Actual Dates

It’s Friday and I’m going to keep things on the light side.  There are a few lessons to be learned by the following topics.  I am only mentioning these topics because of the interracial-ness of the people involved.

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I~Swirl Apparel Now Available

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That’s right Orenthal James Simpson changed the world.  Well he did change the conversation around the office break room and that says a lot.  Who can forget that 16 yrs ago, 1994, O.J. was involved in a slow speed chase.  It was on every TV station.  Believe it or not, no one could look away.  If the IPhone was invented back then, AT&T’s network would crash from so many people watching.  But O.J. changed the interracial world in a lot of ways.

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Who Contributes More To Relationships?

by Eathan

Lately the comments of Houston rapper Slim Thug has been echoing through out the black community.  Some have reacted with disgust, shock, and disbelief.  Others are quietly agreeing with him on so many levels.  For all those who didn’t get a chance to read it, I’ll share just a excerpt from the Vibe interview. I~Swirl [...]

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Top 5 Things To Remember When You Get Arrested

by Eathan

As I’ve said before, I’m not of the criminal mind and I never will be.  But I have been irresponsible in the past and didn’t pay a ticket, had a bad check when I was 18 and even was in contempt of court during my divorce.  So that means I’ve spent a night or two [...]

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The Most White People Ever

by Eathan

As an active father, I’m always encouraging Alpha Boy to expand his horizons.  And for the most part he has my spirit of adventure.  Recently he went with a few friends to the Texas Motor Speedway for a Indy race.  I’ve mentioned before that I love fast cars, but I don’t enjoy going to the [...]

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She Wants Me Back

by Eathan

Every now and then things happen that leave me shaking my head.  And that’s exactly what happened a few weeks ago.  Since my recent arrest and release from the local county jail, I reconnected with one of my ex’s from a couple years ago.  Actually she and I have casually dated for the last 3-4 [...]

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Interracial marriage still rising

by Eathan

A few weeks ago I read an interesting article about interracial marriages.  According to census figures, interracial marriages among American born Hispanics and Asians are slowing.  The interesting thing is Black Americans are more likely to marry a white American more than ever.  I was a bit shocked to find out that blacks are 3 [...]

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I Was Arrested

by Eathan

A couple months ago I had what I’ve described as a Interracial Sex Nightmare.  I went out with someone, had unprotected sex with them and she informed me the next morning she had Herpes (not the healthy kind).  As a result of this event, I wrote about it.  I wanted to share the experience with [...]

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Follow My New Journey

by Eathan

I know that many of you are wondering what is going on here at IDW.  Well, I’m about ready to break my silence and spill the beans.  And in typical Idatewhite form, I’m still alive… I’m still dating… and I’m still raising Alpha Boy & Dirt Bike Boy.  But before I detail my life as [...]

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Saturday With EJ32

by Eathan

Going into the weekend, I didn’t make any plans.  I decided to finally make an effort to meet someone that I’ve been texting/chatting with for the last couple weeks, EJ32.  Initially our connection was made online.  Since the weather was beautiful on Saturday, I offered to meet her for lunch.  We agreed to meet at [...]

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