is super sexy and gets lots of attention from me.

I’ve noticed several black woman at the gym who don’t shave their legs… so I can only imagine what else they don’t shave. Pretty much all of my white or asian friends shave completely or wax or have laser hair removal.