Drunk Confessions

by Eathan

Over the last few weeks, I’ve gone out with SR39 on a regular basis.  We’ve gone to dinner, happy hour drinks and even met friends out for trivia.  It has been alot of fun for both of us.  But sometimes there are things that happen out of your control.  And it usually involves alcohol.

A couple weeks ago, we went out for a night of trivia at our local sports bar.  We met 2 of my friends at Two Brothers.  The evening started out to be very casual and slow.  After a couple hours of playing team trivia, we decided to leave there and head to another pub for a couple games of darts.  Once we got there, the alcohol began to flow.  We went from having a couple drinks to having a lot of drinks.  Since I could see a drunk group of friends, I decided to stop drinking around 11pm.  They were drinking cocktails and shots.  This wouldn’t be an issue, but it was a Tuesday night.

It was sometime after midnight, when I decided it was time to call it a night.  SR39 and I said our good-bye’s and left for home.  As we were getting into the car she said those 3 words that echo in my head, “I love you”.  It wasn’t the context where she would follow it up with, “You can’t have my Bud Light”.  It was a convincing drunk confession.  At this point I had 1.6 seconds to reply and not sound like a interracial loving asshole.  So I immediately leaned over, gave her a kiss and whispered into her ear, “I love everything about you”

And as honest as that statement was, it might not have been what she was looking for.  But it’s the most I can give at this time.  At this time, I love things about her.  I’m not at the point to announce my love to her.  And actually, I take those words very seriously. 308 watermark 320x240 thing called love Drunk Confessions

So now I have to decide was this a true honest confession for SR39 or was this just a drunken urge.

What do you think?

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Article by Eathan

Life long interracial dater and father of two.  Currently resides in Dallas and socially active in the DFW area.  You can connect with Eathan on Twitter and Facebook.

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  • Gary O
    Drunk talk can be real talk. It's always been my estimation that many things said under the influence of alcohol are real emotions hiding behind walls of inhibition. Kanye, Mel Gibson and Elvis Costello can "blame it on the Henny" all they want. The bottle broke them down and revealed their true nature.

    Im sure she meant it but she probably wasn't really ready to say it. She may have still been trying to put you through some more tests and hurdles before she was sure but the alcohol made her reveal that despite any apprehensions or unforeseen problems, she's in love with you. Hopefully she's not too embarrassed now and ya'll can still make a go of things.
  • Oh man, the dreaded "L" word, yep... that's a pretty big motza ball hanging out there. It seems that your reaction was probably the appropriate one, what else can really say without having to reciprocate the "L" word. I've had a few girls drop this on me before, while in a drunken state, and I usually ignore it like I didn't hear her, but that's probably not a very good reaction.
  • Ugh, that's tough. I think it's way awkward and a little inappropriate for her to say that after a night like that...I mean, it's basically needy on her part. That doesn't make it any less true, though, if it is indeed true. Also, women don't usually say the 3 Words unless they mean even if they're wasted.
  • You know what they say about alcohol - it lowers our inhibitions. I think she actually meant what she told you (which may freak you out) but was just not sure what your response would be. If it caused a riff between you to because you are not on the level she is at now she could always "blame it on the a-a-a-a-a-alcohol."
  • LoLecia
    I would take the comment as it was given: a drunken utterance. If she knew what she was feeling - she obviously didn't feel comfortable enough to say it until she got drunk-therefore it may not be a fully mature feeling.
    If you feel it's necessary, I would tell her exactly what you just wrote (unless she can read it for herself) -that you're not ready to go that fast that soon...you're a writer, you can make it sound good.
  • I don't think that this is something that a woman says just becuase she is drunk. I think the drunk factor is what gives her the courage to say something that she was already feeling. It may not have been something she had the courage to say at the time she was sober, but that doesn't mean she wasn't feeling it. ~Just my personal opinion.
  • Good Night
    Women do (sometimes) this test...which you pretend you're drunk and say something out of the blue, just to fish for the reaction....If the reaction is not what you expected or wished, you were drunk...
    I'm not saying that is what she did, but it could be.
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