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Recently there is a lot in the news and media about the Mosque controversy near ground zero.  There have been staged protests, media commentaries and plenty of well written blogs.   But it makes me sad to see so much said out of ignorance and anger.  And yet as I read all of the anti-muslim rhetoric, I wonder what happened to the multicultural acceptance.

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Guest post from Jerri.  So …I have been kinda seeing this guy now. I like him. And he’s way hot …just one thing… he doesn’t like to kiss (!??!)  The first time we kissed, I initiated it and he claimed I almost took his lip off.  Afterwards I spent much time thinking he just wasn’t into me since he never kissed me and I didn’t make the first move again.

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Interracial Sleep Over

by Priscilla

For the last couple of weeks, I’ve been seeing one person exclusively. I wrote about his entrance into my universe in my last post, Dating Detox Update. I had finally decided to end an ambiguous and dysfunctional relationship to allow someone different into my life.

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Interracial Distance Dating

by Priscilla

Those of you who are regular readers know that for the last few weeks I’ve been doing Dating Detox. That means no dating in order to get in touch with what I want in life and relationships (see my post entitled Doing the Dating Detox).

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Same Circus, Different Clowns Pt II

by Priscilla

Today’s post is written by Priscilla San Remo. I’m not supposed to be dating right now, but since part of my Dating Detox homework is to figure out what I like in my dates, I decided to do a little window shopping. I hid my profile on Match (so I could cruise with impunity) and started looking at African American men

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Same Circus, Different Clowns Pt 1

by Priscilla

Today’s post is written by Priscilla San Remo. Readers of my last post, Doing the Dating Detox, know that I have embarked on a sabbatical from dating, at least for the next month or so.

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Doing the Dating Detox

by Priscilla

Today’s post is written by Priscilla San Remo. Anyone who knows me is aware that lately the men in my world have been working my last nerve. There are those who get off with just a warning: the flakes who don’t call when they say they will; the agonizers who want to email indefinitely through online dating sites without ever making a phone call; and the fools who don’t read my dating profile and contact me anyway, regardless of how mismatched we are.

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How Far Would You Go?

by Priscilla

I received a call today from a friend of mine who is on vacation in Antigua. Like me, Anita dates mostly black men. She has had a few boyfriends since divorcing 10 years ago and moving in next door to me, but over the years she always went out with William, a black native Antiguan, whenever she was “down on the island,” which was at least three times a year

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Get Out Your Boxing Gloves

by Priscilla

Today’s post is written by Priscilla San Remo. We write volumes these days about how many advances have been made in interracial dating. We have social messaging platforms, online matchmaking services, and technology beyond our wildest dreams to facilitate the meeting up of men and women. But I’m here to tell you, all that progress aside, it’s getting mean out there.

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When Good Goes Bad

by Priscilla

Over the holidays this winter I had a new man in my life for a very short time. I met Bryce through an online dating site, which is not unusual for me. What was different was that he lives in the same town I do.

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