When Swirl Goes Bad

by Eathan

Every now and then Swirl goes bad.  In case you don’t know, former NFL Quarterback Steve “Air” McNair died in a major swirl controversy.  Even an avid sports fan like myself was shocked to hear the details.  McNair was a married 36 yr old black man with 4 children with a 20 yr old Iranian girlfriend.

McNair was found shot in a downtown Memphis condo with his 20 yr old girlfriend dead a few feet away.  It appears to be a murder-suicide.  At first glance many people have mentioned that he was cheating on his wife.  And technically that might be true.  But his extremely large and expensive family home was for sale.  Which leads one to believe that it’s possible that he and his wife could be planning to divorce.  His ex-wife gives no inclination of marriage problems.

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But the interesting thing is the 20 yr old Iranian girlfriend was jealous, temperamental and (evidently) psycho.  At first I thought, yeah those Iranian women are crazy.  But I don’t know any Iranian women.  I don’t even have any friends who can validate that claim for me and I couldn’t find anything, via google, that would prove my point.  I am a witness to the jealousy and temper of Italian women.  I am a witness of a redhead’s temper.  And I still have to figure out if Iranian women are known for a specific personality trait.

But the one thing that most white women believe is, black men are players.  Yes we can be social.  Yes we can play the field.  Yes we can play the game.  And yes we can be players!

With that being said, how did his Iranian girlfriend miss the memo?  Maybe she was mesmerized by his financial status.  Maybe she was mesmerized by his fame.  Or Maybe McNair had her dickmotized.

McNair Killed

The one thing that McNair didn’t factor is the psycho factor.  I’m sure when he met her at Dave & Busters he didn’t realize that she would buy a gun and shoot him while he was sleeping.  I’m still amazed!  I’ve dated jealous women before.  And trust me when I tell you they can loose their mind in about 30 seconds.  There was one in ’97 that lost her mind and I ended up with a stab wound in my leg.  Yes, that’s right.  The crazy white girl stabbed me with a knife in my leg.

Did I know she was crazy?  Yes, I had a good idea she wasn’t right.  But crazy women have good sex.  And she did things that only porn stars do.  So in some ways I can sympathize with McNair’s situation.  But sometimes a guy has to run like Forest Gump.

Has anyone experienced a jealous Iranian woman’s wrath?  Was this 20yr old woman just confused on her role in a McNair’s life?  Is there such a thing of two cultures not being a good match (players and jealousy) ?

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  • This woman had to know McNair was married. She probably thought he would divorce his wife. She probably was relying on him as a sugar daddy. She might have discovered he had other girlfriends, or he wasn't getting divorced, or he was cutting her off financially. I agree she was psycho to resort to murder/suicide. But any person can get jealous. And any person entering into the sort of relationship they both chose (he co-owned the vehicle she drove) it playing with psychological fire. Please don't blame it on her being Iranian. I'm in Silicon Valley, and know plenty of Iranians, and pretty much every ethnic group. There is no majority group in Santa Clara county, so we are very used to diversity.

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  • I'm sure she knew about his wife. You can't date a local celeb and not know what their relationship status is. And rumor has it that she was driving a Kia one day and Driving a Caddy the next. He was her sugar daddy. I don't know much about her culture, but sometimes it makes ya wonder.
  • Fab
    I can tell you that middle eastern women have a strong sense of culture, religion and family.

    If they go against upbringing (dating outside of race, sex before marriage etc.)they assume that you will marry them and be together for the rest of your lives.....because their family is more than likely going to disown them for the transgression.

    If McNair did get another, "swirl" or whatever...you better believe she (Iranian) would be more than pissed about it.


    "But crazy women have good sex"....YES INDEED! Emotional, needy, whatever you wanna call it...those women are the best in the sack....just have to sleep with one eye open if you piss them off.....always a trade off...lol.
  • I don't know much about middle eastern women, but I do know... Crazy women have good sex! lol
  • It was my understanding that McNair and his wife had been separated for quite some time (long enough to see other people) so I didn't see a problem with him dating the 20yr old. I think the problem arose when he picked up a second jump-off (swirl) behind the crazy girl's back. Now, there's usually early signs of this crazy and deranged condition. Just like when an abusive man ends up killing his wife/girlfriend, there were signs. You rarely hear of such tragedies because men are usually keen enough to get out at the first key scratch of the whip, or first event of clothes being thrown out on the street. I guess McNair thought he'd bang it a few more times before calling it quits. Just like a female to be one step ahead though. Either way, it's a tragic story with an even more tragic ending. As tragic as it is, there will not be a decline in jump-offs, swings, swirls, or whatever you wanna call em...LOL
  • Well you got a few extra details about their living situation than I heard.
    I'm sure there were signs that he ignored before he got to the next jumpoff. I think krazy people have krazy eyes.

    And I agree it's a tragic ending.
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