Dirt Bike Boy And The Neighbor

by Eathan

Over the years my patience has been tested more times than I can remember.  Most recently I was tested by a neighbor regarding Dirt Bike Boy.  As I mentioned previously, I live across the street from Dirt Bike Boy’s mother.  I moved across the street at her request to help with Dirt Bike Boy.  And this is an example of why my presence was needed.

Like most elementary school age kids, Dirt Bike Boy has a lot of friends to play with.  Most of the time the kids run between houses.  They spend time at my house, my ex’s and the other kids house.  And just like when I grew up, eating at everyone else house is just the normal thing to do.   children playing  It becomes a joint effort to parent, watch and entertain the kids in the neighborhood.  Normally that means taking turns with the kids at the pool, taking them to the park and even cooking hot dogs and burgers.  So far everything seems normal right?

The problem began when a neighbor, who doesn’t have any kids, began to try to give parenting advice.  Most of the time I’m polite and just ignore her comments.  After a few weeks of listening to her comments, I finally told her I was the HNIC and didn’t need her parenting tips.  I also mentioned that since she wasn’t a parent, her tips weren’t welcome in my world.  I thought that would solve the problem.  It didn’t.

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  • I believe in the old “never say never” so as a father of four…I wouldn’t say I wouldn’t take advice from someone who didn’t have kids. I don’t give advice out to fellow parents either. I have talked about things my X and I had done but not one to be telling someone how to handle their kids
    I guess it depends on the person as well as the advice. There are some professionals i.e. therapist or counselors who may not have children and I’d take their advice. If it was a young man or woman, who was…say late 20’s or early 30’s I’d listen to them and if they made sense I’d give them kudos and if not I’d tell them too. In short advice is like feedback and with feedback there is three things you can do with it. Think about it, use it or throw it away.
  • I would say that I would never take advice from someone that didn't have children. How can you speak of something that you have NO practical knowledge about? That is like me telling a mechanic how to take out a transmission and never been to any school or course on auto repair. This beotch needs to grow the f#%k up.
  • I feel the same way. It was hard for me to be nice about it...but I did slip up and tell her I was the "HNIC" :)
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