I Was Arrested

by Eathan

A couple months ago I had what I’ve described as a Interracial Sex Nightmare.  I went out with someone, had unprotected sex with them and she informed me the next morning she had Herpes (not the healthy kind).  As a result of this event, I wrote about it.  I wanted to share the experience with you my readers and I also wrote about it on another site (which I legally can’t mention at this time).

I’ve used this experience as a way to warn others, educate and discuss some of the issues this event created.  So far that part has been a success.  I’ve had detailed discussions with friends near and far about my Interracial Sex Nightmare.  Now the nightmare doesn’t end there.  The saga continues because the woman who attempted to give me “the gift that keeps on giving” has made a formal complaint to the local police department.  Yes, you’ve heard right.

A few weeks ago I had a visit from the local internet task force.  I was read my Miranda rights.  I was served with a search warrant and I was arrested.  The task force confiscated a couple computers and searched my home.  At the time of their visit, Dirt Bike Boy was home with me.  They were gracious enough to allow him to go to a neighbors home, so he didn’t know what was going on.  And Dirt Bike Boy still doesn’t know what happened.

While I was home, the officers allowed me to make a few phone calls.  Of course I called my attorney, Dirt Bike Boy’s mother and a close friend.  Within a few minutes my immediate legal issues were addressed and I was ready for the judicial system to begin working.  Going forward I’m only going to be able to speak of a few things and leave the rest for when this legal issue is closed.

I spent a few days in the Collin County Jail.  I’m not ashamed to admit it.  When I was released from the Collin County Jail, Dirt Bike Boy and his mother picked me up.  While riding in the car and running errands, I then told the ex about my interracial sex nightmare.  Since there was a man that was convicted of spreading HIV to unsuspecting women in our area a couple years ago, she was concerned.  I assured her I was physically ok.  But that concern turned into anger.  She was angry that a woman would put another persons health at risk.     327 watermark 320x240 mugshot I Was Arrested

As it turns out the property management company (Western Rim) that my ex works for also owns the apartment complex that my interracial sex nightmare lives at.  On a side note, Dirt Bike Boy’s sister works for Western Rim and another long time family friend works her apartment complex.  They all know me, Dirt Bike Boy and the family.  So now my story is known by all the people working at her apartment complex and so many more in the local area.  Of course, they want to know who this person is and since I’m only restricted by what I can write online… I’ve been very vocal about who she is.

In the near future, I will post any and all information regarding my legal battle.  I’m working on getting the search warrant and arrest warrant for the site.

Here are the most common questions that I’ve been asked.

Q.  What is crime you’re being charged with?

A.  I’m being charged with Online/Internet Harassment, which is a class C felony in the State of Texas.

Q.  Are you out of jail on bond?

A. Yes, I had to post a $10k ($10,000.00) dollar bond and hire a very expensive attorney.

Q.  Will the conditions of your bond affect your work?

A.  Yes.  Mostly it affects what I can and can’t write about the woman who filed the complaint.

Q.  Since you’re a blogger, isn’t this protected by your right to Freedom of Speech?

A.  I believe it is.  Although my lawyer, myself and others aren’t clear on what the District Attorney’s office feels is a crime related to this issue.

Q.  How are you working if they took your computers.

A.  I’m thankful to a few good friends that have loaned me equipment, so that I can attempt to work until my computers are returned. We’re hopeful that I will get them back with in a month or two.

So as I mention previously, I am changing my time schedule on when I write about events.  I know that my blog is being watched.  But I will surround myself and the boys with close friends that we can trust.

Is Blogging Freedom of Speech?

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  • Ughh..I'm not the Chris Brown type.. I might be I might be chief 'catch a case' if some tried to harm my kids.. but that's about the extent of it. And actually Nephie.. on the site in question..I did mention names. It will be a long legal process.. but I'm not ashamed either.
  • Nephie
    OH EM GEE!!!!!
    That is insanity E!!!
    but at least you didn't look horrible in your mug shot...my lil sarcastic upside humor...
    I've always thought that you've done well with your dates identities...it's not like you put her whole name and address on blast...you might should have...I thought at first you went to jail for a Chris Brown beatdown...I'm glad you didn't...
  • Thanks for the comment Natalie. I rest at night knowing that every thing will be ok. I'm not going to stress over it... that's my lawyers job. It is just a sign of how everything can/will come to light thru the internet. I will keep everyone updated as I go forward.
  • Eathan I'm very sorry to hear of what has happened. I've dealt with someone who did harass me on the internet - this doesn't sound like what has happened - in true harassment style the table's have been turned on you. Assuming victim status and distracting from the real issue - if anyone is the victim it's you. But of course, if you are honest about what has happened, that person isn't free to go around spreading their disease. That's the trouble with modern times - you do bad deeds and people will find out pretty quickly because the internet makes the world a very small place. I'm sure you'll get it resolved but it's annoying and costly. Her behaviour is outrageous.
  • I'm very vocal about what I do for a living and what I write about. I don't hide it. Most people are surprised to find out that I have several ex's that still read my site. I'm not sure why anyone would be upset that I wrote about them, unless they were doing something that they weren't proud of.

    My rule is.. if you do it.. own up to it. :)
  • Thanks so much T. I'll keep everyone updated.
  • T
    Holy crap Eathan!! I can't believe this!

    Thinking of you and sending prayers your way for a quick resolution. Wow...
  • Nellie
    People do crazy things when they feel attacked. No one likes their wrongdoings shoved back in their face.

    And freedom of speech doesn't always cover your ass. Maybe I missed a post, but do the women you write about here know about the blog? Even though you don't use names, I'd be angry if I came across it one day and recognized myself.
  • Thanks for the comment Daryl and prayers
    Actually the site that is being investigated did mention her name. However, it DIDN'T mention her current address or phone number. I still have to believe that Freedom of Speech covers this issue, but it will be a couple months before we know anything specific.

    As far as it being a racial issue.. ya never know. There are plenty of haters in the area. On a side note.. I had a ex steal a laptop from me. She admitted it to the police and the local D.A. office dropped the case. 6 yrs later I'm still irritated.
  • Daryl
    That is some crazy s%$#! Who the f%@# were you supposedly harrassing? She is the guilty one here. You are the victim. Does the D.A. have anything else to do besides VIOLATE your rights to Freedom of Speech? They act like you were running some website on how to make bombs, rise against the government, or how to traffic children for immoral purposes. Yeah, a blog about a man's dating experiences is truly truly dangerous. No names mentioned! No addresses given out! I told a friend about it last night and he had to go there - it might be because he is ablack man that is dating white women. Lord forbid if every white woman gets a taste of chocolate and never turns back. LMAO.

    Keep your head up man. Sending out prayers for you and everyone involved on your end.
  • Thanks for the comment Celeste. I'm not sure if writing facts, positive or negative can be truly considered as harassment. There are several parts of the law that are open for discussion. With that being said, it's a bit premature to know what exactly they feel I have violated.
  • Celeste
    Well, if what you said was factual (and I believe it was), she can't call it libel. She can't stop you from discussing or writing about this. I understand that it's not wise to discuss it online while it's pending.

    Sounds like she has a guilty conscience for what SHE did to YOU. Either that, or she's actually a hooker and you are messing with her livelihood.
  • I would love to share with you the statue that I violated also. I won't know exactly what it is until after the Grand Jury hearing. If I am indicted they will list the statue and I'll share it on the site. At this time, I'm planning on dealing with one legal action at a time.

    I'm waiting until after the Grand Jury hearing to share on my business site also.

    The only thing I can really say is, I'm working on a E-Book that will outline everything. It will happen soon.
  • Online/Internet Harassment? Please!

    As a writer of erotica, I've been harassed online before. I've had men email, leave messages on my blog, and constantly IM me. Apparently they think that because I write porn, I want to act out my stories with them. I wouldn't even try to press charges against even the most persistent, because they are my fans and I love them.. I just won't have sex with them. lol

    I'd be interested in seeing the statute you violated. As far as I know, all you did was discuss your experience. It's not like you listed her name and address. I think you should sue her. She put your health in jeopardy. People with STD's should be required to disclose it.

    Dude, you need to find more intelligent women. Now, EVERYONE is going to know who she is and what she did while no one would have known anything if she wouldn't have pressed charges on a bogus claim.
  • Thanks for the comment Monique.

    I restricted from commenting on your question at this time…. but as soon as I can answer.. I will tell it all.
  • Yes it is truly a nightmare..lol

    But I guess I’ll add this to the list of bad experiences. I plan to make lemonade from this latest batch of lemons

    I’m planning for the worst.. and expecting the best.

    Thanks for the kind words Mindy.
  • Wow... what a bunch of garbage.

    I hope everything comes out in your favor and that in the end it is she who comes out looking like a fool for knowingly and willingly spreading her STD. I wonder how many other men she has done that to.
  • Yikes! So sorry to hear. What a nightmare.

    I'm sure that's one date you will never forget. And ALWAYS regret.

    I wish for the best possible outcome for you and your family.
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