Most of the time, women are the only ones that can drastically change their appearance with little effort. They do it with a new hair style, hair color, and/or plastic surgery. At the start of the year I decided to shave and get rid of all of my facial hair (goatee). I wanted to change the type of women that I attracted. Instead of women looking at me like the Bad Boy, I wanted to a more innocent and younger appearance. And it has worked. The last few months I’ve dated white women ranging in ages from 24-46.
One of the main reasons why I’ve dated younger women is because I’m physically and social active. Since I don’t sleep much, it’s easier to find younger women that can keep up with me. But since January, I’ve had a couple issues with my dating options.
1. Immaturity in younger women. – The 1st week I shaved my goatee, I had a 24 yr old ask for my number. At first it seemed cool to have a college co-ed taking me home, but then she began to wear on my nerves. I don’t think it was her personality, but she didn’t have a good understanding of silence is golden. She wanted to talk even when there wasn’t anything to talk about. And to top it off, she was quickly distracted by things that really didn’t matter in life.
2. Children – Younger women want to have kids most of the time. They still have the dream of the white picket fenced house with 2.5 children. WTF?? That doesn’t exist. Besides, I’ve got a vasectomy. I’m not adding a few more lil Eathan’s to the world. 
3. Physically appearance – I enjoy dating women who are physically fit. I realize age catches up with us all and BLACK don’t Crack. Even though I don’t look my age, I don’t want to look like I’m on a date with a woman 15 yrs older than me. Recently one of my neighbors told me she would be a cougar for a guy my age. She was surprised to know that she’s only 6 yrs older than I. And I don’t want to wake up one morning to realize that I’m waking up to one of the Betty White of the Golden Girls. Lets be honest, one of the best things about dating a younger woman is their physical appearance. They have a better chance of having a great body with out spending hours and hours in the gym or at Dr. 90210′s office. And in Dallas, plastic surgery is a very common thing. I can name at least 4 women that I’ve dated in the last 3 months that are regularly enhanced.
Is it possible to meet a woman in her early 30′s that doesn’t want kids? Am I the only one having this issue?
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