Interracial Sex Nightmare Update

by Eathan

I want to thank all my readers for their comments and thoughts on my previous post.  At least I know that I’m not the only person on the planet that thinks this was a horrible act.  But now I have to update you a bit more on the situation.  Before I disclose my test results, I think it’s fitting to tell you more.

Following the Interracial Sex Nightmare, I went out with SR39 several more times.  I think it was out of guilt.  I’m not exactly sure why, besides she’s another pretty face.  It was during this time when I could see glimpses of a good person with a confused identity.  There we periods of time when she displayed the desire to pursue a relationship.  Her displays complicated the situation.  It was everything from her pronouncing her love for me during a drunk confession, to her announcing that she wanted to live together in the next few months.

Since we’ve had unprotected sex and there’s a high chance of her infecting me with a infectious STD, I decided to see where this goes.  But eventually, I could sense something wasn’t right.  So I forced the relationship issue with her to see if there was anyone else in her past that would fall out the sky.  And damn.. it’s feels good to be right!  Almost immediately as I posted pictures of our date on my facebook and tagged her, she got a phone call from another guy in her past.  I’ll refer to him as Dan G.  Dan G. was confronting her on things she said to him previously.  After a brief conversation, Dan G contacted me.  He detailed his interaction with her, including their sexual history.

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The one thing from our conversation that stood out was his admittance that SR39 didnt’ mention to him she had genital Herpes until seconds before he was ready to penetrate.  I know what you’re thinking.. how could this be?  How could another man be in a position to not use a condom.  Well according to Dan G, they both were nakkid and touching each other.  She mounted him and preceded to attempt to put Lil Dan G insider her.  And about 2 inches from penetration, she told him.  Immediately he pushed her off and put on a condom.

I was shocked when I heard this story.  It amazed me that 2 people would be at risk with the same woman.  I’m starting to wonder who else is out there that has possibly been infected by her.

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The question that I’m starting to wonder is, what action do I take?  Is there a law against this?  Is this a criminal or civil matter?  Or should IDW readers just pray for her?

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  • Name Has Been Changed To Prote
    I myself have been in that situation. At least you found out the next day. I did not to find out much later in the relationship. I never experienced any "problems" myself. I was clearly upset when she finally told me and to this day I do not now why she finally fessed up to it unless she had some sort of flare-up. I did the research, or course, and got checked and I was clean - thank goodness. But I remember that after the first few times together, I used protection and we became exclusive and "she didn't look sick" so we got rid of the rubber to feel that good feeling without protection. I can't understand why she did what she did. She is a smart woman. But I wonder that if she is even remotely cautious with any other guy she has been with since. You know how some black men are and want to "juice" some woman as a power trip and not think of the ramification like disease or pregnancy.
  • First, sorry you had this unfortunate experience. Second, the woman sounds "off" in so many ways so I'm glad to know you are "running like Forrest Gump" now. And hopefully your results were good.
  • That's a understatement Mindy. :) to quote another Forest Gump line.. "shyt happen" .
  • Doc Culo
    Even though I thought it strange at first Dan G. reached out and provided specific sexual history, in reality he's really looking out for you. She warned him before the act; she told you afterwards, which makes me believe (1.)she obviously doesn't practice safe sex all the time and (2)how many guys are out there that she didn't tell.
    My guess....SR39 provides full disclosure to men about her crotch rot only if she develops feelings for them. Men with no relationship potential don't get the "Declaration of Herpes."
    I'm also guessing your test results came back negative....why....because your writing style/tone is still upbeat versus depressed in a Herpe milk shake.
    One more thing. It is possible to sue someone for giving you Herpes. Remember the old New York Yankees baseball player Dave Winfield? He was sued by a woman for the very same situation, he knowingly had the virus and didn't disclose. Good luck to you Brotha.
  • Well I try to be upbeat in everything I do. Don't get me wrong..I get angry about things, but I am a true believer of a positive attitude can fix alot of things. And I attempt to practice what I preach..

    When it comest to the Dave Winfield and legal issue, I have been in discussions with my legal team to decide what action(s) that would be best for this situation. Trust me when I say, there are several issues on the table.

    I will make my test results public soon.
  • Karl in NC
    Sorry you're in this mess -- ending things with her seems like a good decision. It would turn into a case of "what comes out next?" Like how my 24-year old friend who learned her 36-year old boyfriend was actually 51...there had been plenty of earlier "caught him lying" warning signs. Good to get out now.
  • Karl.. as you know, I don't hide anything.. in my real life or on this site. The one thing that I can't accept is liars.
  • Satya
    Personally I would end my relationship with her. She's irresponsible. She waits until minutes before sex to blurt out she has herpes? This is not ok at all. Much like bedtime story wrote she should say she has the disease before she's in a position to become intimate. I'd be thinking how many people has she done this to, why is she in so many situations where unprotected s*x is about to occur etc...

    I can see why you figured you'd give her some more time. If you have it it's one less convo to have (hopes you don't) and you did feel something for her at some point. But her reckless behavior should trump any feelings you may have had for her. She's a risk to you. A good woman would not have allowed this story to keep repeating itself. One time ok maybe she didn't know how to break it to her partner but repeatedly, definitely not! But you're a smart man you already know this.
  • She is irresponsible in so many ways. And there's no way to know who else has been affected. Trust me when I say.. I've dismissed her.
  • AMTB
    Happy to hear you got rid of her. Bedtime Story hit the nail on the head.
  • Bedtime Story
    You should be extremly pissed off. Reason being is because before you two became intimate with or w/out a condom she should have told you. And she should have told you before you two are in a position to interact on an intimate level.

    My feeling on her not telling or waiting until she is ALMOST in the act with someone is fear of them not wanting to take the intimacy step with her if they knew ahead of time therefore she waits to tell.

    My advice to you is stay the hell away from her. She's definitely trouble.

    There is so many things wrong with this situation.

    Good luck. I know you have a good head on your shoulders and you'll figure it out.
  • Thanks for the comment Bedtime.. You know I take my health very serious and yes I am pissed off.

    I'm running like Forest Gump right now..lol
  • AMTB
    Nothing illegal happened, it was just a lack of common sense. While reading this post, I was waiting for you to say she lies about the STD to test a man's feelings for her. I'm not quite sure how Dan G. could even proceed after she told him but whatever. You need to leave this chick alone. She loves drama, she apparently does stupid stuff when she's drunk AND I bet you'll find out she's had more than herpes in her lifetime.

    Lastly, did I miss your diagnosis or did you not tell us?
  • Wow, man - I'm sending good vibes your way...
  • Hey Kevin.. Long time no see..

    Thanks for the good vibes. That is what keeping me going right now. Keep running in this crazy Texas weather.
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