As I mentioned in First Impressions, LT27 and I have spent almost 2 weeks trying to plan a date.? So far it hasn’t worked out.? She’s had to cancel a couple times.? So mentally I decided to move on.? I moved her into my plan C category. The C category is when I have nothing better to do. ? Either way, I’m not making any effort to meet her.? I’m not planning ahead.? I’m not clearing my schedule for her.? And I’m not going to drive to see her.? As soon as I moved her into that category, she contacted me.
LT27 mentioned that she missed talking to me and that she wanted meet me.? I laughed.? I told her I’d meet her, but I wasn’t going to make any special plans.? She committed to come over after Dirt Bike Boy went home.? Since she lives in downtown Dallas, I suggested that she pack a over night bag.? That way if we went out drinking she didn’t have to drive 30 minutes to get home.? ( sounds like a good idea right?)? LT27 showed up at my place around 9pm.? When she walked through the door, she looked exactly like her pictures.? Just better.? She’s blonde, 5’6″ tall with grey eyes.? She listed herself on her profile as a few extra pounds, but she’s a medium/average build.? I was absolutely happy with her physical appearance.? We briefly hugged and I kissed her on the cheek.
The plan for the evening was to have dinner, drinks, and play a couple board games.? We both decided to order Chinese, but it was past their delivery time.? So we decided that going out would be a better plan of action.? LT27 and I went to Gecko’s.? We spent the next hour eating dinner, having drinks, talking and watching the Cavs game.? Our conversation went very well.? It was a very relaxing evening.
When dinner was over we headed back to my place.? I opened a bottle of red wine and we began to talk more.? After the second glass of wine she mentioned that she wanted to smoke.? I immediately mentioned that I didn’t recall her smoking.? She explained that she smokes when she drinks, but was planning on giving up the habit 100% next month.? Of course, I didn’t buy that excuse.? I think she just wanted to go outside to talk to one of her girlfriends.
A few minutes later she walked back into the house.? We continued to talk.? At this point I realized that she reminded me of another ex.? They both have the same type of job, personality traits and life goals.? I begin to wonder what I should do next.? Immediately I realize that I have make a quick decision.? We could continue to drink wine and have fun.? Or I could end the evening and plan for the second date.
In typical Eathan fashion, I chose the first option.? I decided that we could finish the bottle of wine and keep having fun.? Besides with her track record, it could be another 2-3 weeks before we hang out.? So after the wine was gone we ended up naked in bed.? It started with both of us falling asleep and spooning.? But I woke her up with a simple kiss on her breast.? I kept kissing her body until I reached her hips.? Once I kissed her inner hip, she let out a loud yelp!? I knew she was at the point of no return.? The next 2 hours was nothing short of sexual heaven.? I had her from behind, on bottom, on tops, the wish bone,? and much more.? I had her in to many positions to list.? When it was over, she just looked at me.? I asked her if she was ok and she said yes.? She mentioned that it was nothing like she’s ever experienced before.? So I made a sarcastic joke, “I will agree.. I thought I was spectacular!“? We both laughed.? We fell asleep around 430am.
The next morning I began to wonder if I should purse a relationship with her.? LT27 probably want the fairy story life.? The big wedding, kids, white picket fence and the SUV life in the suburbs.? But there were a few things that I didn’t disclose to her and I’m sure they would have a major effect on our dating experience.? The most important thing I never told her is about my vasectomy.? And I know to most women in their 20′s that is a big issue.
Was it ok for me to have sex so quickly?? Should I have waited?? How soon should I mention that I have a vasectomy to a potential date?
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