A couple weeks ago I mentioned about a Swirl Cockblock situation. This was where one of my closest friends was involved with a black man that I labeled as a player. Of course I wasn’t wrong in my label, because a Most Valuable Player (mvp) like me recognizes a want to be player with weak bs lines. Now things have taken a suspected twist.
As many want-to-be players, they can’t let go of the woman they have staked claim to. So I recently got an email from him. I’ll refer to him as a rookie, because he’s not on my level. So I recently got an email from the rookie. I’ve changed the names to protect all parties.
“This is Rookie.? I’m the guy you are telling xxx xxxxx s things that you don’t know anything about.
For some reason I hear that you like discussing my personal business that you “think” you know about.
Let me be very clear with you. Don’t say a damn thing to anyone about me. You can try and fuck her
all you want I don’t give a shit. Talk shit to her about her boyfriend, but don’t say shit about me.
I’m not into that immature shit. If you got something to say about me say it to me. I hope I’m
being clear and we don’t have this conversation again because I won’t be so cordial.”
After reading the email, I laughed. If he only had his facts straight, he would have kept his mouth shut. So I responded with the following -
“I’ve been waiting for your email… And I knew that you would get this situation twisted. Which is why I figured you don’t realize that Kitty .. aka Betty knows xxx xxxxx..
I’m sure ya remember emailing her on AFF right?
You might wanna check ya sources before ya come at me.. Cause I may smile when need be.. but I can handle mine. (my hood/ghetto rhettoric)
And just to make sure I’m clear.. xxx xxxxx is my home girl and not someone I am wanting/trying to fukk. Take it for what it’s worth… you ain’t in my thoughts..my topic of discussion or anything else.
Good Luck”
Of course, he hasn’t responded. It would seem foolish for him to say anything at this point. I had a brief conversation with my close friend to tell her if she wasn’t a close friend, I would’ve never mentioned it. But it reveals that black men that are in swirl relationships are very possessive and jealous. And the fact that she has another black male as a friend, is threating his relationship identity. Why? Because as a black man, I can see through another black man’s line of bullshyt.
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