She’s Out The Closet

A couple weeks ago, I ran into an ex-booty call at Hooters. ?It’s been almost 2 yrs since I’ve seen her. ?I didn’t recognize her at first. ?After watching her from across the room, I knew it was her. ?TS37 and I had a interesting relationship. ?She was close friends with a ex-girlfriend of mine. ?She was a Brotha Virgin when I met her and if that wasn’t scandalous enough for you, she was still legally married. ?Her divorce wasn’t complete, but that didn’t stop our booty call relationship. ?It was a sexually charged relationship.

So when I saw her sitting at a table eating lunch, I wasn’t sure if it was a table of work companions or if it was a group of personal friends. ?So before I closed my tab, I had the waitress send the table a pitcher of beer. ?As soon as the pitcher arrived, she ran over and gave be a big hug. ?We spent the next couple minutes just smiling and keeping small chat. ?TS37 mentioned that she had to get back to her table, but wanted me to come over to meet someone. ?I wasn’t sure what to expect, but I was curious.

TS37 is 5′5″ petite blonde with blue eyes and a killer ass. ?I always told her that her ass would get her into trouble. ?And once again, I wasn’t wrong. ?As I walked to her table I noticed there was only one other person sitting there. ?It was a younger woman on her laptop and drinking a beer. ?I introduced myself and that’s when things took a twist.

TS37 never hid her sexual side. ?I knew that she was bi-sexual. ?I embraced the concept. ?We would lay in bed and she would tell me about women that she was attracted to. ?Some of the women were straight and had no interest in being with a woman. ?Most of the time, I would just let her talk. ?It wasn’t fulfilling any of my fantasies, it was just TS37 being herself. ?She just wanted to talk after sex. ?That’s what we did after a night of dancing and beer.

So when TS37 introduced the other woman at the table, I wasn’t shocked to hear her say, “this is my girlfriend.” ?But the conservative white woman at the next table almost fell out of her chair. ?After a few minutes, I had the inside scoop…

After TS37 and I stopped seeing each other, her and the husband tried to work things out. ?Of course that didn’t work. ?So they continued with the divorce. ?Shortly after she met the 26 yr old girlfriend. ?The one thing they both have in common is black men. ?The girlfriend is divorced from a black man. ?And of course, I was TS37’s first and only black man.

For the next hour, the 3 of us talked about dating and relationships. ?Since we live in a relatively conservative part of Dallas, it’s difficult for 2 lesbian woman to live together. ?TS37 even mentioned that some of the parents at her kids school have been rude and ugly. ?It’s sad to hear the stories. ?But everyone has their own beliefs and I’m not one to judge.

The one thing that TS37 and her girlfriend wanted to know is how I’ve dealt with conservative people around my liberal interracial dating. ?I had to laugh. ?Because in Frisco, Texas they would rather have me date/sex up every white woman in town than to see a lesbian or gay couple in their neighborhood.

I’ve noticed the more and more gay and lesbian marriage is in the news, people are comparing it to interracial relationships. ?They find common ground in discrimination, prejudice and the strange looks. ?Is the gay and lesbian community the new interracial frontier?

It became apparent to me, while I was drinking a beer, ?that we had something in common. ?We’re all dealing with prejudice and discrimination based on our dating choices. ?Now I don’t believe that the lesbian relationship with TS37 will last. ?She loves sex with men too much. ?It seems that she flipped because of such a bad experience with her ex-husband. ?But in the meantime, I’ll hang out with them, have a few drinks, or even dinner. ?Two sexy, bi-sexual women don’t bother me.

Does it bother you? ?Is the comparison of interracial relationships equal to gay/lesbian relationships? ?Are they facing the same social resistance as we are?

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