Lately I’ve been thinking about monogamy. Mostly because I’ve watched several people try to revive their relationship after a cheating mate. I’ve had plenty of opportunity to think about this topic for the last couple years. And I’ve probably changed my mind at least a hundred times.
Everyone knows that monogamy is having one partner or mate. As a single guy I’ve known many variations of monogamy. With several relationships in my past monogamy only applied to our sexual relationship. And of course I’ve done the traditional, full package monogamy that revolves around not dating or hooking up with any other woman.
The reason I mention monogamy is because AD33 and I have been discussing monogamy and what it means. If monogamy exists in a relationship, there will have be trust. Trust that the other person honors the commitment also. Once that trust is broken, the relationship has 2 choices. It can end the relationship or it can change the terms of the relationship. I realized this a few nights ago when I was out listening to a band at a pub. AD33 and I were watching a local band at the Down Under Pub, when I noticed the one that got away. She was across the bar with sitting with her re-united husband. We briefly made eye contact with each other, which was strange. But I noticed she appeared very uncomfortable when the husband was gone to the restroom for an extended period of time. I could sense that she still didn’t trust him. So it made me wonder if that’s a direct result of his years of cheating on her. 
Or if she was worried that I might make an attempt to speak. I maintained my position and just observed things from a far. But it made me curious if everyone is happy in paradise. Or is it just a show?
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