I received a couple emails regarding the term BV. So I decided to repost a detail description of what a BV is and how it earned a place in my social vocabulary. The idea of a typical virgin seems to be more of a over exaggerated practical joke. As I watch movies like American Pie, Fast Times at Ridgemont High, Porky’s, and even Super Bad, I realize that it’s just a bump in the road. It’s a right of passage from childhood to adulthood. I’ve written about a different type of virgin on IDW. Some of you have sent me emails regarding the term BV. What is it? What does it mean?
The term refers to a brotha virgin. A black man virgin. This is a term that I coined one night on the town with a group of my friends. I was at a sports bar after the Cowboys game. I was exchanging phone numbers with a tall Texas blond. I asked her if she has dated a black man. She laughed and said, “no..I’m a virgin”. The phrase BV aka Brotha Virgin was born. Since that night the term BV has become a fixture in my vocabulary.
- She wasn’t a BV for much longer-
Since, I’m not in search of sexually inexperienced women (virgins) in my life, the BV is a thing of beauty in my opinion. It signifies a woman who is looking/willing to explore her sexuality. It signifies a woman who wants to try something different. It doesn’t matter if she only wants to verify the mythical black lover. I find it as one of the ultimate compliments. It’s the fact that her 1st sexual experience with a black man will be with me. She has trusted me to share/create a memory that will possibly change her perception of black men. I will admit that it’s a sexual turn on. It’s a turn on to know that you have taken her sexuality to another level. I’m sure this might be similar to a typical virgin. The only difference is, there’s a 99% chance that this will be a great sexual experience.
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