There are times when you end a relationship it feels as if there is unfinished business. It has been a couple weeks since I’ve gone out with EJ32. Originally we spent a couple weeks getting to know each other. Probably a little too much and too quick. But after one of our friends was killed in a senseless act of violence, we abruptly stopped seeing each other. At the time it was the best thing for both of us.
The next couple weeks I could tell we would cross paths to clear the air. I just didn’t realize it would be so soon. It started with a text from EJ32 while I was at another woman’s house. EJ32 was walking home tipsy from the club and thought she passed me. The one text turned into a several conversations over the next few days. Everything came together when she came by my house. 
We greeted each other with a hug and several kisses. I’ll admit that I didn’t expect to see her so quickly. I figured I’d see her months from now. But we decided to hit the patio with a bottle of wine and talk under the midnight stars. Our conversation involved us catching up over the last couple weeks. She filled me in on the detail of the funeral & memorial service of our friend. She was much closer to him that I was. And then we began to sort out the details of our relationship or the lack of one.
EJ32 made it clear to me that she wants to have a family, kids and etc. She wants to have at least one biracial baby and experience motherhood. As good as that sounds, I’m not interested in getting married. I’m not interested in having more kids. I didn’t disclose any of this at the time because, this wasn’t the time to address our differences. I felt this was the time to figure out if we wanted to go forward. After a hour on the patio it was time to crash. Against my better judgement EJ32 & I ended up getting buck booty wild naked.
The problem with this situation is EJ32 is a overachiever in her career. Her income is well over $200k a year. And normally that would be enough to make her a priority on my dating radar. But I’m not interested in getting married or having more kids. And I’m not even sure if I want to go forward with a casual relationship with her.
At this point I have 2 great women to choose from, KT35 and EJ32. They are separated by about $200k a year and 2 kids. What’s your thoughts? Would you attempt to convince EJ35 not to have kids? Or agree to marriage if she gave up on having kids?
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