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[27 Jun 2008 | 11 Comments | ]

I’m having issues with an insecure woman.  I don’t really understand why there are so many people who are insecure with themselves.  I’ve noticed that women who are constantly asking for reassurance are a total turn off.  Here’s the scenario.  I’ve met a woman that I’m attracted to.  At 1st she seemed to be very confident and secure.  The more I talk to her, the more she regresses.  Every time I make plans with her, she will always call me back with in a couple days to ask if I really …

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[26 Jun 2008 | No Comment | ]
Finding my way home

Guest post by Josey.  Josey is my personal friend,  long time reader and fan of IDW.  This is her introduction to interracial dating. I am a single female, 36, who takes great care of herself and have been blessed physically with beautiful features, including a warm, eye catching smile. I was in two long term relationships with white men and had truly only really been exposed to white men as I grew up in a middle class populated with primarily “white” people, whatever that is… After the 2nd long term relationship ended, …

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[26 Jun 2008 | 6 Comments | ]

As many of you know, I have always been open to questions from readers.  Sometimes I have already replied to this topic previously so I don’t reply right away.  The last few weeks I have received emails from a couple new readers.  I didn’t reply right away because I was occupied with other topics at the time.  
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[25 Jun 2008 | 7 Comments | ]
Blood thicker than race?

Guest post by Rena.  Rena is a long time reader and fan of IDW.  This is her personal experience with interracial dating and family. I’m the daughter of an Italian man. My grandparents immigrated to the United States in the 40’s and my father was born and raised here in this beautiful country of diversity. On the outside, he was a great guy, life of the party, had a diverse group of friends and was friendly toward everyone from everywhere. He married my mother, who is German and French and …

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[23 Jun 2008 | 10 Comments | ]

This exercise is going to take group participation.  It’s also going to take using your imagination.  I found my self watching a teen movie last night.  It was the typical comedy about a group of guy trying to lose their virginity.  It’s been so long since I was a virgin, I had to laugh.  During this movie it made me think of some interesting questions.  If you were going to lose your virginity again, who would you want to lose it to?  You can pick anyone on the planet.  You …

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[18 Jun 2008 | One Comment | ]

Do people still have an issue with this?
Do heads still turn when interracial couples are out together?
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[10 Jun 2008 | 19 Comments | ]

I am always amazed at how many people treat interracial dating as a type of ‘jungle fever’ that you can get a prescription to fix. It seems that no matter how many times you explain it or how many different ways you express your ideas, someone will always be offended.  Someone will always get their feelings hurt or they will take it as a personal insult.  Today I was in email with a lovely black woman who had some of the normal questions that I receive. 
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[3 Jun 2008 | 9 Comments | ]

I had something interesting happen to me in the last couple days.  I recently found a name and phone number in my glorious crack-berry phone.  I don’t remember who it is.  I thought for a few minutes and I still can’t remember who it is.  This went on for a few days.  So eventually I decided to send a text message.  I received the normal, “who is this”.  We messaged back and forth for the next couple days.  Yesterday I woke up with her email address in my phone.  So …

 
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[28 May 2008 | 4 Comments | ]

Eathan asked me to write a guest post and pretty much gave me free reign, but I thought it would be interesting to write on a topic of his choice.  Of course, his topic of choice was interracial dating specifically what drives women who have not dated a black man to do so…especially exclusively. To give you an idea of the prevalence of interracial dating in the US, here are some interesting stats that I found clicking around the web. 40% of Americans have dated outside their race. While that …

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[23 May 2008 | 2 Comments | ]

Would you date your friend’s ex? ( polls)
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