I Was Offered A 3Some

It wasn’t long ago when I told you about size matters with TS49.  She experienced extreme pain and soreness from our nights of sexual pleasure.  Over the last few weeks, we’ve tried all kind of things.  We’ve changed positions, lubes and everything else you can imagine.  And the results are the same.  She wakes up hurting.  Most recently, she experienced minor bleeding.  And I know that some of you women will say, use more lube.  We did.  It appears that she experienced some vaginal tearing.  Ouch!

Since this is the first time I’ve had a partner that couldn’t physically handle my size, we discussed different options.  We’ve discussed not being sexual, but that didn’t seem achievable.  TS49 mentioned that she would be open to a alternative solution.  At first I didn’t realize what she was referring to, but she repeated herself.

“There’s a alternative we can try”.

My interested was peaked.  So she went on to tell me that she would be open to bringing in another woman to the equation.  She suggested that the other woman would be able to offer sexual satisfaction.  And with the other woman there, she wouldn’t be worn out.  ”I’ll watch, take pictures, maybe video and then I can finish you off”, she said.  I was a bit shocked.  By her outward appearance, this didn’t seem to be something I’d expect from her.

Don’t get me wrong, a 3some isn’t a new idea.  For me, it lost it’s excitement in the 90’s.  And I’ve taken pictures and home videos with ex’s before.  It spiced things up for a while, but I thought I’ve moved past that point in my life.

So of course this opened up a new conversation.  I wanted to hear more of her thoughts.

She said this is the only time she has considered this, but I was totally different from anything she’s ever experienced.  She also mentioned that 20 years ago, she would’ve never considered anything like this.  My company and conversation was more important than monogamy.

I also had to inquire if this was a one time offer or would this be a long term situation.  TS49 said, “unless i stretch in the next few months… It will have to continue.”

So now I have to consider if a 3-some will change my perspective of TS49 and my relationship with her.  It’s possible that this could be a lot of fun, but it also could create more drama with another woman around.  And then I also have to consider the possible jealousy issues.

I’m sure the men reading wouldn’t turn down the chance for a 3-some.  How many women would suggest a 3-some to maintain a relationship with a potential mate?  Is it possible to take a relationship serious if you’re have an extra sexual partner?  Should I go for it?   Or should I pass?

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