Hi, I read a post you did about asking a nurse out on a date when your son was sick. I have a similar problem….only thing is I was the 0ne in the hospital and got a cute, sexy ,funny male nurse from the Bronx. It’s been a month and I cant get him out of my mind. He is truely rare…you dont find men like him. I was only there for 1 day and a half and I only had him for one day and I’m not even sure how much of that first day I was under his care. I wanted to call him, but i’m scared:( I dont even know his last name! He was super friendly,but he’s probably like that to all of his patients. Should I just forget about him?
Help, Jess. 
I’m not sure what the reason you were in the hospital, but I’m glad you had someone attractive to look at. The one thing to remember is, take advantage of opportunity. Nurses don’t forget their patients, especially the ones they are flirting with. I’ve had plenty of experiences with dating nurses and I always followed through. I’ve always met them when they were working or leaving work. Which means they were wearing scrubs. Something about attractive white women in scrubs will catch my attention.
If you met him and you were that impressed by him in that short period of time, I’d say go for it. I would call the nurse station and track him down. You can leave a message. You can send a card. You can ask a fellow nurse to hook you up ( I did). If you don’t follow up, you will regret it for a long time.
I’m sure my readers agree with me on this one.
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Cute, sexy, funny, and super friendly specifically describes the nurse, but not the ‘HOT’ chemistry between you two. He just may have a great bed side manner geared towards making a patient’s hospital experience smooth.
One question for Jess… were you under any sedation (pain relievers/tranquilizers) and misread the situation for what it really was? Also, I know for a fact a lot of sex goes on in a hospital amoung the staff, from the docs down to the floor sweepers. Point is, if this guy was truely interested, he would somehow, very undercover-like (due to sex harrassment and not wanting to lose his job) make it known he thought the same about you. I say let it go.
I say send him a thank you card for taking such good care of you, put your number in there and hope for the best. What have you got to lose?
Thanks to everyone who left a comment and a special thanks to the author of this blog who posted my question.
Since I wrote to Idatewhite I sent the male nurse a thank you card with my number inside (I was too nervous to call the nurse’s station). However, since I didnt know his last name I had to make it out to him in care of his BOSS!Well, he didnt call. Either he never got the card or he didnt want to call me:( I think it’s the 2nd:( Oh well! I’m happy though that I gave it a try since I’m such a shy person and have passed up opportunities to get to know men who were def. interested in me:) To answer someone’s question, i wasnt on any strong painkillers after surgery and I dont think I misread his signals. I actually dont think he was coming onto me, I just like(d) him because he is everything I want in a man and decided to see if he would consider dating/being friends with me.the strange thing is I didnt have a crush on him untill I left the hospital.
One thing that made this extra hard was the fact that he is white and i’m black. I think it would have been easier the other way around since you see more bm/ww couples.
Doc Culo (or anyone), I’m not a guy so I’m just curious as to how he would somehow, very undercover-like (due to sex harrassment and not wanting to lose his job) make it known he liked me, which apparently he didnt, since he didnt call:(