Saturday night proved to be a interesting evening. Originally I was planning to go fishing at the lake, but at the last minute things changed. One of my local readers and I emailed back and forth. She’s been going through some tough times emotionally and was a bit depressed, so I invited her out for drinks.
She almost backed out, but I was persistent. We ended up going for drinks at Nick’s. That way we could play pool and have cheap drinks. Nick’s is the type of neighborhood bar that a woman will always leave feeling good. Most of the time Nick’s is full of unattractive women. If you see 4 hotties there, it’s a good night. This particular night, my reader was one of the hotties there. This is the 2nd time we’ve gone out for drinks, but it was exactly what she needed. We had drinks, flirted, and just goofed off.
After playing pool and having drinks for a couple hours, CR31 text me to come hang with her at Cuba Libre‘. At that point, I didn’t feel like driving 30 minutes to see CR31. Eventually I decided to meet CR31 at her condo after I left Nick’s. My reader dropped me off at home so I could pack a bag, because CR31 and I planned to go out for breakfast Sunday morning.
When I arrived at Cr31′s around 1030pm. I was a bit tired, so I took a shower and got into bed with CR31. It seemed strange because we were watching TV and drinking beer. And since I normally don’t stay the night at a woman’s house.. I was on unfamiliar ground.
As you might guess, the evening took a sexual turn. The 1st thing I realized is that CR31 was in bed wearing boy shorts and a tank top. It wasn’t sexy, but it was cute. Since I was in bed naked, I began to wonder if she had something else on her mind. As things progressed it seemed like we’re on 2 different time zones. I thought the sex from the last 2 dates would get better, but didn’t. She didn’t have the energy that I’ve experienced from other partners. It seemed like something was wrong.
By this time I’m starting to wonder if she drank too much at Cuba Libre’. I’m wondering if she’s not sexually compatible with me. Or maybe she’s not sexually explosive as what I’m used to. How could this be happening? It seems as if we connect on so many levels. Socially she fits into my world. She doesn’t desire to have kids, she doesn’t want to get married and we always have fun.
Now I have to figure out a way to tell her to bring the sexual energy. So the next morning, we’re talking while we’re laying in bed. I subtly mention that it seems that she’s holding back. She looks at me with a shocked look. So I told her, “it seems like you’re either holding back or not enjoying sex as much as I do.” Her response was, ” can we talk about this later?” So I dropped it.
Now I have to decide what to do. She claims that she loves sex with me, but something seems to be missing. Should I continue to see her and hope things electrify in the bedroom? Should I attempt to talk about what she enjoys?
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