Every now and then things happen that leave me shaking my head. And that’s exactly what happened a few weeks ago. Since my recent arrest and release from the local county jail, I reconnected with one of my ex’s from a couple years ago. Actually she and I have casually dated for the last 3-4 years. I won’t mention her name, but our last rendezvous happened a couple nights after The Drunk Confession by my Swirl Nightmare.
On that particular night, we met for a couple drinks at a not so prominent pub. We spent most of the evening catching up and then she followed me home. Of course we had a few hours of intense sexual relief. She didn’t stay the night and I didn’t mind. She has always understood her role.
Well since then, we’ve been chatting a lot more. We don’t talk on a regular basis, but we stay connected. But recently I decided that I would spend the weekend with Alpha Boy & Dirt Bike Boy at the pool & BBQ all weekend. Since she didn’t have her kids, she came by for a bit. I turned out to be a interesting evening. Since I live within walking distance from Dirt Bike Boy’s mom, they finally met. There wasn’t any drama, just a simple introduction. But that wasn’t the interesting part of the day.
The interesting part of the day happened when she sat down with me on the patio. She revealed that she missed me. She wanted to put more effort in spending time with me. Basically she wants to date me exclusively. I was a shocked. When we originally met, she and I used to live a few blocks apart. I don’t exactly remember what it was that made me keep it casual, but now I’m starting to wonder what it was. She mentioned that I never gave her a real chance for serious dates. I thought she wanted to have more kids. And since I’m using the best swirl birth control, aka vasectomy, I run from women who want more kids. But she tells me that she doesn’t have a desire for more kids.
After she left, even my neighbors commented on how attractive and nice she is. They also mention how Alpha & Dirt Bike Boy like her also. I mentioned to them that she drove across town to tell me that she wants to date. Now they are wondering why I haven’t dated her. And for some reason I’m re-evaluating our relationship.

