My goal on this site is to write about my interracial dating experiences. If they are funny, I want to share the story. If they are sad, I want to share the story. I also like to write about my parenting experiences with my two biracial kids. And sometimes I write about hot topics in the news and other random stuff.
Basically I enjoy writing content on this blog, but sometimes bloggers/online publishers have to remind a few select readers what blogging reflects in my life. IDW reflects less than 10% of my actual life. It reflects a few brief actions, thoughts or observations through out the day. Why am I mentioning this?
It seems like every year there is a woman that reads my blog and assumes that she understands who I am. Recently, I connected with a reader for a few phone conversations and emails. It became apparent to me that this woman can’t separate the 3 minutes of reading I provide on my site and who I am.
“I have made myself clear about the type of man I perceive u to be” – Misty Dee W (36).
So I thought about my response and I decided to offer a few answers for Misty Dee and others that spend a few minutes a week reading my site.
- Are all the experiences I share on this site real? Yes.
- Do my friends and family read my site? Yes. I have family members and long time friends as readers. ( sup ya’ll)
- Is my life a 24 hour parade of white women and sex? No. I don’t date 7 days a week.
- Do I get offered sex because of my online status? Yes
- Have I ever turned down a woman’s offer for sex? Yes, on a regular basis.
- Do women send me naked pictures through this site? Yes.
- Am I a single dad? Yes.
- Do I spend alot of time with my kids (Alpha & Dirt Bike Boy)? Yes, as much as our schedules allow.
- Am I able to have a monogamous relationship? Yes, I’ve had several satisfying and healthy relationships.
- Is humor a big part of my life? Yes. I laugh and smile most of the day. I’m a kid at heart.
- Do I have a full time job? Yes. I am a full time blogger. I am the owner of a blog consulting company. I design, customize, webmaster and offer other consulting services for bloggers. I also write content for several of my own blog sites.
So if you’re an avid reader, I am going to offer my basic blog disclosure -
- I make money from every post I put on this blog. If I’m not making money from every blog post, then it was an oversight on my part and it will be corrected soon.
- Every advertiser on this blog is a paid advertiser. If it is not a paid advertiser, then it was an oversight on my part and it will become a paid advertiser soon.
- I attract attention to my site from every tweet I send out on Twitter.
- If you email me, all of the information in your email is mine to do with as I please (including naked pictures), such as exploit for financial profit, use as blackmail, or quote on my blog.
- Just because you read my blog doesn’t mean you know me personally and my understand my every aspect of my life. I will allow my personal relationships speak for themselves.
- I enjoy all the responses, comments and feedback that I receive from this site. Love it or hate it.. I enjoy every minute I spend on this site.
I truly love my readers. I love the thoughts, ideas and laughs that we share. And I look forward to many more good times.
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Bwwwwwaaaaaaaaaahhhhhh!!! You love your readers? I knew you loved me, even if you refuse to say it. You love me, you really do.
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Eathan Reply:
December 1st, 2009 at 4:13 pm
yep I do.. and you too Red
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This is quite funny. No comment. ha ha ha
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Eathan Reply:
December 1st, 2009 at 4:14 pm
no comment?? Seriously? I’ve known you for years and this is the 1st time you’ve had ‘no comment’. haha
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Marsha Thompson Reply:
December 1st, 2009 at 5:10 pm
Well I wouldn’t want to go out on a tangent or anything…….hahaha but I have already told you what my opinion is no need to air it out on here.
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Eathan Reply:
December 1st, 2009 at 7:22 pm
stay focused..
What is your opinion… we all would love to know.
Like I said when someone reads all of these post you have about the different women you have bedded it is actually a turn off. The same way men feel about wanting a woman who has not been around we feel that way about a man as well. That is about as far as I am willing to go for now. And just because you look at something one way does not mean everyone has to view it your way.
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Eathan Reply:
December 1st, 2009 at 11:20 pm
Even it being a turn off.. there’s nothing wrong with a “test spin”.
And having different views and thoughts on subjects is what makes us all unique. Ya gotta luv it.
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No one said there was nothing wrong with a test spin from time to time. From what I gathered from your story is you had been talking to her and she reads your blogs and obviously she is not looking for a test spin or to be a test spin so to speak. Sometimes you think you might want a test spin but realize later on that what you really want for yourself is more than a meaningless f*ck. So with that being said………… I gather she is looking for something more and after reading about your escapades decided it was not something she wanted for herself.
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Eathan Reply:
December 1st, 2009 at 11:45 pm
Have a test spin is great. I guess I didn’t divulge that MistyDee admits to have NSA ( No Strings Attached) sex with a couple partners… or lovers as she referred to them. As recently as a couple weekends ago.. she experienced a back 2 back experience. One on Friday night and another on Saturday night. Now..I’m not one to judge.. but usually people in glass houses aren’t designated to throw rocks.
And even if i’m refusing to give her a test spin doesn’t mean that the content on this site covers every detail of my life.
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oic, ya if she is doing all of that then she has no right to judge you at all, maybe she wants to be able to do it but doesn’t want her subjects to? hahaha
See you should have mentioned that in the post originally because your right she has no right to judge you. However she has the right to decide rather or not she feels your worthy enough for a test spin! hahaha
I think we all have our moments in life that we explore options we wouldn’t necissarily have normally took, look back and be proud of and on the other hand look back and say wow that was fun and leave it at that and move on with life. Obviously she has issues within herself so your better off moving on anyways.
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Eathan Reply:
December 2nd, 2009 at 12:32 am
I wanted to condense the post as much as I could, but all of the things that I listed about myself is true. (which you know) That main concept that I want to convey is that this site is only a few minutes of my life not my WHOLE life. I only choose to share a few interesting aspects.
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